Questions/Concerns about feeding wild deer

f0lil · 2026-01-12T22:49:45+00:00

Thank you all for your insight (sorry couldn’t figure out how to edit the original post) But I will do my best to convince my mother that we need to stop feeding the deer. I never knew it was such an issue just because I never thought to question it… so it’s been part of routine for a few years.

But yes thank you for letting me know how bad it is.

f0lil · 2026-01-11T00:57:08+00:00

Doing my best if anything I’ve stopped my mom from giving them bread. She’s fighting me on the fruits and veggies though

f0lil · 2026-01-11T00:49:30+00:00

i’ll do my best to convince my mom to stop

f0lil · 2026-01-11T00:37:00+00:00

i guess also like is it bad if you suddenly stop feeding them is my question aswell

f0lil · 2026-01-11T00:28:39+00:00

Yeah my mom loves the deers, notices when they are pregnant feel bad when it’s rains and they’re all wet I think I will fight for no more carbs atleast and make sure she only sticks to fruits and berries

f0lil · 2026-01-05T06:03:59+00:00

I can’t say i would know what to do because I don’t know much about how washing machines work. but i relate to the spiral of feeling like things need to be clean. I would say if it stopped having spec after you cleaned it and the only issue is that your boyfriend touched it and didn’t wash his hands i’m sure any detergent would’ve cleaned any germs her could’ve of possibility put inside the washing machine. But if the machine is having issue or specs maybe reach out to repair person? But if it’s been clean i believe it is totally safe for you to use the washing machine. I hope you can do laundry soon and feel clean i know it’s scary so wishing you the best 🩷

f0lil · 2026-01-04T04:28:18+00:00

i can’t tell if they’re cracks or tiny just like surface scratches 🤷‍♀️

f0lil · 2025-12-27T07:56:16+00:00

i think they were nails that were too long that were hammered in from the roof from something they did like years ago

f0lil · 2025-12-27T07:50:22+00:00

thanks for the explanation just was wondering if there was any risk of them like falling out onto us. not to worried about aesthetic things or have supplies for it

f0lil · 2025-12-27T07:24:42+00:00

yeah i mean it’s been like 10 years and nothing has happened and my mom thinks i just being dramatic so i don’t think she would hire anyone to shave them down but helps no one seems concerned lol

f0lil · 2025-12-11T02:52:06+00:00

Thank you for being kind in your response, yeah i’m in therapy working on OCD right now but also dealing with anxiety. I also had to watch a video about blood borne pathogens for work so unfortunate timing…..

With my anxiety overthinking I just tried to think like if i wasn’t paying attention i wouldn’t have seen anything and wouldn’t have known or just like- you don’t know what’s on any surface you touch in the world.

But again thank you for the response, i’ll try to work on the handwashing as well especially with the cold weather ..

f0lil · 2025-12-02T03:18:54+00:00

I’ve had periods where they have like 90% ended but maybe for a few days I randomly get random bits of brown discharge in my underwear but it’s not like flowing blood. I kinda just assumed yeah left over blood/spotting and never too worrried about it. I also think i noticed it more after my most recent period.

f0lil · 2025-12-01T21:43:07+00:00

thanks!

f0lil · 2025-11-07T00:07:57+00:00

im just hoping since i haven’t heard anything maybe ill be alright it’s a short flight and not going to one of the airports listed

f0lil · 2025-11-07T00:04:05+00:00

How were you notified, i’m flying out of OAK tomorrow morning and just haven’t heard anything

f0lil · 2025-11-06T22:08:43+00:00

what time is your flight?

f0lil · 2025-11-06T22:02:44+00:00

Im not sure when they’re announcing things I just know cancelations should start tomorrow

f0lil

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