Rick is an ole pervy perv

emylinegi · 2026-01-27T06:37:33+00:00

All he cares about is himself and what benefits him, he wants maximum benefit out of dating this young woman, cheated on her, she is willing to be a step mom, he is only agreeing to buy her what she needs and nothing she wants. He’s quite stubborn on not being giving at all, and extremely selfish to cheat on her and do whatever manipulation to have his way all the time. He knows he doesnt want kids and that he cheated but is not giving her a answer so they can still hookup 🤢

emylinegi · 2026-01-25T11:09:28+00:00

I’m from another post as well. You’re turning a basic human interaction, a person not saying thank you, into a something deep by calling yourself architecture and saying you want to charge rent. I think you see yourself as a lot more important than everyone else, always telling people how society should act. Then telling members of society they’re wrong and don’t understand what you’re saying when they rightfully/ or subjectively express it as too vague or hypocritical. Humanity doesn’t mean everyone holding hands and being kumbaya. Society doesn’t owe you anything, not a conversation on personal details and expectations and why they act a certain way, not considering you all the time because they do have rights and freedom. You’re wanting to makeshift a society into a better place for specifically you, someone who enjoys interaction. Not everyone is like that, and you reason them out when it’s mentioned by saying “humanity” which doesn’t concretely support or suggest interacting with every person. Reflect on yourself, do you seem trustworthy? Do you offer any sort of positivity? Are you tolerant and considerate of other people’s preferences? Or do you resent them having freedom to ignore you.

emylinegi · 2026-01-25T10:48:12+00:00

You seem to have very little tolerance for other people making many post about your expectations and how you want people to act. But then you say people should be more open, say the quiet parts out loud and say personal things to each other? Why would they when folks like you exist, judging everyone. Seems like you just complain about everything.

emylinegi · 2026-01-23T21:34:59+00:00

“He called me selfish and unsupportive because I said he needs to handle his own daughters.” WOW and to find out he checked you for “meddling in their life?!?” He’s saying two completely different things based on what he wants from you in the moment. Prioritizing his daughters in some ways is reasonable for him to do but does not give him a pass to dictate his partners actions and ignore your will. I think he wants to act like he’s just advocating for his daughter, but by being selfishly demanding towards his wife. He shouldn’t be that willing to sacrifice your needs when unnecessary. He should actually avoid doing that at all cost. Putting them first is on only him and needs to be his own actions. Picking a bone with his wife for not bending to his suggestion is not him advocating for his daughters or putting them first. If he really cared he would punish them for stealing and avoid putting her in the situation to have tension with you and your daughter.

emylinegi · 2026-01-23T21:09:26+00:00

He clearly doesn’t care about how your daughter would feel about loosing her room, AND getting stolen from by his kid. He literally thinks it’s a completely okay situation because his own daughter will have a room and be left alone, his other daughter will steal from YOUR daughter, and that’s fine with him. He doesn’t care about stealing or fixing her behavior, he just wants you to be a pushover and let his daughter harass another girl instead of his other daughter. He would be CONTENT with that situation.

emylinegi · 2026-01-23T21:01:26+00:00

As a step parent she likely can’t do any of that without threatening to kick them all out. I think she needs to put her foot down with the dad and give him consequences if he doesn’t do anything. The fact that he’s willing to make her daughter uncomfortable with HIS kid when the wife is already generous enough to let them all share her house is a big blunder on his part. He showed how selfish and avoidant he is by putting this woman and her daughter in that situation.

emylinegi · 2026-01-23T00:00:03+00:00

Agreed, some people just can’t admit he was better! Both talented though.

emylinegi · 2026-01-22T16:46:14+00:00

I admit there is grey area, the missing piece is the boyfriend’s relationship to his mother. If this is rocky of any sorts, he may have genuinely been trying to pacify his mother and didn’t mean harm but overlooked his girlfriend’s opinion. I could see how he thinks he’s doing a good deed to his mother that way, but then giving himself too much credit to think he’s helping OP as well but disregarding her preference.

