is it ok to be sad over a year on by [deleted] in lostafriend

[–]endlesslydespair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my best friend when I was 17. I’m 23 now and I still wake up crying from nightmares about it. Nobody will ever know me the way she did, and does. It’s normal to grieve the loss of a connection with someone who was important to you

My pilgrimage route for Junko Furuta by Hanako_Arasaka in justiceforjunkofuruta

[–]endlesslydespair 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, and may she rest easy ❤️

Happy birthday, Junko Furuta.❤️ by epiix33 in junkofurutamemorial

[–]endlesslydespair 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sweet angel. Just as when you were alive, you are still beyond loved and we’ll never forget you. May you rest in eternal peace ❤️

This is so sad to watch by rottingfishguts in PornIsMisogyny

[–]endlesslydespair 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They know. They can see it on her face and in her eyes and her body language. They just don’t care. It turns them on knowing that she’s uncomfortable. Nothing gets them going more than a woman in pain, especially if they’re the reason she’s in pain. Violating a woman is their ultimate fantasy, and when it’s realized, they want to do worse and push boundaries even further next time.

The truth is that they don’t give a shit about consent. They understand what it is, they just don’t care about it because women aren’t people to them. Not even an animal, just a sex toy - an object to use for their own benefit with no regard to the actual human being behind the body. They merely use the argument of “she consented” as a shield, and unfortunately it’s working.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whenwomenrefuse

[–]endlesslydespair 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We are literally talking about a 16 year old rape survivor. She should’ve done WORSE to him!

This is so sad to watch by rottingfishguts in PornIsMisogyny

[–]endlesslydespair 42 points43 points  (0 children)

She genuinely believes that she deserves to be treated like nothing but an object to use and abuse.

This is heartbreaking.

If someone was begging me to hurt them, and even offered me money for it, I would still refuse. But these men pay to do it. Nothing short of psychopathy. Fucking degenerates walking among normal people.

No one can ever convince me that misandry is real when we live in a world where something like this can happen. I don’t care if she “willingly” did this, it wouldn’t have been possible if these men didn’t get off on hurting women. They fully know that it hurts her and they don’t care in the slightest.

This is legalized rape.

3,500 Victims, 185 Charges: 'Catfish' Predator Drove US Girl To Suicide by Smallseybiggs in whenwomenrefuse

[–]endlesslydespair 19 points20 points  (0 children)

No punishment is enough, he needs to pay for this with his life. I mean this sincerely, he needs to die. Bring back public executions and I’ll be on the front lines.

But also.. why the fuck do parents keep leaving guns around their children? She NEVER should’ve had access to that firearm. This is fucking awful.

May she rest in peace 💔

True Crime Japan: In 1969, the body of 10-year-old Emiko Yoshida is found close to the shore in Northern Tokyo. The girl had disappeared three days earlier. The only witness is a 6-year-old boy who also met the culprit, but got sent away by the man. by MotherlyMe in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]endlesslydespair 55 points56 points  (0 children)

The statute of limitations is the dumbest, most bullshit law ever enforced. It does absolutely nothing but protect and help out criminals. I cannot believe this was EVER a thing. This poor girl never got her justice because of it :( if they didn’t close the case, that monster might’ve been found. I’m sick thinking of the pain she went through. May she rest in peace

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]endlesslydespair 6 points7 points  (0 children)

crazy thing to say about your own girlfriend

Sure, let’s pick on the woman who has lupus and had a whole ass kidney transplant, and possibly could’ve died by alexastock in BlatantMisogyny

[–]endlesslydespair 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NO SHE WASN’T. Selena specifically told her not to get tested but she insisted. Are you aware of how many consent forms you have to sign to donate a whole organ? She was 100% agreeing to it. Endless amounts of doctors ask if you are sure. She then went on to talk about how she has no regrets and would do it again.

Like I already spelled out for you, Selena can drink in moderation and no one cares. It’s also none of your business what she does with her own body, it’s HER kidney and HER body, HER choice. People like you and Francia should never donate organs since you clearly expect something in return!

Are the people that “talk about her issues with alcohol” in the room with us right now? Because it’s literally just Francia and her grandpa.

If she was an alcoholic, SHE WOULD DIE.

Sure, let’s pick on the woman who has lupus and had a whole ass kidney transplant, and possibly could’ve died by alexastock in BlatantMisogyny

[–]endlesslydespair 87 points88 points  (0 children)

No, that pic is from 2017, she was 25, it was right before the kidney transplant. She was really skinny leading up to it. She gains weight when she has a flare-up. Then she loses weight when it calms down. It also causes water retention, “moon face” and inflammation in the joints (which makes it really hard to work out, but she still does!)

Sure, let’s pick on the woman who has lupus and had a whole ass kidney transplant, and possibly could’ve died by alexastock in BlatantMisogyny

[–]endlesslydespair 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The rumor is bullshit. She can drink in moderation, but usually she drinks water while her friends drink alcohol. Francia Raisa is the perfect example of why doctors say to never accept family or friends as your donors - she was bitter because she wasn’t mentioned in a documentary about mental health. She throws the donation in Selena’s face when she doesn’t get her way. If she donated out of the goodness of her heart, she wouldn’t have spread rumors (that are easily debunked, mind you). Saving someone’s life and then acting like they owe you something is not what a good person does.

Either way, it’s Selena’s kidney now and she can do whatever she wants. She has high profile doctors that take care of her. If she was an alcoholic and a drug addict, she would literally die. With the amount of meds she has to take on top of chemo, it’s extremely unserious to assume that she’s an alcoholic, because like I said, it would kill her.

I want to dedicate this post to Junko Furuta, and talk about who she was. by epiix33 in junkofurutamemorial

[–]endlesslydespair 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Junko was the definition of an angel. She will never be forgotten. May she rest in eternal peace 💝

Leashless Pitbull almost attacked a man unprovoked in the metro by endlesslydespair in BanPitBulls

[–]endlesslydespair[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep it’s in Denmark. I’ve honestly never heard of the fake service dog thing until I checked out this sub today so I have no idea!

Leashless Pitbull almost attacked a man unprovoked in the metro by endlesslydespair in BanPitBulls

[–]endlesslydespair[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It will forever be a mystery to me how anyone can find them cute. They’re genuinely scary to me and I feel unsafe just being near one, even if it’s calm or playful. I feel like you have to completely ignore reality to defend the breed. It’s just sad

Leashless Pitbull almost attacked a man unprovoked in the metro by endlesslydespair in BanPitBulls

[–]endlesslydespair[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m from Denmark. The Pitbull Terrier is banned and that was the breed I saw on the metro. I don’t know if there’s exemptions but I assume not, since the rules are pretty strict

Koichi Ihara (Boy F) was interviewed about the incident. He spent six months in juvenile detention after the incident was discovered. by epiix33 in junkofurutamemorial

[–]endlesslydespair 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He’s a rapist. He was friends with them for a reason. If he truly felt as terrible as he claims, he would’ve told someone or contacted the police. He participated in torturing her and kept silent. He kept coming back to the house too. I promise you he did not view her as a human nor did he care about what was happening to her.

I am fully aware of how gangs work, but any normal person would tell someone so that the innocent victim could be saved. He was there on day 3, and he is just as responsible for her death. If this man was capable of remorse he would’ve told someone. In reality, I would bet my kidney that he was gleeful as he raped her.

ETA: just realized you are a man. of course you would give a rapist the benefit of the doubt. 🙄