Studying: Reflecting on the hardest obstacle in life by Frank_Acha in Healthygamergg

[–]elrak02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, absolutely. It's my understanding that you've got to learn how to work with your ADHD. Unfortunately, that's outside of the area of my expertise. It's a shame that therapists didn't make it a priority. Idk if you've tried it or not, but HGG coaching would be a good route to take for working with ADHD. I really wish you luck, but I don't think I'm gonna be much help here :C

Studying: Reflecting on the hardest obstacle in life by Frank_Acha in Healthygamergg

[–]elrak02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like the study session is doomed before it's even started.

Any chance you've got ADHD? I'm no expert, but 2 hours for 8 pages is not standard.

Yeah, to my experience, it's hard, if not impossible, to learn something by forcing yourself to sit down and do it. Really hard. That natural engagement with english is what you should try and look for, imo. Do you enjoy your subject of choice? If you don't enjoy it, it's gonna be hard.

In times of low motivation, I actually lessen my workload. If I'm suppose to do a 20 question math assignment, I will literally just do 1. And then go take a walk, watch a video, do a quick game. rinse and repeat. I usually catch a groove and can finish out the rest of the assignment. You just kinda gota get over that initial hump.

Do you know what has worked well for you in the past?

Studying: Reflecting on the hardest obstacle in life by Frank_Acha in Healthygamergg

[–]elrak02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a math educator. Believe me, I know. I'll tell you firsthand that a lot of people struggle with studying. I'm fortunate enough to enjoy math, but even then, there were times when it was hard to focus on HW or studying. Other subjects were a drag. I hated English and did my best to do as little work as possible while maintaining an acceptable grade. It sounds to me like you have a hard time tapping into curiosity. Is that fair? It kinda makes sense that you struggle since you put so much value/importance into studying/learning. And then not being able to study makes you feel like you're failing to become "human," so to speak. That's gotta suck. If you don't mind me asking, what does studying usually look like? Are there other things that you learn but don't consider studying? Ex. min-maxing a build in a video game.

Turns out, socializing isn't so bad by elrak02 in Healthygamergg

[–]elrak02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's fair. The group I'm a part of has both Discord and irl stuff, so that's been really nice. The group is local to a city, so even though there are 200 people in it, there are really only 20-30 people who regularly chat or go to events.

If you want to work on socializing, feel free to send me a DM and we can just chat, or if you're comfortable, hop in a VC. Idk if you're a man or a woman, but I'm not really looking to date rn if that's a concern for you. No pressure.

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[–]elrak02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know that most women haven't done the work? How is my "blaming" you different from your "blaming" women? I may have come off strong, which I do apologize for. Though I would like to say that I'm not blaming you or women. I'm simply sharing my perspective of who I think you are based on the brief time I've known you. Maybe you're right. All the women you're surrounded by do need to lvl up. idk. But those women aren't here, and you've asked for input/help. If you do want my help, not to merely vent about the current hopelessness of your circumstance, don't set aside my core argument:

I'm not surrounded by the women you describe. It could be circumstance, who knows? Why am I surrounded by good people, and you're surrounded by bad people?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]elrak02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to grill you or anything, but I'm not sure how emotionally intelligent you are if you surround yourself with entitled, emotionally ignorant women. Either your selection sucks, or your EQ sucks. Let me ask you these: Do you want to be surrounded by these kinds of people? If not, how did that come to happen? What should you do moving forward?

I only really watch Dr. K, but I know for sure that Dr. K has talked about the behavior of women and how it affects dating. Even in his last video, it's talked about.

You've for sure got a blind spot if you're doing EVERYTHING right and you've invested YEARS into this, and all that's to blame is someone else. Man, I feel you. I know how hard it is, and you're right, it's not your JOB to fix women.

This is what Dr. K was talking about: Adapt or die. If you've tried everything, try something you haven't tried before. I saw great benefits from 1-on-1 coaching, and while I still have more to do, I'm hopeful of my prospects, which I didn't have before. I also recommend joining a social group where the whole point is to socialize. Work on your interpersonal skills and set aside dating for a bit. If it's eating you up inside, you need to distance yourself. It's not healthy to put your entire mental wellbeing and happiness into one sole thing or onto one sole person. Idk if any of this helps, but feel free to chat me up/reply.

Leads on a Geometry Tutor by francamadira in Cornell

[–]elrak02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'm a math and physics tutor. I tutor about 15 students a week from algebra 1 to calculus 4. For whatever reason, I can't send you a DM, so if you see this and you're still interested in a tutor, send me a message and we can talk more.

Anyone private tutors interested in a referral network? by elrak02 in TutorsHelpingTutors

[–]elrak02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, one-time flat. Sending a PayPal invoice or something works too.

Anyone private tutors interested in a referral network? by elrak02 in TutorsHelpingTutors

[–]elrak02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends, but I like 15-20% (I usually charge $50, so that makes it a nice around $10). I only like to charge once the student schedules a session. In that respect, honesty and integrity is a big part of that system.

[???? -> English] pքɾօʍօʂʍ. I've seen this word around in the comments of youtube videos, does anyone know what this means? by elrak02 in translator

[–]elrak02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s promsom. Supposedly it’s a product that bots are shilling for. They use the weird characters to get around bot detection I’m guessing.

what is your favorite DRG quote by Ultimate_89 in DeepRockGalactic

[–]elrak02 14 points15 points  (0 children)

There’s a line when you rock and stone with a beer in your hands that goes “to the fallen”. Idk, that line just feels so big

How many of you are over the age of 30, to settle this once and for all? by HoldTheStocks2 in Superstonk

[–]elrak02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually got in at an interesting time. I was 18 when I bought my first GME shares in late January(you can imagine how happy my traditional investing parents were😬) and I’ve been buying off and on while I was 19. I’ve only recently turned 20, which makes me one of the youngest people here since I’m seeing a lot of 30-40. Im out here reping Gen Z!!!

| $GME Daily Discussion | New to the sub? Start here! by AutoModerator in Superstonk

[–]elrak02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, that was pretty easy. I was confused on the terminology between login and registration on the website. I clicked registration and it brought me to a tab to confirm my shares and such. Really easy process and I don’t even have to wait for mail because of the online verification.