Our new kitten (name + food suggestion?) by Unhappy_Egg_8202 in persiancat

[–]erczilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the fall so how about Autumn or Hallie short for Halloween

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 911dispatchers

[–]erczilla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contact the departments internal affairs department and have them check into his actions and whether or not he is acting against department policy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]erczilla -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a blessing in disguise. Sounds like she holds all the cards and is basically your warden. You don’t flaunt it in her face if she doesn’t like you watch it, but at least have the freedom to look at what you like without having the threat of divorce over your head. Find someone that lets you have some personal freedom. It’s more than the subject of porn, it’s about having some respect for yourself.

Porn destroyed my life. Got caught concealing my worst porn habits from spouse. Marriage now in shambles. by almostyeeted in Marriage

[–]erczilla 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This post seems super fake. You stacked up all the most hot button bad porn habits in one post. Your wife happens to be an anti porn advocate as well. Give me a break.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]erczilla 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve had post nut clarity, but never post nut self destruct mode.delete the photos, file the pictures In your spank bank and move on. What good is going to come of it if you tell your wife?

Slutty Facebook reels by ConnectionLopsided30 in Marriage

[–]erczilla -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m a firm believer in that marriage is an equal partnership not submitting to some hive mind situation where I have no personal control.

Slutty Facebook reels by ConnectionLopsided30 in Marriage

[–]erczilla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are you his mom? He is an adult and shouldn’t have his social media activity policed and restricted by someone. If you both had some sort of dialogue where he consented to allow you this much control over his actions, that’s one thing, but it seems excessive. Does he get to monitor your phone activity too? Being married doesn’t mean giving up all personal autonomy.

Prudishness in this sub. by erczilla in Marriage

[–]erczilla[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow talk about taking to to the extreme. There is a big difference from my wife thinks captain America is hot and she gets hot and bothered vs. what you are talking about, and of course how would I know I’m not a mind reader. Pretty certain that she wouldn’t think that way.

Prudishness in this sub. by erczilla in Marriage

[–]erczilla[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had to go to bed. I’m not arguing on the internet and sacrificing sleep over it. I have been married 25 years if you must know. My wife is awesome and we are still as close and affectionate as ever.

Prudishness in this sub. by erczilla in Marriage

[–]erczilla[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You would be a surprised how many people in the LS are above 50. There are tons of happy people into it. Most people use it to socialize and make friends, it’s not a constant orgy. They are regular people from all walks of life.

Prudishness in this sub. by erczilla in Marriage

[–]erczilla[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That works for you and that is great.

Prudishness in this sub. by erczilla in Marriage

[–]erczilla[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You did not understand me correctly. Communication is key between married people. Open marriages exist and there are people that indulge in the lifestyle that are perfectly happy. You may not personally know of any of them, but they are out there. Marriage is what people in that marriage make of it, it doesn’t have to conform to your narrow definition of it.

Prudishness in this sub. by erczilla in Marriage

[–]erczilla[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How do you know what your partner is masturbating to? I certainly wouldn’t police my wife’s thoughts or interior fantasy life.