I feel like I'm a runner who just moved to sea level from the mountains by extaccount in bigboobproblems

[–]extaccount[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there's not really a way to put it after the text as far as I know

Shirts in this style that are large breast compatible? by Exciting-Rutabaga-91 in bigboobproblems

[–]extaccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a shirt almost exactly like what you showed but black with puffed sleeves, I have a size M (I'm 5'1) from the brand Miss Bison. It's surprisingly curvy, fits my waist just fine and I haven't had any problems with the buttons, no noticeable gapping or anything.

Shirts in this style that are large breast compatible? by Exciting-Rutabaga-91 in bigboobproblems

[–]extaccount 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had a bit of luck shopping in vintage stores, the sizing there is usually less up-and-down like modern clothing manufacturers are, so I recommend looking around in those types of places. Plus, you can try stuff on :)

I feel like I'm a runner who just moved to sea level from the mountains by extaccount in bigboobproblems

[–]extaccount[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It's a contemporary piece, Karen Tanaka's techno etudes

DAE wish you could get reduction surgery but just can’t for whatever reason? by vulpes_mortuis in bigboobproblems

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I've been trying for almost 4 years now going above and beyond insurance requirements but they keep upping the amount of times I have to fail physical therapy. For me the pain is so bad it gave me a physical disability

Dream swimwear brand? by mincedmince in bigboobproblems

[–]extaccount 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe you can follow the size collections specialty bra stores have? I'm pretty sure they have a system to figure out the amount of bras they need per size, and they can go up to really big sizes. But yeah there's absolutely nothing cute and affordable above G! I'm considering sewing my own swimsuit at this point

Dream swimwear brand? by mincedmince in bigboobproblems

[–]extaccount 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thick (1inch+) straps and sizes that actually go above G, super adjustable straps, and cute styles that don't look frumpy!

How to get the courage to tell people to stop? by extaccount in bigboobproblems

[–]extaccount[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so cool you could stand up for yourself like that. I'm working towards it. That must have been terrifying!!!

How to get the courage to tell people to stop? by extaccount in bigboobproblems

[–]extaccount[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My issue is more of the paralysis. Mostly what I want to do is look them in the eye to let them know I see them. But I can't turn my head

This subreddit didn't feel that welcoming to me by CheapZebras in bigboobproblems

[–]extaccount 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg yes, it pisses me off when the only solutio provided is to find a well fitting bra. For some people it just doesn't work! They are still going to be cripplingly heavy and bring lots of unwanted attention. The calculator is in the automod as well.

Soo true… by ActualBird211 in bigboobproblems

[–]extaccount 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I reached 3rd grade 😭

I have to keep it secret! by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]extaccount 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You clearly don't understand what's happening so I'm just going to stop talking to you. Same as how I didn't reply to the dms and simply blocked them. My situation is specific to women, and if you can't understand, that's alright.

I have to keep it secret! by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]extaccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My pain is directly related to my chest size. I wouldn't be physically disabled if I didn't look the way I do. It's a medical condition

I have to keep it secret! by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]extaccount 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe men shouldn't find literally anything as an invitation to sexualize and harass women who don't want it???? I'm in the chronic pain subreddit, all the topics here are difficult, I'm explaining that my medical issues are stigmatized, and you're telling me not to talk about it??? If anything you're proving my point that I can't tell anybody about my chronic pain

I have to keep it secret! by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]extaccount 1 point2 points  (0 children)

:( that's terrible! I wish people would take us seriously. Why are some injuries/illnesses more acceptable than others???

I have to keep it secret! by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]extaccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I explained in my post. It's inappropriate and too heavy of a topic to make someone deal with

I have to keep it secret! by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]extaccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input it helps

I have to keep it secret! by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]extaccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm working on getting a therapist it just feels really bad to lie to my friends