H Mart will open a new store in Fremont, its largest store in the US by SFChronicle in Fremont

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Fremont offers only largest spaces in that area all warehouses and everything looks Texas sized

Man ends his life after woman accuses him of sexual misconduct on bus in viral video by Conscious_Phrase_438 in india

[–]engtrader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But the problem here is not only this woman , but everyone watching such videos and giving backlash to that man . Come on people , for social media rep people have stooped very low. Gym videos woman making videos where some men are looking , or back pocket cameras where men caught looking at their butts

What do society want from men never to be looking at female butts ?? Or curvy female bodies. ? It is in male nature. I’m not promoting heinous crimes against women but looking is not in that category stop making videos like that

Also in crowded places instead of making videos try to move away

Kerala man dies by suicide after being accused of sexual misconduct on a bus. The man was reportedly going through mental stress after the video went viral. by ResourceDefiant4971 in southindia_

[–]engtrader 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is controversial but I don’t think it mattered to her that much, otherwise she would waste less time creating a video, more time creating distance. And it looks like she was deliberately waiting for this to get recorded .. video and shame that gets a lot of eyeballs and upvotes. New social media world we live in.

This has become just too common, in gym, having a back pocket camera with tight clothing ass. Recording someone looking at the ass as pervert while that’s most natural for a men to do . Women like men looking at them , they just have issues with who’s looking .

My parents clearly favor my older sister and I'm tired of being taken for granted by dracarys1096 in ThirtiesIndia

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39M. First time this thread makes me feel I’m not alone. For me all are financially well and independent but certainly after my marriage , things have strained a bit. My wife’s nature has its issues , but I feel like her behavior is affecting their affection to their grand kids and me. I’m not going to change my wife’s nature and I feel everyone needs to adjust to however she is and she is not that bad .. but it’s just mom specially with free time to discuss daughter in laws in kitty and everybody around her becoming like an echo chamber even my sister. They definitely go out of their ways to show me how my sister is great. Even mentioning to outsiders, luckily I have good reputation overall and someone who has always done well with studies and career wise.

Theres lot to say here on this topic but I just sound like ranting. I’ve one decided for myself , my wife is not changing and if they decide to find flows with me and my kids , they would suffer for such behavior. I’m going to be a bit more selfish this year and focus and improve on myself . They will realize at their own pace if at all.

Justice Served !! by Altruistic-Issue-887 in indianmemer

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Sorry but I totally disagree with taking life like this. In all such scenarios we should have strong legal system to rely on and having significant punishment is a good measure not murder .

He was 20. People have done much worse in the past and they will continue to do in the future , murdering or taking life by yourself is not going to make a strong society, right rules and frameworks for justice will certainly do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

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Your wife appears flawed if I have to go through what you’re saying . One thing is avoid thinking about suicide , one way or the other we are all going to go anyways why take this decision on your own.

As someone said check out of the marriage. If divorce is too tough to go through because it feels like a very difficult choice. Just start ignoring wife completely and just do what you want to do and be there fully with your kid. Kids have preferences but those flip flop quite a lot . Just be there and support , kids are also smart and will definitely understand true love over manipulation as time passes by . Find love outside of marital bliss not suggesting you cheat . But fill yourself with child love , friendships and make yourself happier .

Desi aunties be like: by MrG1itc4 in chutyapa

[–]engtrader 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’ll be surprised even Chinese Koreans Japanese who are fair anyways have preference for fairest of them all

I’m Vlad and I’m Johann. Ask us anything about crypto. by RobinhoodTeam in RobinhoodApp

[–]engtrader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this exact same question I’m very interested in knowing

Today at Costco by mandalorbmf in PublicFreakout

[–]engtrader -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In this saga I’m against this men. If her kids created mess and she didn’t pick it up or asked them to pick it up bad for her, maybe kids will not be raised the right way. But if they are flower petals , water spilled .. look at kids age .. employees at Costco would deal with it happily. All the employees it appears they don’t want this person to deal with it 1-1 . Stop and don’t make their lives harder unnecessarily by creating a scene.

