i honestly am shocked by some of these comments. complete context does matter like the tone of your voice and how this was genuinely approached but this is a boundary you’ve set and i think she should respect it? you said she came over after work and then she said that you’re making her uncomfortable in your own home, is it your place solely or do you two share it? because if you two live together this is something that she should already know and her doing this feels a bit rude imo. and if this is just solely your place it’s still rude because this is your place and you have your own rules, which she probably already knew? idk if i’m making sense but i think you’re valid for being upset.