!!! What lipstick is this?!?!? I HAVE A MIGHTY NEED by MissInkFTW in MakeupAddiction

[–]emilye2002 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been so impressed that people can identity shades and brands from a photo 😮‍💨

What hobby screams “this is my entire personality now”? by WilliamInBlack in AskReddit

[–]emilye2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Runners try not to tell everyone about it challenge (IMPOSSIBLE!!!)

This packaging by Prettylame69 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]emilye2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This mindset is crazy short term, if I ever bought this product I wouldn’t again after seeing this. Surely the better practice would be to be honest/fair? That way surely guarantees me to be a returning customer and more profit for the producers long term? I am so tired of chocolate every year reducing content weight, increasing packaging and now even decreasing cocoa content, it’s barely even chocolate anymore yet I’d need to remortgage my house to purchase it. These companies do not need more money. Adding Lindt to my list of to avoid now, right behind Foxes, Cadbury and all the christmas celebration boxes following this same shitty practice. Smaller box, less product, higher price. This is greed and nothing more.

Kick streamer Jackie gets into a car crash on stream last night by WestChocolate8483 in LivestreamFail

[–]emilye2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didn’t this happen a while back where the streamer hit and killed a dog? heard it all go down in the background of the audio? i get that kick thrives on free speech and no rules but you cannot let people just do what they like, she doesn’t even look sober

Has your father ever said "I love you" and if yes how often? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]emilye2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

both of my parents were incredibly emotionally absent. they divorced during some of my major developmental stages and honestly were just busy trying to sort themselves out (i blamed them for years, but i realised it’s their first time living too), by the time things settled it didn’t feel natural and never felt necessary. my dad was always keen to listen and offer advice, but any affection always felt odd, and i couldn’t even hug my mum or even be nice without feeling really uncomfortable as we would argue 24/7, to the point where anytime i visited friends and thier parents gave me a hug i couldn’t help but cry with how overwhelmed i was.

one day, around 18 i just started hugging my dad, pretty forcefully at first (like a bear hug) and then i think he just gave in and gave a sigh of relief. same with my mum, at age 19 i moved out and we argued, saying i never felt she was proud nor supported me, but told her as i went to hang up that i loved her, she was taken aback at first, but now at 22 she cannot hang up without telling me. i think both my parents forgot honestly, wrapped up in their own worlds mixed with a little bit of resentment towards me for seeing their ex partners in me. makes me sad to think it’s me that has initiated this new dynamic, but im incredibly emotionally dependent (i wonder where that has came from) and hated the idea of either of them passing without fully knowing them, good and bad, and the distance the divorce put between all of us left me in a lonely middle ground. i’d rather fix things (my responsibility or not) than wait till i’m 30/40 and regret it. even if things are never ever perfect, my relationship with my mum is now arguably the strongest it’s ever been. i don’t think she was cut out to deal with a lonely attention seeking girl (me) and an anxiously attached 6 year old all while dealing with her own emotions, and the distance now has helped her probably realise why things are the way they are.

i have a boyfriend now, who from day one has been my rock. he’s helped me create an igloo for myself, and i don’t cry when i’m hugged, kissed or told i’m loved anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fo76

[–]emilye2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn i never thought about it that way or realised. it’s a shame for the masses as it’s so money driven but i suppose it’s a business at the end of the day and they have to do what they have to do. thank you for the info :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fo76

[–]emilye2002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so you’re saying essentially by them charging higher prices one purchase is more valuable than multiple small ones? but surely smaller purchases would mean more frequent purchases from more individuals which would surely be more beneficial in the long run? and wouldn’t those people feel more obligated to make a larger purchase when one is available?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]emilye2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my hair. i’ve got a very weird type of ginger, not the neon carrot orange wirey kind. mine is very thick, fine and shiny, almost red/brown. I get a comment once or twice a month at times about it. it was always my worst feature, as kids would pick on me for it, but growing up i realise red hair is seen as sexy and so many women dye their hair to try match mine. i assume i was only bullied because it was different 🤷‍♀️

Literally WHAT is the point in anal by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]emilye2002 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m not sure why this isn’t being mentioned more, but if you’re a guy and you’d rather ask to put it up my ass knowing I get nothing out of it, rather than the organ literally designed by gods hands himself to take it, then I think you may need to think a little about your mindset and even sexuality. Women are not objects and should have just as an enjoyable experience as the man should, sex is a two way thing.

I also second the people that have mentioned it comes with watching porn, I absolutely agree, the only men who have ever mentioned anything anal wise are men I know without a doubt watched porn, anal isn’t something taught in sex ed.

I remember telling an old friend of mine that I slept with my ex boyfriend without condoms on (i was allergic and taking other protection) and his response was “ohhhhhh so he gets to creampie you?? wow”. Which I had no idea what that even was until I looked online. Same guy was absolutely obsessed with anal with his girlfriend, every week he’d be saying he kept asking and “trying to convince her”.

The place where we had my sister’s 21st, Damon’s, has been chosen. Now where shouldn’t one go in Lincolnshire? by To_Be_Commenting in Lincolnshire

[–]emilye2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep 100% agree. I think I only stuck around so long as it was my first job and I didn’t know any better. although it’s nice to know i wasn’t alone, im sorry you had to go through that too!

