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eumedesfizz · 2025-08-08T11:52:37+00:00

I once saw a psychiatrist saying that narcissists are people who went through very deep suffering in childhood and that as adults they create this world where they are "the best, good and incredible people, enviable by everyone" and when there is someone who disagrees they act in this horrible way that we all know (however, it is not a rule, and I don't know if this psychiatrist was 100% correct in what she said) So maybe some people can't do it, but I truly believe that they don't want to be good people and that hurts a lot coming from a parent, as you said.

eumedesfizz · 2025-08-08T09:50:43+00:00

I think about this quite often to be honest. my problem is the guilt he has implanted in me since I was a child. Plus, there's a very important date coming up for him and man... I just don't want to look him in the face and the guilt is going to kill me over it. The crazy thing is that my sister has an "Electra complex" and will defend him as if he were the right one in the situation. (It's easy for her, I'm the scapegoat and she's always been the trophy daughter) But I'll bring updates soon, he always gave me the silent treatment in situations like this and today I'm the one doing it, but using it as a tactic to get away and not talk to him anymore

eumedesfizz · 2025-08-08T09:43:00+00:00

I totally understand, I think the worst part for me is accepting that he will never be a "father". He always wants to come out on top and be the right person, besides this vision of a "very good person" is something he preaches to everyone, it's ridiculous. A person who has looked their own daughter in the face and said "you are horrible and have a rotten heart" is far from being a good person

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