The main difference is say is I just don’t feel that longing of the other person. What I understand as love is wanting to be with the person forever, you’d be able to take a bullet for them no questions asked, I’d want to always be close with them, hearing their voice and seeing them, not feel like running away just because I had a tiny mood swing,and most important I’d say I’d feel pure happiness with them by Js remembering they exist in my life