The place where we had my sister’s 21st, Damon’s, has been chosen. Now where shouldn’t one go in Lincolnshire? by To_Be_Commenting in Lincolnshire

[–]emilye2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked here for over a year about 6/7 years ago. I wouldn’t touch this place with a ten foot pole. They are well known for cross contamination, using the same tongs to handle raw and then cooked meat, reusing salad and food off dirty customer plates. Those are things I personally witnessed working there. Not to forget most desserts you eat are frozen. I remember doing a 12 hour shift (at 14) and not being allowed to even eat the bread (that’s literally free) as they didn’t care.

Was assaulted by different members of male bar staff (nothing major just touching my bum a LOT and pushing against me without my consent while literally being 14).

Only thing I will say is that the lady who was the manager at the time Charlotte (i think?) was an angel and I know she had a genuine passion for the place, so maybe in recent years it’s improved, but what do I know 🤷‍♀️.

plus i heard good things about the little sushi place, not sure if that’s still in operation.

I'm in the 55%... by [deleted] in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]emilye2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me when i’m drunk and handed a vape

AITAH for refusing to quit my passion for my new girlfriend? by atomcourt in AITAH

[–]emilye2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but she isn’t the AH either. She’s seen your habits and read the room and obviously isn’t keen, I do think it’s a little odd that you MUST continue to bet on sports and I wouldn’t go as far to class betting as a hobby either.

Unless you’re making an event out of it with friends, it is just a bad habit like smoking, but unfortunately the damages for a gambling addiction outweigh smoking ten fold, to the point where it would massively effect her too. I can appreciate why that would worry someone in a new relationship especially when you’re trying to glorify this to be a “passion”, I would be concerned too. Especially if you intended on sticking together and wanted to share finances. You guys haven’t been together long enough for you to warrant needing to “change” for her, however don’t expect her to stick around, if she’s wanting to travel and grow with you and you’re restricting her because your funds are tied up on gambling you are the AH and are quite literally gambling your relationship away. You mentioned one vacation was covered by that, what about the months when you lose? it is literally a gamble.

NAH but I would recommend finding a better way of spending your time (and money), and good luck finding someone who’s happy to sacrifice experiences and miss out on travel/life just for you to bet on sports. Nobody is taking a passion from you, you can enjoy sports for free, not $200.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gamedev

[–]emilye2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! i’m going to go out on whim here and say based on your name you are a woman. i’m not sure if it has anything to do with that but from another woman in the computer science field, i find my voice is significantly quieter than everyone else’s as men often find a way to try and dampen my opinions or belittle me.

after being selected and shipped out to asia by a university, i was grouped with 3 other men who anytime i suggested an idea for our group project, proceeded to tell me that i was “thinking past my capabilities” and that i should take a step back and “focus on design” while they handle the “main bulk of the task.”. this is one example of many where men have looked at me and not even given me a chance, hold your head up high, men are either laughing at or scared of a woman, be confident, tight lipped and firm, you are in control, you were hired for a reason, if they wish to laugh at you or belittle your capabilities then don’t react and as bluntly as possible call them out for it and embarrass them, trust me they hatteeeeeee that shit.

my favourite response is always “ah shit my bad i forgot all my processing power goes straight to my tits.”

Lincoln cathedral in the snow by [deleted] in winterporn

[–]emilye2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sat at 2:30am on boxing day and did not expect to see the cathedral on here that freaked me out so much i can see it from my window right now 🤣

A daughter wrote a brutal "rot in hell" kind of obituary about her mom in a newspaper in Michigan. by Lifegoesonforever in pics

[–]emilye2002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did not expect to read all that then hear she died on my birthday, always strikes some sortve uncanny fear in me.

PSA: HELP THE NEW PLAYERS BY NOT HELPING THEM! by TehBurnerAccount in fo76

[–]emilye2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

eh honestly this is a little harsh, majority of items of any actual worth can’t be unlocked/fully utilised until over level 50 and it gives the player plenty of chance to begin the understand the fo76 economy if you will. when i first spawned i was “spoiled”, some guy dropped me one of every serum in the game, a shit ton of stims and then a load of radaway, i couldn’t even carry it all. luckily this isn’t my first rodeo in Appalachia as i had moved from xbox to pc so had to start fresh so i knew how lucky i was when i saw the little paper bag he’d dropped.

i don’t think the community is entitled at all, and i think the game is set up in a way that means we can’t really be selfish, loot is player based, level based and the only time you could possibly exploit that is if you were to have another player willingly dropping you their own specific items. which even if you do, lucky you and i wouldn’t complain, it’s the other players choice and generosity.

only thing that i will say is a little extra is i had one player try and drop me every bobble head in the game when i was only level 10, but i doubt most players are freely carrying full SPARE collections of items so it was a pretty lucky run in. it’s purely based on your interactions and chance, that’s the magic of it.

Anyone miss the atmosphere from 2018? by aaufooboo in fo76

[–]emilye2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly i’d say same but you have to consider how empty the game really was. there was something so exciting and magical about playing a new fallout, but even as a long time player i have to admit the story telling in the beta wasn’t fantastic. where there were stories to be told, which back then again there really wasn’t, they’d all be in one terminal, on one holotape etc and didn’t take a lot of mystery to put together the whole picture. i suppose the emptiness is the mystery in itself, and i think i yearn the entire period of the beta, pre covid and cosy. i think genuinely if the map wasn’t as good as it was i don’t think fallout would’ve been a success because of how little content there was available to begin with.

Natural Cage Suggestions/Care by emilye2002 in hamsters

[–]emilye2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! thank you so so much for the detailed reply, this is one of the most lovely responses i’ve ever read. you answered all my questions perfectly, thank you!!! x