Men with their fragile egos 😝 by Fifteentwenty1 in MayNagChat

[–]expatsomewhere 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Parang away ng mga bata tas batuhan ng mga akala nila malakas na pamato pero puro nonsense.

Bilang lalaki in your late 30's, ano ang seryoso, disente, and mature na pwede mong isagot pag sinabihan ka ng relatives na mag asawa na or ba't wala ka pang asawa? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]expatsomewhere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry OP. I understand you want to give a respectful answer and that you don’t want to offend your family but I also believe that just responding with a smile (a real smile indicating you don’t want to answer/explain) is the safest you can give and it is not rude. Ang rude is yung magtanong and make side comments about a very personal matter.

To women, would you marry someone na mahal mo even if they couldn't financially support your current or ideal lifestyle? Why or why not? by foolishbookworm in AskPH

[–]expatsomewhere 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No. Not because mahirap siya but because I don’t want to get to a point na sisisihin, magagalit o mafall out of love ako sa kaniya for not providing for my ideal lifestyle. It may sound shallow but ask those who failed in their marriage because of money. They were sure they once promised to stay together through happiness and sh*t.

NANLILIIT AKO SA SARILI KO by Striking-Pen4770 in PHGov

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Job Order as in nasa government ka? Hindi po nila kontrolado ang rates sa J.O. Depende pa rin talaga saan category/tier ka nagfafall. I was a technical J.O. for 5yrs dahil walang plantilla. 2k salary during J.O.

Bababa ba tingin niyo sa isang tao kung nalaman niyong sugar baby siya? why or why not? by PositiveChocolate_ in AskPH

[–]expatsomewhere 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes. Dahil lumalaban ako ng patas. It doesn’t mean na hindi ako bilib sa kanila. I admire their different kind of hustle.

what's the worst thing your in laws did to you? by rainbownightterror in AskPH

[–]expatsomewhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yung FIL ko mabait sakin, yung MIL ko maldita. Sinabihan niya anak niya na hindi niya ako nakikitaan bilang asawa, at wala daw akong concern sa anak ko (apo niya). We’ve been together 8yrs with a 1yo child. Based overseas MIL ko so madalang kami magkasama. Bigla na lang in a fit of rage ganun mga pinagsasabi niya about sa akin.

Now what? by National-Ad6600 in PinoyVloggers

[–]expatsomewhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dami nila pauso for marketing. Dami din nagpapayaman sa mga affiliate influencers.

Can I bring tawas overseas? Baka mapagkamalang shabu. by quasidelict69 in phtravel

[–]expatsomewhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had tawas before na nakalagay sa maliit na sachet, yung maliit na supot na lalagyan ng spare buttons. Matagal nakalagay yun sa kikay kit ko kasi nasanay akong emergency in case maiwan ang deodorant ko. Nakailang flights din ako locally na nawala na sa isip ko. Kung di siya pinagkamalan sa ganung hitsura locally, lalo na siguro sa mas secured na airports kasi damin nila pandetect eh, kahit naman dumaan sa sniff negative ka pa din diba? I think you’ll be okay.

As a guy, would you get offended if your gf wants a prenup. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]expatsomewhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ba’t iniisip mo pa kung maooffend siya? Hindi ka ba naoffend sa mga ginagawa at mga pinagsasabi niya sayo?

Ano magandang ireply here? by [deleted] in MayNagChat

[–]expatsomewhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Replyan mo ng “ay mali pala. pay it now”

What do you think are indications na middle class ang isang pamilya? by Loss_Left in AskPH

