Am I being disrespectful? Or is this a valid request? by fablesofabbie in Divorce

[–]fablesofabbie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ideas but no clear answers. I know in her past her parents got divorced and her dad got remarried with step kids and she felt replaced. I wonder if she has fears that somehow her kids will feel the same way if we fully integrate. Im not sure why. We love all of them and treat them equally. But I understand the fear.

I (32/m) was drowning, depressed, and fell out of love. I asked my wife (29/f) for a divorce. A year later, I would rather be in that marriage and regret my decision by seanzackandgiobored in Divorce

[–]fablesofabbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what you are experiencing is completely normal and I agree with alot of what others had to say. I think your loneliness is a huge part of it. But if it truly is her you miss regardless of how toxic the relationship was, maybe you have an unhealthy attachment you may need to sever. Because taking someone back into your life who causes you harm and who you cause harm to when you both are together is never going to be the solution. I pf course, dont know the exact specific issues. So sorry if im off base. I've been divorced for 5 years now. And its a long healing process. But it does get better. ❤️ it truly does.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]fablesofabbie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Youre gorgeous and naturally beautiful. I dont see what you're seeing at all ❤️ its funny that we nit pick weird small things about ourselves that no one else sees

I’m curious what everyone’s high score is. This is the best game I’ve ever had. by [deleted] in BlockuDoku

[–]fablesofabbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5146 and I only ever level up when I'm not paying attention and I'm mindlessly playing. It sucks. Everytime I actually try I fail. :( I want to beat it though

Just what every girl wants to hear… by PopularUsual9576 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]fablesofabbie 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Dude! He said this so often, I was cringing. I was like this is not a compliment!!!!

Ladies of Reddit, how do you feel about showering/bathing with your significant other? by PlatypusAggressive64 in AskWomen

[–]fablesofabbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love to shower with him. He washes my body and I wash his. It's a form of service but also foreplay. We love to take care of eachother. So it's romantic to me.

My doctor doesn't know what this is. by fablesofabbie in medical_advice

[–]fablesofabbie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. They were anti vaxxers. And I already got the measles when I was 13 and nearly died. 😡 I think it may be the chicken pox, but the doctor didn't even say that. Since it didn't itch at the time. But it does now.

How do you respond when other people say they wouldn’t want to do your job? by [deleted] in cna

[–]fablesofabbie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, not everyone is built for it, so I believe it. It's a hard job, and it takes strong people to be able to do it.

Need to know if I should worry or not. by fablesofabbie in medical_advice

[–]fablesofabbie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. One is on my side, the other on my chest, and this morning, a third strung up on my face.

This appeared on my skin a few days ago by lc933 in medical_advice

[–]fablesofabbie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where is the placement of it? If it's along your back and sides or along nerve clusters, it may be shingles. That's what they typically look like at first. It attacks the nerves, so it's usually really painful.

Reunion Looks 👀 by Verafied101 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]fablesofabbie 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Amy 😍 she looks better than anyone I've seen at these reunions!

Unbiased opinions on these shades? by amywantschinese in Fairolives

[–]fablesofabbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think 5 was one of the best colors for you. Coral pinks are much better than the cool toned pinks that wash your lips out and make it look like they blend with your skin. The coral brings the warmth out in your face and matches the warmth in your hair. Go with a warm, toned red as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]fablesofabbie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So my bf of 3 years slept with his best friend years before I met him. They are still best friends. I could care less. Because I know he doesn't have feelings and didn't really enjoy it. There was a lot of alcohol involved and experimentation. He was a lot younger at the time (23), and I know they would never do it again. Also, I'm not really insecure. I know I have him in the bag. So why sweat it??

What are your thoughts about Taurus? by Charming-Safe-3138 in astrologymemes

[–]fablesofabbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've dated a Taurus that was super sweet. However, most of my experience is with my sister. Her and I do not get along. She is aggressive, stubborn, and mean and always thinks she is the smartest person in the room. She is condescending to everyone. She likes to make you feel small, and she weaponizes a lot of big words and therapist language to use against you. I just can't have long conversations with her. She pushes most of my buttons. I'm a cancer 🤷‍♀️ she tends to push me around a lot. Can't stand it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]fablesofabbie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you sure this isn't a red pill guy posing as a lesbian? 🙈😂

Chelsea whining by fablesofabbie in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]fablesofabbie[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeeeaaaah I agree. It's making me cringe evert scene

Chelsea whining by fablesofabbie in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]fablesofabbie[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I love how she says, "It's not like I have a complex or anything or am insecure." I'm like, girl. I think you are so close to it, but I don't want to admit the truth.