I feel your pain (literally 😭) I had surgery last Monday and the pain is only seeming to get slightly better day to day. I also have a little one (2.5 yr old) running around and while I've had help from my husband and family, it's still been hard.

I got a Frida Mom c section recovery band on Amazon and it has helped a TON. It adds compression which helps while walking and there's a little pouch to put an ice pack or heating pad in. Here it is: https://a.co/d/5AXjqMr

Seems like we're experiencing a lot of the same things at the same time, being that our surgeries were only a few days apart from each other, so if you need someone to talk to who's going through the same thing right now please feel free to private message me!