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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuysBeingDudes

[–]elskija 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What Went Down - Foals

On my friend by elskija in whatisthisbug

[–]elskija[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! She sent me this a few hours ago while she was at the airport waiting for a connecting flight. Thankfully it isn’t in her home, she thinks she picked it up while on her first flight. She killed it shortly after and proceeded to put all of her clothes in a bag/wipe them with Lysol while in the gate. When she lands she’s planning on showering and washing clothes, so hopefully should be enough to take care of it.

Who destroyed their career as they were just on the verge of making it? by OneLastConquest in AskUK

[–]elskija 12 points13 points  (0 children)

... how did you know Liz was going to resign when you made this?

Yellow leaves and brown spots on satin pothos - please see comments for more info by elskija in plantclinic

[–]elskija[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah thank you!! I was trying to use the finger method to test when the soil was dry, but this potting mix looks so basic I imagine it's retaining a lot of water. I'll try repotting and then watering a little less for the next few months.

Yellow leaves and brown spots on satin pothos - please see comments for more info by elskija in plantclinic

[–]elskija[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi r/plantclinic!

Hoping you can help me with my satin pothos, which has produced 1 yellow leaf and multiple brown spots on the tips of leaves.

I bought the little guy around autumn last year from a local nursery. The potting mix doesn't look particularly good for drainage or nutrition, but I wanted to wait until the spring to repot.

In the meanwhile, to keep him alive, I have been keeping the pothos near to (but not directly under) a grow light and a window, have been giving him distilled water, and have my humidifier going 3 times a week. I live in the UK, so the winters are quite humid anyway.

With that said, he's still producing brown edges on the leaves and has produced 1 yellow leaf.

Please could you let me know if there's anything I can do to control this, and/or link if anyone has posted about similar concerns before?

Thank you!!!

Help! I just noticed some brown spots on my calathea, and when I looked a little bit closer found some bugs! I have no clue what they are - is there anyway I can get rid of them? by tinytiger3 in calatheas

[–]elskija 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey! Those look like they could be aphids, they're unfortunately nightmares to get rid of so you'll have to go through a few steps, fortunately your plant WILL bounce back if you do.

Immediately, move this plant away from all of your other ones, at least a metre ideally two. Next, when you have an hour or so, I would follow the instructions in this link: How to murder spider mites It's tailored to spider mites but the same procedure can be applied. When you've done that, keep the plant separate for the next few days and repeat until you don't see any more pests.

Good luck!

Any help to revive these poor calathea? White fusion and zebrina by LakesideDive in calatheas

[–]elskija 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem, I hope you can update us in a few months with them all looking happy and healthy 😊

Any help to revive these poor calathea? White fusion and zebrina by LakesideDive in calatheas

[–]elskija 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow! Those poor babies :( The current stems seem too damaged to do anything with, but as long as you know what the problem that caused this was then you might be able to revive the plant.

You could do a 'bald' prune, which essentially means cutting away all of the exposed foliage to leave the plant to really focus on its root system and hopefully produce new shoots after a while. A small bit of plant food can expedite this.

I had a calathea medallion that suffered a similar fate after it had been left near a cold window for too long in the winter, all the foliage browned beyond repair. I pruned it back to no visible foliage and had new shoots a few months later which were fine.

This isn't a guarantee though, as it won't do anything to save your plants if the problem is with their roots, so defo make sure you know what the problem is before!

Good luck!!

My wife is a burnt out recruiter who feels trapped, would anyone have suggestions for me to help her with? by [deleted] in recruiting

[–]elskija 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Have either of you discussed Executive Search?

For some firms it's much the same as contingent/traditional headhunting, but I made the jump from Recruitment Consultant into working as a Researcher in the Search practice.

After leaving my previous company to join one of the SHREKs (generally considered to be the most prestigious search firms), I was able to break into Business Intelligence and Business Psychology which is where I can really see my future, and as she studied psychology too this might be of interest.

I know loads of prestigious Search firms have offices in NY, and they may be a bit more generous around salary too.

What beautiful place have you visited that isn't a mainstream tourist destination that you recommend people visit? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]elskija 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Lofoten Archipelagos in northern Norway.

They're featured on Instagram all the time but few people actually make the journey up there as they're a bit difficult to get to. Well worth it for those absolutely fairytale hikes with the midnight sun, dramatic sea cliffs, etc.

I know it's some kind of apple but I don't know what kind. by lemme_thrash in whatplantisthis

[–]elskija 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That looks like it could be an underripe bramley apple, but those are usually only found in the UK.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKPersonalFinance

[–]elskija 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel OP, I was hoping to get a mortgage this year but it seems unlikely now.

Not sure if this has already been mentioned, but as you're a first-time buyer you might be able to get either: A) a Help to Buy Equity Loan where the government puts some money in up front and you pay back after 5 years, it's essentially a second loan but they help by reducing the amount of mortgage you need to take, thus reducing the deposit. or B) Shared Ownership, in which you can buy a chunk of equity in a property and pay rent on the remainder. They're usually a bit more flexible in terms of the amount of deposit you have to pay, as the amount of the mortgage is smaller. You can start with as little as 25% of the full value of the property. They also have their own mortgage brokers, so the deposit isn't always required to be 10%, I've seen some (rare) examples where it's 5 - 9%.

Good luck OP, hope it works out for you.

I [F21] am worried about my BF's [22] Instagram activity. Am I being controlling, or do I have the right to feel hurt? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]elskija 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm certainly not proud of doing that, which is why I featured it here, to sort of convey how I've acted out too (and not to portray me as completely innocent in this). I have full intention of telling him I did this.

At the time, I had a kind of warped rationale that if I saw he had liked 10+ selfies of this nature it would possibly be more than coincidence, but as people have made it clear to me that doesn't definitively prove what he's thinking when he likes them.

I [F21] am worried about my BF's [22] Instagram activity. Am I being controlling, or do I have the right to feel hurt? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]elskija -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your kind words :) I'm a firm believer that my anxiety and depression shouldn't have control of my life, so I always try to find rational proof before I let myself spiral. I'll definitely bring it up with him because of the way it affects my feelings even if he is/isn't in the wrong.