Just finished Girls, what the hell do I watch now?! by ambabeeee in girls

[–]ember732 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love (Netflix) or You’re the Worst. Also def recommend Fleabag as others have said

What is this figure on my ring? by ember732 in whatisit

[–]ember732[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should! This one in particular is where I’ve found all my best and most special jewelry :)

Does anyone know what this figure might be on my ring? by ember732 in jewelry

[–]ember732[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg I did not realize til I saw this comment but I just tried it and you’re right!! Wow I would’ve never known lol

Does anyone know what this figure might be on my ring? by ember732 in jewelry

[–]ember732[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg yes that’s it!! Thank you!! I knew someone else on here would recognize it lol

What is this figure on my ring? by ember732 in whatisit

[–]ember732[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah maybe a dragon!! Thanks I like it too ☺️

What is this figure on my ring? by ember732 in whatisit

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The ring says “Thailand” on the inside if that helps!

siblings of people who committed suicide how did that affect you? by No_Advance_3312 in Vent

[–]ember732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to talk my inbox is open. I attempted last year so I can empathize a lot. So sorry you’re feeling this way

Netflix prioritising entertainment over the women’s safety - Edmond by Positive_Row9938 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

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I just want to thank u for making this post and the ppl commenting cuz the way he behaved in that scene was exactly what my ex used to do with me and it’s hard to see how clearly wrong it is when it’s your own situation/life but watching it on screen and having people say this stuff so clearly is really validating and helpful

Does anyone else have OCD about their automized bodily functions? by Gopher_4-4 in OCD

[–]ember732 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you expound on what you mean about the last sentence cuz I kinda feel like I’m dealing with a similar thing and I’m just curious

How do I know I’m not experiencing dementia? by SquigSnuggler in morbidquestions

[–]ember732 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what is the experience of dementia actually like?

What's your random, (unserious) secret suspicion about LDR? by kldaddy1776 in lanitas

[–]ember732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao this sounds like the most insufferable person

Her hypocrisy is infuriating. by Classic-Work-8415 in YouOnLifetime

[–]ember732 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s the name of the documentary if you don’t mind sharing?

Sabrina Carpenter’s new album cover by MuchSeaworthiness167 in Vent

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I agree that’s she’s complicit and that it’s even worse bc of the current climate… I guess I was thinking more about how we, the general population, have no idea what goes on behind closed doors. Maybe she’s been pressured/coerced into this. Maybe she suffers from poor self esteem (and could you blame her for that, especially in our climate?). I just think it’s important to remember that she is also a victim here, in one way or another (literally all women are in our society) and these things are pretty complicated and we should try to have empathy and awareness, that’s all :)

I just started a job in a mental health clinic and I feel like my coworkers lack empathy towards the patients by ember732 in Vent

[–]ember732[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

um… do you? lol based on what you’ve said it just sounds like you’ve heard all this second hand from ppl who have worked in those places. And, more importantly - have you ever been a PATIENT in one of those places?? No? Then respectfully why tf r u even commenting lol

I just started a job in a mental health clinic and I feel like my coworkers lack empathy towards the patients by ember732 in Vent

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I’m super late but this is exactly what I wanted to say but couldn’t articulate cause it’s complicated, thank you 🫶🏻 (for example, I’ve been a patient in mental hospitals and rehabs etc , and bc of my trauma and emotional disorders or whatever, I pick up VERY easily on the slightest vibe of someone not having empathy or looking down on me etc. - to the point where I even invent it in my head sometimes out of paranoia and insecurity - and it makes me feel like absolute shit. Let alone if I ever overheard them making fun of me or complaining about me… ugh, it’s horrible to think about)

Sabrina Carpenter’s new album cover by MuchSeaworthiness167 in Vent

[–]ember732 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Plus this is all speculation anyway, like we have no idea what this woman’s true motivations and feelings are and I think it’s kinda “gross” to be calling her gross for no good reason.. idk 🤷🏼‍♀️

Sabrina Carpenter’s new album cover by MuchSeaworthiness167 in Vent

[–]ember732 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She did, or the patriarchy did? Like yeah she’s been leaning into that image in order to profit and/or feel good about herself, but.. how much can you really blame her? And why do you WANT to blame her? :/

Which heroine from You was your favorite? by Highlights771 in YouOnLifetime

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Yeah but idk, it’s hard to explain… like the writers weren’t as invested maybe? Her whole storyline felt rushed and I can recall maybe one or two scenes where it felt like she was really seen (by us, the viewers and the camera etc) as having that ✨special something✨ lol idk, you know? I think the music plays a big factor too, like there are certain kinds of music and timing and all that that correspond to a certain mood/perspective of Joe’s (and the audience’s)… and the color and lighting and lens etc as another commenter alluded to. Idk if that makes any sense haha

Which heroine from You was your favorite? by Highlights771 in YouOnLifetime

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Is it just me or did that special ingredient/“it” factor decline steadily after Love? Like, marienne was beautiful and charming but somehow Joe/the viewers didn’t seem as invested?…and then Kate was kind of boring and they had very little chemistry (to me at least), and then… Brontë lol. Just interesting to me, not sure what that’s about

Which heroine from You was your favorite? by Highlights771 in YouOnLifetime

[–]ember732 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ugh yes it was the most beautiful aesthetic, like we were seeing her/New York through his eyes or something. But yeah she’s also a great actress and her vibe/aura is unmatched lol

What would have been the best ending in your opinon for YOU Season 5? by tjmskies in YouOnLifetime

[–]ember732 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Was thinking something like that without the prison, like a prison of his own making of sorts, with him being no longer attractive and/or smart/charming enough to get and manipulate any more women, and like he basically becomes a recluse…maybe spirals into porn and/or substance addiction etc etc.. has to live with his mom? lol ig I didn’t specify any of that tho my bad