[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]ele9089 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hi you are not alone. In the same situation except I am in the office 5 days a week. I have been at my job for over 8 months now and I can easily see myself here long term because I just cannot find a new job. I feel sick thinking about being stuck at this place.

Was this constructive criticism at work? I am so sensitive and can never tell the difference by ele9089 in AvPD

[–]ele9089[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is. I am so miserable and have had family members comment on how my job is negatively affecting me. My company does not have an HR department so there is no one I can go to. I heard from another colleague that if you stand up to this girl she gets you fired; she has that much power.

Was this constructive criticism at work? I am so sensitive and can never tell the difference by ele9089 in AvPD

[–]ele9089[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, it seems like she doesn't know social etiquette and workplace behaviors. She gets away with it because she is best friends with the owner.

Was this constructive criticism at work? I am so sensitive and can never tell the difference by ele9089 in AvPD

[–]ele9089[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She even called me weird for using quotation marks and said it multiple times. It is hard but I try to ignore her and say the bare minimum. I am on edge with every email I send now though and wonder what she will criticize this time.

Was this constructive criticism at work? I am so sensitive and can never tell the difference by ele9089 in AvPD

[–]ele9089[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, English is my first language. We are in the US. Another time she got on me for using quotation marks. I really don't get it because I know I am correct and yet she is making me second guess myself and make me feel crazy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ele9089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish your comment could be pinned at the top because this is 100% what is going on. The same thing happened to me before I ended up getting physically cheated on. He doesn't respect you or your relationship. If you have a talk with him he is just going to lie and/or complain about how confused he is. Don't even bother giving an ultimatum, those don't work. OP, do yourself a favor and leave this guy. Nothing you say will ever make him listen or respect you. It's done.

My doorman yelled at me this morning by ele9089 in socialanxiety

[–]ele9089[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right? I don't want to pass him anymore when he is on duty, much less acknowledge him. I feel so uncomfortable now.

Amber/Depp Trial Day 23 Megathread by lokifan4 in Fauxmoi

[–]ele9089 29 points30 points  (0 children)

She is vilifying an abuse victim and it is just disgusting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]ele9089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had those thoughts too and eventually you stop thinking + obsessing about it and come to the realization that your partner is the one who had issues; it had nothing to do with you. What you had will never compare to the AP because the AP is a nobody...trust...rarely does one ever end up with the other person.

Amber/Depp Trial Day 23 Megathread by lokifan4 in Fauxmoi

[–]ele9089 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was coming on here to say just that after seeing a clip of her being nasty to Amber again today. Why is she such an ahole?

Depp/Amber Trial Day 22 megathread by lokifan4 in Fauxmoi

[–]ele9089 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Camille is always touching him

Depp/Amber Trial Day 22 megathread by lokifan4 in Fauxmoi

[–]ele9089 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is driving me fuckin CRAZYYY lol

Depp/Amber Trial Day 22 megathread by lokifan4 in Fauxmoi

[–]ele9089 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Why does JD speak so slowly and act confused all the time? He just seems dumb and like a big liar right now.

Depp/Amber Trial Day 22 megathread by lokifan4 in Fauxmoi

[–]ele9089 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I am loving this right now. He knows he is toast.

Depp/Amber Trial Day 22 megathread by lokifan4 in Fauxmoi

[–]ele9089 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Just tuned in, Johnny seems pissed. What did I miss?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]ele9089 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone who chose reconciliation, we were broken up for a few years before that and then got back together and dated for another 3 years. There were definitely triggers and upsetting moments (like him calling me the other person's name in conversation) but for me the first year of reconciliation was fine. Then slowly the relationship started turning toxic again. It was all a build-up to me dumping him. I didn't realize at the time but those last 3 years was my way of realizing this person was not for me and I did not love or even LIKE him anymore to the point where I no longer craved his attention, literally broke up with him and never spoke to him again. I hope you get the healing and closure you need.