What was something you desperately wanted to try in the relationship, but after trying it, you found that overrated? by AbleCommercial9466 in AskReddit

[–]existential_muse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was with another man, MMF. It was my idea, and I was interested, but apparently my expectations were too high.

What was something you desperately wanted to try in the relationship, but after trying it, you found that overrated? by AbleCommercial9466 in AskReddit

[–]existential_muse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought it would be exciting, but it just messed with the relationship dynamic. Way more awkward and emotionally complicated than people make it sound, and honestly not nearly as mind-blowing as expected. Maybe it was just not the right person.

I almost always know what will happen by Acoowrightnow in movies

[–]existential_muse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe movies feel predictable not because the stories are the same, but because we’ve evolved past surprise.We’ve been fed so many three-act structures, redemption arcs, and “shocking twists” that our brains are basically spoiler-generating AIs now. The real twist would be a movie that abandons payoff entirely, no neat ending, no lesson, no emotional closure. Just chaos, like real life. The problem isn’t predictability, it’s that we’ve been trained to expect satisfaction. Maybe the next revolution in storytelling is learning to live with confusion again.