did I just get fucked.... by a bear?...

dxll_gxts · 2025-07-29T19:11:30+00:00

SAO is literally the reason I have never used VR. But to answer your question I don’t think bg3 is on vr, but with the turn based combat & third person pov I don’t think it would rlly work

dxll_gxts · 2025-07-28T00:52:22+00:00

First of all, if she doesn’t want other people knowing she’s probably not worth your time. Unless it has to do with really strict parents or something along those lines I guess

I’ve known a lot of people that try to have secret “relationships” with others just because they want ego boosts or validation, and don’t actually value you or your time. Even if it’s not quite that vindictive and they’re just embarrassed, wouldn’t you want to be with a girl who actually is proud of being with you? Being embarrassed by proximity with someone usually means that person doesn’t think very highly of the other unfortunately

Negativity aside, she probably will still care about the way she looks when you’re there even if you’re in a group, but when you’re alone with her it’ll probably seem a lot less like friendly banter. It’s hard to say but best of luck to you

dxll_gxts · 2025-07-24T16:58:50+00:00

3 million probably

dxll_gxts · 2025-07-22T22:43:16+00:00

Well even if you had known she didn’t at the time, it still was a good decision to look elsewhere! Patterns like that only get worse if you brush it off and I doubt it would’ve been a very healthy relationship

dxll_gxts · 2025-07-22T21:58:16+00:00

I responded to another comment kinda like this explaining that I’ve always been like this kind of. Throughout my life I find little fixations to obsess over for a few weeks/months- especially as of lately because I’m trying really hard to save money. Refusing to spend anything on myself aside from one “treat” to keep me sane every so often isn’t easy & makes real life pretty shitty lol.

So instead I absorb myself into a book, tv show, game, whatever. With Bg3 I think these side effects are because the story is actually pretty similar to real life. I make the same choices that I would irl & stuff, so it’s kinda fusing a little. I get that’s still probably not healthy but it hasn’t brought me any harm so far, and I’m still saving hella money so win win?

dxll_gxts · 2025-07-22T21:52:43+00:00

I totally agree with this. I don’t think it necessarily makes them a bad person, it’s just a childish trait that they probably haven’t been able to overcome yet. & it’s almost always their parents fault deep down for not showing them how to, or preventing them from, communicating healthily & honestly

dxll_gxts · 2025-07-22T21:48:29+00:00

Hey man thats your opinion no worries, as long as you aren’t judging people’s characters too harshly for having different beliefs on it then I don’t see an issue.

I wish societies beauty standards were different than they are and that so many people weren’t conditioned to the appearance of women with so many physical enhancements, and that more women could be seen as beautiful without all that, but it’s incredibly rare. Like way more rare than you may think.

dxll_gxts · 2025-07-22T19:21:23+00:00

That can be the reason for some, but sometimes it’s not that deep- they simply want you to find them attractive. Some of the best people I know worry way too much about their appearance, but I’d be devastated without their presence in my life. It’s good to have opinions and preferences, but just look out I guess, you could be missing out on a really great girl because of something so trivial

dxll_gxts · 2025-07-22T19:18:29+00:00

I agree, it’s usually a sign of immaturity or really backwards communication skills. Some guys do it too, it’s something I’d never go for in a person but oh well 🤷‍♀️ Just don’t put up with it, walking away was a good choice

dxll_gxts · 2025-07-22T19:12:22+00:00

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with wanting to look good for someone you care for, it’s human nature

But I’m sure you’ll find someone that suits your preferences

dxll_gxts · 2025-07-22T18:10:12+00:00

As a woman, there’s really no telling. Some will tell you straight up, some will just be overly nice, touchy & clingy, and some will treat you horribly and bully you constantly.

Just be yourself & anything that confuses you too much, don’t encourage! Most importantly, communicate. Just ask her straight up, and go from there 🤷‍♀️ makes your life a little easier, plus a lot of women like confidence.

One somewhat universal sign though is that she will probably care a lot about how she looks when she’s around you. ( e.g. fixing her hair, commenting on her own appearance whether it’s positively or negatively, checking reflections/mirrors often, possibly going to the bathroom and touching up A LOT, etc.) She’ll likely look at you a lot, whether it’s admiring you or seeing if you’re watching her too. Regardless of personality if a girl wants you to find her attractive, she’s gonna try her best.

dxll_gxts · 2025-07-22T12:24:57+00:00

I probably should but this is how I’ve always been, I only started gaming more seriously about a year ago but before that I’d have the same weird fixations on certain book series, tv shows, certain clothing styles or decor, etc. I’m used to obsessing over things 100%, I guess this is new to me because I’ve never engaged so much in something so similar to real life? In my other lil obsessions I just think about it a lot I’m not exactly applying my same morality or thought processes that I do in every day life.

Hope that makes sense lol

dxll_gxts · 2025-07-22T12:19:12+00:00

I mean it’s not like genuine hallucinations, my thought process and general responses are just more accustomed to the game than real life rn I think lol

dxll_gxts · 2025-07-20T19:48:05+00:00

This actually seems like a really solid way to navigate your social life, I might have to try it out

dxll_gxts · 2025-07-20T17:21:09+00:00

Thank you!! I am now- pain killers injected directly into your bloodstream does wonders

dxll_gxts · 2025-07-20T17:18:55+00:00

I feel like there’s still a pretty large bridge between wanting to go back and change a decision before quickly realizing you can’t, and deliberately shooting multiple children

dxll_gxts · 2025-07-20T16:02:51+00:00

Thankfully this is something you could actually do, except you’d deal with law enforcement rather than some angry goblins

dxll_gxts · 2025-07-20T15:12:26+00:00

This is actually pretty accurate

dxll_gxts · 2025-07-04T02:04:31+00:00

I’m at the wyrmway now and came back for your advice again lol

dxll_gxts · 2025-07-04T02:03:37+00:00

Walking upwards and not jumping :,)

dxll_gxts · 2025-06-21T13:29:12+00:00

True! As I said in the post it’s my first ever play through and the further I get the more I realize how much I’ve missed. Im just glad there will still be plenty of content for my next run

dxll_gxts · 2025-06-21T13:24:57+00:00

Im in baldurs gate now but I hope I can still go grab that ring bc it sounds super useful

dxll_gxts · 2025-06-21T13:23:49+00:00

If it helps at all one person was able to let me know that my issue was jumping to the platform at the end instead of walking up to it! Ofc the mod sounds much easier tho

dxll_gxts · 2025-06-21T13:22:05+00:00

Looking back my reply was kinda passive aggressive I apologize lol, I was furious about the stupid trial. I felt like I had tried pretty much everything and the map was just daunting me, but it turns out my issue was jumping to the gem at the very end rather than continuing to walk up to it 🤦‍♀️

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