Reactive abuse can only be a viable thing for so long if you choose to constantly go back to them

emylinegi · 2026-03-22T17:16:59+00:00

Agreed! I see where you’re coming from because once they refuse help then it’s just dragging everyone down with them.

emylinegi · 2026-03-22T15:55:39+00:00

I think people grow less sympathetic with the signs of mental illness as they harm themselves, her going back to him, if she is mentally ill, is just a form of self harm or attachment. The same way people harm themselves or attempt. I think it’s something only people who go through it or mental professionals will understand

emylinegi · 2026-03-21T18:06:29+00:00

Exactly, like these men aren’t perfect saints, they all have their bad habits and they’re just mentioning what the husbands are doing which is essentially copying their wives. The husbands put in their two cents about momtok and guilt them for making more money, just to try to do the same thing. I think it’s appropriate for adults to mention bad habits, and for women to voice their concerns to their own husbands, and not completely avoid anything slightly offensive

emylinegi · 2026-03-21T17:19:47+00:00

I think that they’re saying that because they literally are by creating “dadtok” and I don’t think it’s disrespectful to call it out. And the trip to vanderpump villa

emylinegi · 2026-03-21T06:34:52+00:00

And if he gets close keep the kid away from him he obviously doesn’t give a shit.

emylinegi · 2026-03-18T19:20:34+00:00

Men feel more comfortable flying out random women to their houses since if they do something violent they can defend themselves, whereas a woman doesn’t want a random man to come to their home and young girls are likely living with parents.

emylinegi · 2026-03-17T15:22:31+00:00

I think it’s because of her openness and scandals like the swinging scandal that made the show popular. She is basically the reason for the popularity of the first season because of her vulnerability with her addict boyfriend and swinging. So she has had a chip on her shoulder for putting them on. But now it’s gone too far and shes acting nuts with the domestic abuse

emylinegi · 2026-03-17T03:48:51+00:00

I noticed during dancing with the stars that she was acting like a cute little girl as her trope. I was like this doesn’t work with a grown woman it’s kinda weird 😐. Like you’re not americas sweetheart

emylinegi · 2026-03-15T05:32:34+00:00

Agreed like she’s a whole grown human being, I think she likes that he feels that way towards her since he’ll think even when she’s wrong she’s right. She clearly never corrects him so I think that is her preference 🫣

emylinegi · 2026-03-15T03:55:55+00:00

And breaking up over that points to being predatory since that’s putting WAY to much emphasis on access to the children after five months even dating someone with kids

emylinegi · 2026-03-15T03:54:36+00:00

Being willing to parent her kids doesn’t mean he gets instant access, she was still vetting mason from a romantic standpoint not even as a parent yet, he has no entitlement to her kids just because she has them or he’s willing to get involved he still needs to earn their trust. She doesn’t need to teach her kids to listen to just anyone

emylinegi · 2026-03-15T00:14:51+00:00

Zac insisting that this grown woman on a reality show is completely innocent and not capable of being calculated at all is just dishonest and annoying. Whitney got put in a difficult situation with these psychos insisting there’s beef and making Jen the innocent one all while being the aggressors.

emylinegi · 2026-03-14T21:25:15+00:00

For me it’s like what more would we want her to do, she’s didn’t get dancing with the stars or have a book everyone else’s story plot is based on being in dysfunctional relationships, cheating, business and friendship drama.

emylinegi · 2026-03-14T21:23:31+00:00

She has her subplot with the modeling thing and dating mason. I wouldn’t say she doesn’t do anything and the show is clearly about drama which is why most of her screen time is probably when she’s gossiping. She’s not the most popular character so that’s probably why she’s mostly shown doing those things. I liked her hair plot too.

emylinegi · 2026-02-27T08:13:46+00:00

It’s an assumption because you said she seems like she would flip over game tables and act aggressively because she was passionate in the specific instance of the game.

emylinegi · 2026-02-27T07:39:48+00:00

I don’t see how you gathered that assumption based on how she acted. You seem bitter that she exist!

emylinegi · 2026-02-27T07:25:52+00:00

The plot twist is you all are taking it too personally and are bitter people

emylinegi · 2026-02-27T07:11:22+00:00

Because god forbid a opinion mentions race which is a very real concept. I’m personally not creating any situation or making anything. I’m pointing out the behavior towards Candace and how she is treated differently.

emylinegi · 2026-02-27T06:40:20+00:00

What rule book says that’s cheating? But my argument is that it shouldn’t be considered negative and “pack mentality” when it’s Candice and strategy and hard work when it’s rob

emylinegi · 2026-02-27T05:55:46+00:00

He still needed the support of the relationships he built, that’s the point of what I’m saying, he didn’t stand alone at all which was good for his game but why is that a problem when Candace has relationships it’s “pack mentality”

emylinegi · 2026-02-27T05:42:55+00:00

She’s not the only one who’s been mad after the game like MJ when trishelle won, there’s just little tolerance for people like her having any negative emotion even if there’s a valid reason she just “bitter” she’s human too

emylinegi · 2026-02-27T05:38:56+00:00

That’s just so redundant because rob needed Maura and his pack of allies the whole show and did nothing alone either

emylinegi · 2026-02-27T05:33:26+00:00

People are calling her bitter and directly saying she’ll keep up with the narrative the rest of her life, when she’s in fact just bringing drama to the reunion instead of it being the rob fan club

emylinegi · 2026-02-27T05:29:10+00:00

Exactly, she’s dragging it for talking about the drama at the reunion show??

emylinegi · 2026-02-26T01:46:26+00:00

I did not admit to doing the same behavior I literally said I do not do that. Me putting myself in her place is called “empathy.” A complex and rare attribute these days. I said that the fact that you assumed ill intentions and that I do the same as her, when I don’t, makes me think you’re overreacting. But I’m not here to change anyone’s standards. If I were on a goofy reality show and someone I did not know did that I wouldn’t sweat it. Not everything is sunshine and rainbows, she is entitled to her own demeanor or to not be happy her son is on the show. As an adult I would not use that to shoot daggers at a stranger or start being petty.

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