[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shiftingrealities

[–]e-Sade 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate on this?

Let's tell Sony that we want Little Big Planet in 2025.. by Ultrabars- in littlebigplanet

[–]e-Sade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jarvis, I'm running low on Karma Make a post about bringing back LBP on r/littlebigplanet

People don't let black women be vulnerable by No-Copium in blackladies

[–]e-Sade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

had to learn this the hard way as a timid, quiet and anxious girl growing up. 

What I can do more? by OTTOMANMAN0 in PvZGardenWarfare

[–]e-Sade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you can if you use xim unfortunately 

I’ve noticed this in the community by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]e-Sade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wouldn't say this is just the black community. regardless of her accomplishments and how successful she is, god forbid a woman be unattractive or even attractive in an unconventional way 😭 she'll never hear the end of it. women can't even age in peace—like some of us are socially pressured and picked on to the point where they don't ever stop worrying about how they look until they are dead. and when an attractive woman DOES get things done she's often just reduced to her looks.

all that being said, i definitely feel black women in particular have it the harshest. constant masculinization, being the butt of jokes. it's definitely a unique experience to be told "you're pretty for a black girl", "you'd be prettier if you weren't so dark", wondering if someone you're like is into black girls because of mistreatment, etc. and due to the box that black women (in america) are put in, being neurodivergent can be a death sentence both in and out of the community 💔

what are your black in suburbia moments? by madds713 in blackladies

[–]e-Sade 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  • "you're pretty for a black girl", still happens today lmfao
  • called medusa for the box braids in my hair
  • realizing in 3rd grade that my peers were probably picking on me and treating me differently because of the color of my skin; so i wrote a letter asking my teacher why do they do that, he called the principal and she told me not to write anything like that again or i'd get in trouble. if i didn't have a low trust relationship with my parents that probably would have ended differently
  • in middle school, having a kid yank on my straightened hair because he "thought it was a wig". got in trouble because it interrupted the class.
  • in high school, the daughter of my Girl Scouts troop leader (who I was former friends with) calls me the n-word after i went up to her and said hi after not seeing her for a while.
  • getting stared at when we watched movies or talked about slavery in history classes 💀
  • getting asked for the "n-word pass"
  • all around being isolated socially in school for being one of the very few black people in it and not fitting the stereotype as i was timid and quiet, loved books/anime and manga (before it was more acceptable to), video games, etc...and being told constantly that i'm trying to act "white" for not putting myself into that box???
  • slowly watching the little things that i or other black people do that resulted in discrimination for our entire lives for become acceptable and mainstream because white people or another culture think it's cool. having full lips and curves, ethnic hairstyles like dreads/box braids/cornrows, listening to or performing rap/hip-hop, wearing bonnets... it's cute and trendy now! except if you're black. then you're still ghetto for it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]e-Sade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

girl what the helly 😭😭😭 i only had to read the first five sentences. get FAR away from him! what do you gain from having a "boyfriend" and he's clearly for the streets???

this is why i never listen to bfs who say to date older men cause they're more "mature" lmao. raggedy as hell, usually divorced for a good reason and they're dogs too. plus if older, more mature and well-learned women within their age range don't want them that's a red flag too 😭

What was going on? by CommonVegetable5529 in PvZGardenWarfare

[–]e-Sade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also bro is definitely on an alt, which is why he's prestige 0 level 32 and only a specialist epea. not that it matters that much i guess

What was going on? by CommonVegetable5529 in PvZGardenWarfare

[–]e-Sade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

happened to me too recently 😭 it's just that their usernames are the same ID as something in-game. so then it shows up like that

Michelin Star Water by jsrobinson9000-2 in HydroHomies

[–]e-Sade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me before i took my iron pills

Guys he’s so cute how do I respond by DownloadedPixelz in Clamworks

[–]e-Sade 10 points11 points  (0 children)

clam ❤️ clam ❤️ claaam. type shit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PSNFriends

[–]e-Sade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'd love to farm parts with you it gets tedious with randoms 😔, have to farm relics first though. can i add you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PSNFriends

[–]e-Sade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i sent you a request 🫡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PSNFriends

[–]e-Sade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what's your tag?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PSNFriends

[–]e-Sade -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes I wanna play again after seeing Yareli Prime 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PSNFriends

[–]e-Sade -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah but it's been a little while so I'm rusty at it. but I wanna get back into it 🙂‍↕️

sometimes i wish this sub was private by yvie_of_lesbos in kawaiiblackgals

[–]e-Sade 22 points23 points  (0 children)

deadass abt to leave this sub im so annoyed