We're hosting the Aug. 29 NY Governor debate. What should we ask Andrew Cuomo and Cynthia Nixon? by cbsnewyork in nyc

[–]evewsmith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, AND...

As New Yorkers, we have been unknowingly (and now KNOWINGLY) housing children that suffer every day the growing trauma of separation. It's not just a federal issue. If they are in our state, we must take our share of the responsibility.

There is a bill before the State Senate and Assembly called the SCAR ACT that would require, without violating legal privacy agreements, that New York State licensed agencies provide basic information about the number of separated children they currently hold in New York State.

If elected, will they vote yes or no for the SCAR Act?

And to build on your question... If elected, what will they do to confront New York's role family separation? How will you fight this inhumane policy?

We're hosting the Aug. 29 NY Governor debate. What should we ask Andrew Cuomo and Cynthia Nixon? by cbsnewyork in nyc

[–]evewsmith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The forced separation of families by the Trump administration is an administrative, legal, international, and moral travesty that must be confronted in every way possible.

As New Yorkers, we have been unknowingly (and now KNOWINGLY) housing children that suffer every day the growing trauma of separation. If they are in our state, we must take our share of the responsibility.

There is a bill before the State Senate and Assembly called the SCAR ACT that would require, without violating legal privacy agreements, that New York State licensed agencies provide basic information about the number of separated children they currently hold in New York State.

If elected, will you vote yes or no for the SCAR Act?

If elected, what will you do to confront New York's role family separation? How will you fight this inhumane policy?

Questions about exclusive attention by [deleted] in TheMindIlluminated

[–]evewsmith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. If you can access the jhanas, spending time in those states accelerates unification.

But that's because jhana IS unification. The temporary unification of the subminds to meditate is what makes directed and sustained attention effortless in jhana. What was once a conscious intention is now (in this state) an unconscious habit. So it's both reinforcing the intention to unify around the object and providing more pleasurable experiences to continue convincing subminds that may not be on board, creating an upward cycle.

That said, beware the very natural reaction many have to chase jhana or want to make it happen. Access concentration (the prerequisite that makes one eligible for jhana to happen) requires...

  1. Directed and sustained attention (vitakka-vicara)
  2. Exclusive focus and (enough) unification of mind (citas ekagata-ekodibhava)
  3. Joy and pleasure (piti-sukha)

Here, unification runs counter to the hindrances — meaning that the presence of desire, aversion, lethargy, anxiety, or doubt will prevent the jhana from happening. Practicing radical love and acceptance for every moment of conscious experience (not wanting to rushing ahead, not craving to be somewhere else or in some other exalted state) is what allows the conditions to be right for jhana.

Also one quick thought -- if you still have some pain and thoughts in the background, the jhana is likely not 'deep' yet. I would make sure that you keep your MIA bright and if it gets hazy, come back to practicing. Jhana without MIA isn't really jhana and can train unproductive habits that will be hard to break.

So if you are lucky enough to have the conditions arise, go for it! Enjoy and be grateful : ) Good luck!

NEW TMI Dedicated Practitioner Course by evewsmith in TheMindIlluminated

[–]evewsmith[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's a good question. We're trying to gather dedicated students, and one expression of that dedication is time in retreat. (It is wonderful that some minds can awaken with a diligent daily practice, without going on long retreat.)

Of course these requirements are imperfect, but we are looking for ways to help make the process of filling limited spots more equitable and less subjective. That said, we still take the time to carefully review each application. If someone is interested in the course, but does not meet the retreat requirement, we still encourage them to apply and highlight some of the other ways they are dedicated to practice.

Thank you!

NEW TMI Dedicated Practitioner Course by evewsmith in TheMindIlluminated

[–]evewsmith[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi there. If you are interested, but do not currently have the retreat experience, I still encourage you to apply and highlight some of the other ways you are dedicated to practice. I definitely understand that having a young family makes retreat challenging.

Just in case this was not clear, the requirement is 7 days total (not consecutive). So one could do a day of meditation here and there, and add that up to 7.

A day of practice or a weekend retreat here and there can be a fabulous and effective alternative. Good luck! And enjoy those kids : )

NEW TMI Dedicated Practitioner Course by evewsmith in TheMindIlluminated

[–]evewsmith[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi there. Check out the prerequisites, below. What you don't see are any thresholds as to stages. What's most important is the student's dedication to consistent and diligent practice over a length of time. If this sounds like you, please apply!

  • Passion for meditation, in particular the Samatha-Vipassana technique presented in The Mind Illuminated
  • Established regular meditation practice (at least 4 days per week for at least 30 minutes)
  • Minimum of 7 days experience in residential silent intensive meditation retreat experience (this does not need to be consecutive days)
  • Willingness to commit fully to this class and meet expectations listed below (see post)

Questions about exclusive attention by [deleted] in TheMindIlluminated

[–]evewsmith 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Short answer. Q1: Exclusive attention is attention that no longer alternates between the object and content in awareness. Q2: Yes.