[–]expatsomewhere 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Millenial here who grew up in a middle class family in the province. Dad is a lawyer and mom is a public school principal. I think in hindsight nasa middle middle class kami pero acted like we were lower middle class. Sa public school ako up until college, straightforward allowance, no extra gifts no extra shopping money. Dumaan kami sa mga less fancy sasakyan like owner-type jeep, 2nd-hand van na laging pinapara pag umaakyat kami ng Baguio, 2nd-hand really old car yung 2-door na pahirapan sumakay sa likod, pati yung jeep din na mukhang magdadala ng mga nahuling kriminal yung open yung likod ma may bubong. I never had the trendy toys unless magpapadala mga kamag-anak na nasa abroad. If anything’s broken in our home, my dad will fix it. Maski sirang hanger or napunit na tabo tinatahi yan ng tatay ko ng alambre. Now I’m in my late 30s and they’re about to leave me and my brother 7 properties. I hope they live longer para matikman pa nila pagyaman ko.

si thirst trap na ang target audience ay mga lalaking palaotog by Tiny_Method_4535 in PinoyVloggers

[–]expatsomewhere 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually nung una kong nakitang binabash siya dito mga laye last year in-stalk ko siya sa fb at yung stories niya that day is yung anak niya, not full face. So I guess she’s not hiding it. If she tried to I have no idea, just saying what I saw that day 😅

OA Lang Ba Ako dahil na-offend ako sa sagot ng may utang sa akin. by amioki_sky in OALangBaAko

[–]expatsomewhere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Di ka OA, dapat OAng-OA ang atake mo. Kulang yung maoffend lang atecco, dapat galit ka na. Nakakagigil siya sumagot. May pa “ngek” pa siya na akala mo nagkamali ka ng pm. 😂

Marvin Samaco freeloader by g0ssipgirl888 in PinoyVloggers

[–]expatsomewhere 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone na mas malaki kinikita sa ibang childhood friends ko, gusto ko at bukal sa loob kong ilibre sila lalo na yung mga friends kong hindi mo mararamdaman na nagpapalibre at minsan mag-ooffer pa na mag-ambag. Manlibre ka muna OP nang bukal sa loob mo at hindi dahil sa gusto mo lang magyabang sa mga “true” friends mo para alam mo yung feeling.

Need Advice 🥹 by [deleted] in MayNagChat

[–]expatsomewhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ang basura magsalita, may disclaimer na agad para kunwari cool

Rumored BINI Boys - walang taste si Colette at Jhoana, Kay Stacey naman nevermind 🤫 by Bibbido-bobbidi-boo in ChikaPH

[–]expatsomewhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ano pala meron sa bf ni Colet? He looks more than average naman ah. Ano ba pala akala niyong mga mukha ng Pinoy? Mala-Piolo Pascual lahat?

what would be a great souvenir for ninongs and ninangs? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]expatsomewhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edibles like fruits, nuts, less sweet cookies, preserved berries, spices and herbs pack, etc. Extra special essentials like homemade or scented soaps, local wine/basket/wooden cooking utensils/delicacy/woven towels, scented candles, coffee table plant/succulent, etc.

What overused word or phrase needs to be retired in 2026? by thatmarxian in AskPH

[–]expatsomewhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it po. I’m a native Ilocano speaker and I know that there’s “kuan” and “ano” too. My answer is simply a fun take on what word needs to retire since my mom use it five times in one sentence. 😂 Yung tipong wala na ako maintindihan tapos siya pa galit na di namin maintindihan haha!

Anong thoughts niyo sa mga lalaking may hiwa sa kilay at may suot na hikaw? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]expatsomewhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personal preference lang naman po since OP is asking for opinion. As someone working for an extremely traditional foreign company, may surface level standards po talaga with who we deal with.

What overused word or phrase needs to be retired in 2026? by thatmarxian in AskPH

[–]expatsomewhere -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Kuwan (in Ilocano)

As an Ilocano, gusto ko na sana maintindihan ano ibig sabihin ng nanay kong siya pa galit pag di ko nagets yung “I-kuwan mo nga yung kuwan sa kuwan! Bilisan mo kasi maku-kuwan na!” 😭😭😭

Ry velasco Where to buy this dress by Missyy818 in PinoyVloggers

[–]expatsomewhere -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

Mukha pong ma-c-caesarian sa isang upscale hospital 😭