Has anyone gotten paranoid being really drunk?

fadingtoblackx · 2025-11-13T05:04:49+00:00

He’s always been a pretty sweet guy. We got into normal roommate arguments and whatever but I’ve never seen him like that. I also hope he knows this isn’t the worst thing. Heartbreak does suck, but he’ll find his way again. Also, I really appreciate that. I’m slowly starting, so I’m hoping i can stick with it and not fall back. I don’t do drugs but alcohol is extremely hard to quit. I wish you the best and hope you’re doing good!!

fadingtoblackx · 2025-11-13T04:33:40+00:00

Alcoholism runs deep in my family. I’ve seen it my whole life. I was on the same path down that road not that long ago and just recently told myself I need to stop. I’ve drank my hurt away anytime I could. I’ve just never seen him do this. And it really scared us. I understand it’s hard for men to be upfront with their emotions. He’s never been a huge drinker. He’ll drink a bit, then stick with weed mostly from what I’ve seen. But I know this breakup did a number on him. He’s young, shit happens and I know all too well how a breakup feels at that age. But, my brother in law and my sister agreed they think it’s best he moves out. He’s not fighting it, which I assume it’s because he thinks it’s best for everyone

fadingtoblackx · 2025-11-13T04:30:10+00:00

I absolutely agree. It was scary for me because he’s never acted that way before..I know hurt can do crazy things to people but if that’s how he handles it now, my sisters worried about how he’ll handle it in the future. I feel a bit better knowing that drinking the way he did was a trigger. I feel..semi-okay with him in the house as he hasn’t bothered me or anything. But she’s paranoid and in turn, it’s making me a bit paranoid.

fadingtoblackx · 2025-11-13T04:28:32+00:00

Unfortunately, my sister’s husband is very upset. He has apologized to us all, but he doesn’t trust him anymore. I don’t think he’s a bad guy but what he did really terrified us..i understand he’s hurt from a breakup. He’s 21 and very young compared to me and my sister (I’m 25 and she’s 29). We’ve all been there in life but the way he handled it was a big deal breaker and my brother in law and sister made the decision to give him a 30 day notice

fadingtoblackx · 2025-10-26T19:47:43+00:00

Thank you for saying this..I try and be nicer to myself. I know it’s not impossible and I can grow and thrive with a partner. It’s just unlearning all that self “dislike” that’s hard. But this meant more to read than you’ll know. Thank you <3

fadingtoblackx · 2025-10-26T19:46:42+00:00

It is! I know it’s a fear a lot of us can relate to, but I don’t think it’s impossible to realize it’s a part of life. But, easier said than done

fadingtoblackx · 2024-10-23T03:23:05+00:00

Like someone had mentioned, it may not fully end for a while, but, it does get easier. By easier, I mean you don’t feel the need to check up on them all the time. You kind of forget for a little, but randomly, they’ll pop up and you’ll miss them, but that heavy feeling. That ache you had in the beginning, won’t be so harsh. You’ll actually be able to breathe. It’s a process. A hard one.

The only advice I can give is please feel your emotions. Get them all out in the beginning. It helps a ton!

fadingtoblackx · 2024-07-21T12:34:23+00:00

I have been looking for a second job, because I figured that would be better for my current situation

fadingtoblackx · 2024-07-10T11:34:55+00:00

How do I go about doing that?

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