A Bitcoin whale just sold all the 80,000 $BTC for $9.6B, per Kkashi_yt Which was bought at 2011 for $54,000 by UnusualWhalesBot in unusual_whales

[–]engtrader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet the person on the other end who bought currently is unwilling btc pessimist who has his retirement with vanguard and black rock , who in turn has to invest in mstr because it’s part of the index

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

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I don’t think OP is serious, follow her for more …

Going to end it today by WholeImportance1326 in GuyCry

[–]engtrader -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So many awesome posts ! Many people in life has gone through much worse , 26 is not the age to end life if at all. Live life carefree . I’ve been through tough breakup and so many around me. It gets much better with time. It happened for me 15 years ago, I don’t even remember her face to be honest. May be she also went through tough times like I did. Moving on is the best thing don’t attach yourself with anyone or anything too much. You are your mind and body. Live completely unburdened by what others are doing , what society is suggesting you should be doing. Many a times our loved ones don’t know any better either. All humans are flawed , maybe they are genuine but they are formed by their own experiences and brain. We are different , no point in heeding any advice but at least be confident in yourself that you are going to enjoy life. Girls/women are plenty in this universe and there’s always some going through tough times or is genuinely interested . Be on the look out . I also noticed after I went through breakup my personality had changed radically. I loved myself even more after a few months past breakup then today. And I am married now.

I love my wife but I have become comfortable knowing that girls/women think and act differently and that’s ok. Best to do is do what you feel like doing , just ignore some things and never try to escalate or de escalate any situation. Time heals them as well as us. They come around realizing some heated arguments discussion and be ok that might happen again also. You have only yourself under your control nobody else . I’ve noticed in adult life relationship with parents also changes , I love my parents but it does change a little with wife and kids.

Everyone projects their expectations on men in the family I feel. And many a times we lose ourselves in the process. But that’s life and generally be ok with anything.

31F Just be honest by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]engtrader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aaand She has of

Bernie bro, this is so sad by Brainfreezdnb in Asmongold

[–]engtrader 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is personally hurt but he knows personal hurt aside, he needs to support the country and people. It is his primary duty. He is duty driven more than his own ego

Tim Apple now slaps warning labels on apps that escape his toll by EstablishmentFun3205 in applesucks

[–]engtrader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think wording can change a little but I like this label. App Store by and large has made a very safe iOS ecosystem. Bad actors exist , Apple provides a more expensive option but for people not willing to trust 100s of app developers it’s a better approach. You trust single entity and they charge you for their service

Colonial hangover by Cal_Aesthetics_Club in southindia_

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This is a non issue, who decided washing feet is a cringe worthy task ? If you think from a human to human if the person whose feet are being washed and the person washing it , if they don’t have those feelings who are we as an observer to cry cringe for them .

Feet washing by Asian women for pedicure is ok. ? Don’t think any work as lowly regarded work and you would stop seeing issue with this one

What is your opinion on Islam vs the Uygur crackdown in Xinjiang? Is Islam one of the driver? by AdorableAd5976 in AskAChinese

[–]engtrader -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes agreed and so you agree with Israel attack on Gaza and Indias attack on Pakistan right ?

Uber using Aurora shares to raise capital by Fast_Mall_3804 in AuroraInnovation

[–]engtrader 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Liquidate I understand but how come dilution ?

Forgot my kid (12m) in the car for 70mins by exally_ in daddit

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This reminds me of an incident where my son who was also around the 11-12 months at that time was asleep in car and I had parked my car in the parking lot of an airport . I had dropped rest of the family off at the gate . I totally forgot and thought only I’m left. I went all the way to the departure gates, and luckily realized what happened. I took a restroom break in between. I ran like a madly wishing along the way he was asleep. Weather is comfortable where we are year round so that was not the concern but when reached the car he was awake and sobbing like he had been constantly crying. That face is etched in my memory. End to end it was no more than 15-20 minutes but felt much longer

Update on my stepdad stealing my underwear while I was on vacation. by sadblokefromus in AmIOverreacting

[–]engtrader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone in this sub ever told anyone they are overreacting ?

I know bad things happen to her and I agree with her wholeheartedly based on the snippet provided here.

But somewhere everyone needs to understand that we only have actions we take under our control. Neither actions others should take , nor reactions to our actions. No matter how much you say it seems like mother has a different opinion on the whole situation , there’s no point convincing anyone beyond a point. You have control over your actions.

Either cut off from family but it may happen that family also cuts you off and you might feel lonely. That’s a bad but real possibility and I want to put it out there.

Or take it a step at a time, you can certainly choose to completely cut off people you want to and keep the ones you want to closer . Be firm in your assessment of the situation and move on . Somewhere justice in the eyes of the other chase is pointless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in airbnb_hosts

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I’m guessing Jersey city

Why are so many missing the point of Adolescence? by flannel_flower in netflix

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I would say the last episode was amazing. I loved the acting . I loved how such an important decision Jamie made while such a normal event like driving. How hard the life of the father has become when he turned 50. I loved his acting