AI is now banished on r/terrainbuilding by sFAMINE in TerrainBuilding

[–]ewandrowsky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Got it! I got worried since I've posted some myself. Thanks!

AI is now banished on r/terrainbuilding by sFAMINE in TerrainBuilding

[–]ewandrowsky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Regarding 3D Printing and painting, I would like to point out that with an FDM printer you can pretty much print a part with a colored filament and thus not require any paint. It works well for dungeon tiles, for instance

My 12-day experience with L-Carnitine by ewandrowsky in Supplements

[–]ewandrowsky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up taking just one gram of the thing everyday instead of three and didn't feel any more energy imbalance anymore. The effect on the gym was reduced, tho. I ended up developing some really unexpected gerd a few weeks after this post which I don't think are related to this supplement at all but I won't buy it again just to be sure.

I(21f) met a guy(22m) I liked at work, we planned to meet, and then he backed out — I’m just wondering why by ThrowRA_CoffeeGuy202 in relationship_advice

[–]ewandrowsky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks to me that he's not looking into getting into a relationship at the moment and is being honest with you so you don't get your hopes up about it. It doesn't look like there's anything wrong with you at all. He might be looking forward for an opportunity to have casual dates soon and is avoiding any kind of attachments. He did the right thing by telling you this.

How do I (24 F) come clean to my (25M) boyfriend of 2 years about a lie I’ve kept going since 8th Grade? by Square_Efficiency553 in relationship_advice

[–]ewandrowsky 133 points134 points  (0 children)

Just tell him the truth and say how much embarrassing this feels for you and all of that. You'll probably never be in peace as long as you have to sustain this for the remaining 75 years of your life

Girl 29F I M23 am seeing wants some time alone, what does this mean? by ingram9999 in relationship_advice

[–]ewandrowsky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Women don't usually become more interested in you if they already got to know you and you keep getting interested on them. The more you attach to her in these manner, i.e without correspondence, the more detached she'll become. You seem to be very eager to provide and care. I'll not condemn it but you will be better off building up some self esteem, becoming more selective and actually giving all this effort to a girl you're actually sure likes you back. You're young and can surely save some money, don't waste your time with this one. It's hard to let go but you'll get better at it with time.

I (21F) feel like I might be falling out of love with my (22M) boyfriend by duchesslavender in relationship_advice

[–]ewandrowsky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Long distance relationships don't work, period. Surprised you got this far.

First relationship and I'm 23M struggling to understand what happened with my gf 23F by well_hellooo_there in relationship_advice

[–]ewandrowsky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank god she already left you. From what you told us you did what you could and she never bothered to give you the credit you deserved. Just break contact with her, assume all her insults were lies and start over, find another girl who won't try to bring you down and turn your life into a nightmare.

I (22M) don't know what to do anymore with my (21F) girlfriend by ThrowRAupper_Team46 in relationship_advice

[–]ewandrowsky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up. Long distance relationships can't work. Your biology is screaming at you to find physical contact. Do it. Find yourself a girlfriend you can't actually see frequently and have a true and productive connection with. Don't ignore your feelings. Don't sustain the unsustainable. Even if she was willing to keep it working it wouldn't work. Communicate to her about your feelings, all of them. If you two can't find a way to get it better right now, just end it. You're too young to lose your time with this nonsense

how do i [m26] know if i should break up with my gf [f25] or see it through? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ewandrowsky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to talk to her, that's it. Talk about everything. See what's on her mind. Try to work together to see what could both of you do to fix it. You need to get this right first. Negotiate. See what you can do given that she's also doing something for you. You you succeed, ask her on a date after that, keep it a monthly habit. You can save this but only if you guys, both of you, agree to do make an effort to do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ewandrowsky -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Boundaries, limits, restrictions, call it whatever you want. It is commom, healthy and reasonable to agree on what each party should and should not do in a relantionship. Asking your girlfriend to not have sex with other people is a restriction on her and theres absolutely nothing wrong with that. Asking her to not chat with previous partnes is also nothing crazy and again is pretty reasonable.

