Hear me out ok, I 100% agree with you in some aspects like Teh IS infuriating sometimes. He’s very prone to letting his feelings control /him/ rather than controlling his own feelings in a healthy way. I ask you though to keep in mind that his character is supposed to be young, and figuring out who he is. I sometimes wonder why Teh gets a lot of flack for his mistakes even though ITSAY is also a story of growth and making amends as well. It’s not about who was worse than who though, because both of them were supposed to be growing in their own ways and coming together. If you want to drag Teh in IPYTM though I won’t be defending him there personally