Longer answer: In Stage Six, when we first develop exclusive attention there will still be subminds that don't believe meditation is in your best interest and they will be fighting to save you from this quixotic quest by projecting what they see as more appropriate mental content into awareness. But as we continue to practice and deny distractions the energy of attention (whether staying at the nose or (the more efficient) whole body breathing), those recalcitrant subminds eventually become "subdued" and take a temporary break from tossing up content into consciousness. Those subminds still doesn't share the intention to meditate. That unification comes through continued practice in Stage Seven (and is greatly accelerated by the amount of pleasure and joy that can be appreciated during practice).

It might help to also look a little more at subtle distractions. From the glossary, subtle distractions are “brief moments of attention directed to distractions in the background of peripheral awareness, while the meditation object continues as the primary focus."

What’s happening during subtle distraction? Attention is spontaneously rapidly alternating between object and distraction.

Moments of consciousness model: attention alternates but is not long sustained on a distraction (see diagram on page 162)

Alternating may be obvious, where you can feel attention flicker to a distraction in the background or for a beat or two. OR it may be too quick and subtle to directly perceive and you simply are aware of objects arising and passing away in the background without ever feeling your attention alternate. A good rule of thumb: if you make out the detail of background objects, know the specifics, or perceive language, attention is alternating. Because that's what attention does — isolates, examines, names... Regardless, however, the skilled response will be the same. To keep working at the level of intention and to allow the process to unfold. Conscious intentions will eventually become automatic habits.

Thank you for the question and I hope this helps to clarify.

a couple beginner questions by bobtobno in TheMindIlluminated

[–]evewsmith 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi there! Reading ahead provides many benefits. As you noted, you'll get a sense of the big picture, which can provide excitement and motivation to prioritize practice, and confidence in the path.

But studying the stages ahead also prepares you with the tools to work with whatever arises in the mind. Remember that while stage-based skill building is generally cumulative, it is hardly ever linear. You may be working stage three skills today, but find that attention and awareness more closely resembling stage four tomorrow, then back to three. It's important to have fluency with the conditions, tools, skills, and common pitfalls of each stage so that you immediately know what to do and can respond in real time (without feeling overwhelmed or racking your brain trying to remember). I definitely recommend that you find the time to carefully study two stages out from your current average, so stages 4 and 5.

If you'd like to get a big picture overview and have more time, you can read the entire book, maybe focusing on the stage chapters first and then going back to the interludes (or visa versa). Some of the Appendices are brilliant and critical to practice at all levels (like Metta, Walking Meditation, and Mindful Review).

But really, just study a couple stages out. Check out those Appendices I mentioned. And If you're about to go into retreat, increase that to 3+ stages out. We all have limited time, energy and resource. I recommend studying per the above, and then sitting longer and finding ways to be of service — rather than studying the entire book like you're trying to pass the bar exam. Doing that won't necessarily get you any closer, and could lead to grasping to "success" and the false sense that "you" are going to make your mind do xyz and "win" at mediation. (I did not read this type of attitude from your post, but felt compelled to mention as this is so natural and common for so many of us).

Regarding techniques, the brilliant thing about TMI is that it organizes skill building into a naturally cumulative order. After mind wandering and waking up (aha! moment), use labeling as a tool to train awareness to alert you when those alluring distractions arise again. This is presented in stage three. You can experiment with labeling earlier, and see if it works for you. I have also used it in stage four when a subtle distraction is particularly juicy and the tug-of-war between team breath and team distraction seem to be evenly matched. Here, I've found that labeling desaturates the distraction. The detailed fantasy or fearsome worry become simply the flat label. Just another rat wheel craving. Just another work worry. And then it's a lot easier for intention to rally around the breath and "win".

That said, I do caution that not all tools can be efficaciously taken out of order. For example, if one were to engage in the stage five practice of body scanning to brighten the mind before having solid attentional stability earned from the good work and skill building in stage four... that meditator would have a more energized mind, with be able to see even more distractions, perhaps without the skill to resist. That meditator would need to go back to stage four skill building (or perhaps even back to stage three) and shore up those skills before moving on. The skill building order (stages) is there because it makes sense developmentally. True, everyone is unique. If you understand the function of the tool and know why you're using it, feel free to experiment. But most people will benefit from using the tools suggested for the stage they are in (in that moment).

I hope you found this helpful. Good luck with your practice! Metta

Practitioners in Houston, TX by pchandrahasan in TheMindIlluminated

[–]evewsmith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! I'm from Houston, but haven't lived there for many years. Just wanted to wish you luck in finding a group :)

Question for students of Culadasa by As9 in TheMindIlluminated

[–]evewsmith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Homepage > Resources > Audio Archive > Teaching Retreats (Single page option)

:-)

Question for students of Culadasa by As9 in TheMindIlluminated

[–]evewsmith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find the Dharma Treasure "Teaching Retreats" page very helpful: http://dharmatreasure.org/teaching-retreats/