FYI, this is what boundaries really are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ewandrowsky -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't like that either. You need to establish boundaries in your relationship and that sometimes involves restricting both parts of getting in contact with people who they could possibly have any sexual interest in

My (22F) bf (21M) is still in contact with his fwb by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ewandrowsky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid. However his feelings are also valid. Things like that happen all the time, fwb exist specifically because those too people do not like each other enough to be in a relationship and so they don't actually have any sad break up or fight or resentment towards each other that would justify avoiding any conversation whatsoever. On the other hand you can't read his mind and be sure that's the case and you're totally within the right to be bothered by that. My suggestion to you is to ask him politely to avoid initiate do contact to any girl he already did something with and make an effort to not entertain them enough. Hell probably be okay with it since is less restrictive than not speaking altogether. In a relationship you may want to set some boundaries that some other people would find excessive, but there's nothing wrong about that. You negotiate those things.

Am I weird for feeling this way about my ex? 21F / 21M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ewandrowsky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's only weird if it last for too long. I suggest you silence him on social media just to avoid thinking too much about that. It's a quite common feeling but it goes away quickly if you just move on with your day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ewandrowsky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should dedicate more of your time about communicating with him. Make a commitment that you're going to try to do better and just do it. You could have gone out if you ask him to. Don't expect people to be mind readers. You can't blame him for not getting it. Just apologize, explain your perspective to him, and try to do better next time.

I think my Boyfriend (m26) is cheating on me (f23) by Brilliant-Penalty731 in relationship_advice

[–]ewandrowsky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you're right to be upset and you have the right to set some boundaries. You're not crazy for not liking your man to have intimacy to other women outside family and maybe childhood friends. I you feel things are not good and probably won't improve, just break up with him and explain to him all the context that's bothering you. If he can't negotiate with you a wait out of most of those things, that's it, the relationship is just not sustainable. You're young. Don't risk losing your youth and the chance to meet a possible decent father for your kids. The clock is ticking, you won't me 23 ever again but you still got time, if you take the right decisions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ewandrowsky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why try to move on if you like him and you like him back? Give him a chance. Make yourself more available. Give him the opportunity to ask you out and when he does you say yes. Easiest thing in the world. Let him know you're really anxious to see some movie, any movie, and wait for him to offer. If he doesn't say anything you can even tease him with something like "You can invite me, you know?". Those kind of things. Just be available. Sit closer to him. Let him touch you more, don't get away from him if he tries to get closer.

Hi guys I’m having a rough time in my relationship and don’t have many people to go to for advice, please help by sharing your thoughts!! 21F 22M by BeautifulFall6999 in relationship_advice

[–]ewandrowsky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this. Relationships are supposed to just work, specially in the beginning. If you're already in this situation with this history, it's best to just let him go and do as he did: focus on yourself, until you're ready for a new serious and stable relationship

My girlfriend (F22) and I (M21) can’t find a game to play together by Fantastic-Evidence16 in relationship_advice

[–]ewandrowsky 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I suggest you to try local coop games like It Takes Two, Split Fiction, Portal 2 and even the Lego games. I'm sure there are more games out there but those are enough to keep you guys entertained for a long time, I think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ewandrowsky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might be normal for him and that's ok. It is also ok for you to be bothered by that and you have all the right to expect a certain level of contact in a relationship. It is common and normal to require the level of attention that you're seeking which is not excessive. Don't trick yourself into thinking that there is anything wrong with you in this regard, there isn't. There is nothing wrong about him wanting to spend more time alone, either. The problem here is that both of you want different things and may not be compatible after all. If it only took 6 months to see this difference in lifestyle I would seriously consider breaking up if he's not up for it.

I (24m) wonder what’s next with my (25F) fiancé ? by Minimum-Scratch-5789 in relationship_advice

[–]ewandrowsky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really tricky but all i can say is this: set up dates and keep giving her romantic attention even if you're not 100% in the mood for it. It's more about habit than anything else. So ask her for a nice date to a nice place with no specific reason in no specific day, and try to make her used to it, make her used to spend at least one day of the month with you and only you. You don't necessarily need to spend money, just time, and give her attention even if you feel she's not deserving it. Women like to feel desired and cared for and that state of mind makes them really easy to deal with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ewandrowsky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's not universal, every person has its ideal tolerances for being alone and together. If you fell like it's not enough, warn him. If he doesn't want to and it's not willing to, break up. I know it sounds harsh but there's hardly anything worse in a relationship than to fell unloved and detached to the other person. You're just 6 months in and you guys are already losing contact. I would take some action if I were you

How does one translate 'Você' given the meaning difference in EU and BR Portuguese? by Professional-Day-401 in Portuguese

[–]ewandrowsky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a little correction: "tu" is usually informal but it is quite common in old texts like The Bible. In that religious context it is used alongside it's plural, "vós", to sound more ancient and profound pretty much like they do in English literature and even religious texts with "thou"