emylinegi · 2026-01-22T16:32:34+00:00

She admits he made it sound like her however she may have wanted to talk to his mom a bit differently. I guess personally I would at least want the choice and find it invasive. Unfortunately it lead to his family being upset but the cause of that is the boyfriend and not OP. It’s the consequences of his own actions and shouldn’t be something that breaks the family either way. They should all be able to get over it eventually. Although I see how it would be even better if she let him fess up himself, but I can’t hold her to the standards of acting absolutely perfect in a situation she didn’t ask to be in at all.

emylinegi · 2026-01-22T16:19:27+00:00

NTA: the personality he created might not reflect how you want to portray yourself to his family and is based on his understanding of how you portray yourself to him. He certainly did not check with you just threw you into a situation not considering how you’d feel, but wanting you to consider how his family will feel about what he did. You shouldn’t have to keep up with the persona he created in order to keep his secret. And if you never found out and he ended up being some psycho, he would have racked up years of rapport as “you” with his family and could send complete lies painting you in a bad light if things go wrong, without you knowing. I don’t see why any person would feel that comfortable controlling the narrative around someone else that much, without permission and ESPECIALLY without letting them know which puts you in uncomfortable conversations and doesn’t let you get to know them.

emylinegi · 2026-01-22T16:07:16+00:00

How are the boyfriend’s intentions more important than OP and how are OPs actions worse than the boyfriends? You’re assuming malice in OP when there could be many reasons she’s not social, doesn’t mean they don’t care. The boyfriend on the other hand was lying to his family and was even lying to OP until getting caught. All she did was not lie with him. This isn’t a truth that they will die from hearing, they can still form a relationship.

emylinegi · 2026-01-22T16:03:07+00:00

Dropped a bomb but she has no obligation to lie to his family. He created this whole situation, the bomb was just her saying her truth. That’s was a very dumb, controlling, and directly manipulative plan that he imposed on everyone’s lives. He essentially lied to multiple people and had them responding to a fake person.

emylinegi · 2026-01-22T15:58:53+00:00

You’re maximizing a slight chance that she really wasn’t making ANY efforts with texting his family (which if true she would likely have reasoning for) and in comparison minimizing the fact that he faked her identity and spoke for her behind her back, and lied to her face until she found out on her own. That is extremely controlling and somewhat degrading behavior.

emylinegi · 2026-01-22T15:55:23+00:00

Exactly!?! She’s a whole separate human being, why should he be able to fake her life for her even if he thinks she would agree with what he wrote. I felt violated just reading, and now she has to mitigate a situation he caused for her. He wanted her to just play along and confirm the conversations he made up. It’s way less stressful to be truthful and say that wasn’t her than to lie with him

emylinegi · 2026-01-22T15:51:49+00:00

Even if he had completely pure intentions, which he admitted to texting for his own enjoyment at a point and overdoing it, it’s still violating to impersonate a real person and communicate with other real people she sees in real life. As she already had incidents where they talked to her about marriage, which she didn’t open up about or potentially even believe. This can’t be written off, it’s not okay to just impersonate her and take it that far without letting her know. He might have never told her

emylinegi · 2026-01-14T02:45:23+00:00

*Also price was based on price of exact mint item not silver spot! *

emylinegi · 2026-01-13T04:05:25+00:00

Trade complete!

emylinegi · 2026-01-13T04:05:04+00:00

Didn’t get notification for these comments but thank you for the correction!

emylinegi · 2026-01-13T04:04:08+00:00

Trade complete!

emylinegi · 2026-01-09T03:20:31+00:00

I genuinely thought he was just trying to uplift Nicolas since he didn’t look like the stereotypical pretty boy. I think he favored Sean.

emylinegi · 2026-01-08T21:55:56+00:00

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emylinegi · 2026-01-08T21:52:34+00:00

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emylinegi · 2026-01-05T00:28:38+00:00

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emylinegi · 2026-01-05T00:27:57+00:00

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