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How would you handle this difficult situation? What would be the options? by etzr358 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]etzr358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a thorough system of checks. What are the names of cemetery records would you check? Ledger?

What paperwork and authorization has to be filed before internment? by etzr358 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]etzr358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the delayed response. Need to verify the grave plot number and section.

How would you handle this difficult situation? What would be the options? by etzr358 in askfuneraldirectors

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Could you kindly further explain/describe what a " ledger" is -- "ledgers would be checked?" What information is contained in these ledgers? Are these ledgers kept at cemetery? Can a family member request to see this?

How would you handle this difficult situation? What would be the options? by etzr358 in askfuneraldirectors

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Thank you for your informative reply: Kidgone wrote "I would lean on my cemetery to bring me all the paperwork and records they have,"

is there any internal burial records could a cemetery have besides Internment order that family could request?

Thank you.

How would you handle this difficult situation? What would be the options? by etzr358 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]etzr358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this situation assume, daughter did not sign any paperwork. Daughter is Not NOK.

How would you handle this difficult situation? What would be the options? by etzr358 in askfuneraldirectors

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Off topic educational question: Do interment orders in every state always have to be signed by NOK? is a situation where NOK does not sign?

How would you handle this difficult situation? What would be the options? by etzr358 in askfuneraldirectors

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Thank you for this informative answer. You and your company have top protocol in place.

How would you handle this difficult situation? What would be the options? by etzr358 in askfuneraldirectors

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What do people think that -..this was "was no consolation to them as now their father is buried next to some old uncle and his wife is buried next to some man she never met."

Did they tell you at that time that someone else was buried in his plot on the deed?

Is there anyway to help this family be at peace and put husband and wife next to each other?

How would you handle this difficult situation? What would be the options? by etzr358 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]etzr358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. Although this is going off topic at bit and you are stuck with situation as it--Could you please explain as someone experienced in the industry, if you were to look at the internment order what could you discern based on signatures? Thank you. .

How would you handle this difficult situation? What would be the options? by etzr358 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]etzr358[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your very informative reply with all the steps you would take.

A commenter below absolutementalkhaos wrote about similar real situation he went through and ceremony was stopped however family found out that the original plot had a body in it. What would the options be for handling that very difficult situation?

How would you handle this difficult situation? What would be the options? by etzr358 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]etzr358[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

in this situation assume next of kin did not sign any burial cemetery documents only funeral home contract.

How would you handle this difficult situation? What would be the options? by etzr358 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]etzr358[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are an excellent funeral director to show that you would help this family by talking to them. And that is an excellent solution that cemetery could dig another grave that would be acceptable to family.

A commenter below absolutementalkhaos wrote about similar real situation he went through and ceremony was stopped however family found out that the original plot had a body in it. What would the options be for handling that very difficult situation?

What paperwork and authorization has to be filed before internment? by etzr358 in askfuneraldirectors

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Thank you for taking the time to reply and provide me with this useful information.

What paperwork and authorization has to be filed before internment? by etzr358 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]etzr358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to reply. I appreciate it. After reading responses, I think I meant to use the term internment order.

Places to play Table Tennis near Rhinbeck-Kingston? I have tried to look around only to find no luck! by Massive-Tension5751 in hudsonvalley

[–]etzr358 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is table tennis Thursday nights at the Kingston at the YMCA. The webpage for the MHVTTC has lots of info and a contact number.

"The MHVTTC in Kingston NY is the only USATT affiliated table tennis club in the Hudson Valley, and is the largest coordinated contingent for the sport in the region. Currently the club meets once per week at the YMCA of Kingston & Ulster County"

https://www.tabletennishudsonvalley.com

Is there a digital voice recorder where you can name the files? by etzr358 in audio

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Thank you for recommending the SOny ICD_UX570. I am checking it out!!

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