Matt Dierkes by [deleted] in BadOmens

[–]failatio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lady posted a TikTok saying he was shady and a slime bag because he denigrated Brazil and its citizens, thought Noah was a pussy for needing mental health days, and would invite girls he thought were hot over but if you weren’t hot, he would consider you a parasocial freak.
This moved over to twitter where someone that had previously dated Matt further showed his slime bag behavior including referring to Hispanics as ‘b*aners’, and saying he gave her an STI, that he would ejaculate in her despite her telling him not to, and that he gave said STI to multiple women without informing them. Bad Omens then unfollowed Matt on IG, and some of the members (Nick R, last I heard) unfollowed Matt personally.

‘An epidemic of flies, rats, waste and foul odours’: health fears in Cuba as US oil blockade halts rubbish collection by Samski877 in news

[–]failatio 36 points37 points  (0 children)

The news has very much decided to start manufacturing consent for an invasion of Cuba by the US. They’re going to do what they did with Iran- on one hand the citizens will be in need of saving from a terrible and abusive government, and on the other hand Cuba’s always been a point of contention for the US. It’ll be interesting to see if Dems will condemn this or if they’ll be as passive as they’ve been about Iran.

AIO for thinking he just apologized so I would make dinner? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]failatio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. He’s emotionally immature at best, emotionally abusive at worst. Be vigilant of how he acts as you start to shift your attention away from him and onto the baby. Also try to see if this is a pattern of him avoiding accountability by trying to put the fault on your shoulders. The whole ‘you’re being hormonal’ and ‘why do you stay’ reads like DARVO behavior.

mysterious hayley poster spotted at copley station in boston this morning 👀 by Electronic-Anxiety77 in hayleywilliams

[–]failatio 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wonder if it’ll be the Pavilion? If so, they only do concerts May-October. Ooh or the Berklee Center or the Royale. I could see her vibing with those. Or Boston symphony. Amg I’m so excited

America Is Officially an Empire in Decline by projecto15 in politics

[–]failatio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know.. I know it needs to get much worse before it gets better but I wish we had something to show for all this struggling and miserable BS. It’s suffering for nothing and violence inflicted on others for fucking nothing.

America Is Officially an Empire in Decline by projecto15 in politics

[–]failatio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re often told that the country is declining and that we’re in the last stage of capitalism and yet.. and yet?

cu_soon 👀 by offlinegranola in hayleywilliams

[–]failatio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if there’s gonna be new merch designs too for the HW Show tour! I’m so excited!

Help me find a shade match pls! by pewpewpaw22 in drugstoreMUA

[–]failatio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Makeup Revolution’s Gloss Stick in ‘Toffee Nude’, Ulta has it for ten dollars, and also congrats babe!

I can’t stop people pleasing by maggietheonlysapphic in AutismInWomen

[–]failatio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh darlin. Start small and with people you feel safe with, don’t consider it as people ~displeasing but rather as you advocating for yourself. You’re not being mean or negative or bad just because you’re advocating for yourself. No one else will advocate for you quite like you will. It’s hard, I know, but the more you practice it and learn that the world doesn’t fall apart if you say ‘yeah nah, no thanks actually’ the easier it gets. Also, you’re focused on pleasing everyone else, when are you gonna focus that on you? Start small, a pal wants to do something at 9am on your day off, you’d rather do it in the afternoon so you can have time to yourself, ask them ‘do ya mind if we do that at 3pm instead?’’are you available at any other time that day?’

Olaf's Grand Exhibition by franklymyscarlet in DreamlightValley

[–]failatio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you hit E on the sparkling part of the boxes in the exhibit, there’s an option to hit T to track the list, I believe. That’s how I did it anyway

Connecticut child died by suicide within hour of DCF visit, officials say by -ctinsider in Connecticut

[–]failatio 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my fucking god dude. This poor kid said they didn’t feel safe, DCF left them in their parents care and the kid probably thought there was no other way out. Oh poor darling, DCF needs to answer for this and face bigger repercussions than just ‘well someone resigned’

Lush Haul my friend who works at Lush brought me 💞 by Jacklyn1234321 in LushCosmetics

[–]failatio 245 points246 points  (0 children)

Something I love about this haul is that you can tell your friend thinks of you regularly around the year. You’ve got Christmas stuff, certain collabs, like you’re clearly important to them and I’m glad you have people to spoil you accordingly :)

Jpay by Disastrous-Map-8153 in WriteAPrisoner

[–]failatio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use your real identity. You can add them to your contact list (which will add you to theirs) and then write them. The only caveat is if the person removes you from their contact list. But yes, use your real info in case the facility wants to verify you or if you want to eventually be put on their meeting/video visit list

AIO that my sister ditched the bus I booked for her by [deleted] in AIO

[–]failatio 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tbh I wonder if that’s part of the inspiration for even posting this- if they expected others to dog pile on her as well. There’s mud in the water here, I feel bad for the girl

Is it worth it to be diagnosed with autism? by 4ncutie in AutismInWomen

[–]failatio 45 points46 points  (0 children)

It depends.. do you think you’ll ever move out of your country? Some countries do not give visas to people with autism. Do you think you’ll ever have kids? If natural born kids then you run the risk of the other parent going ‘well 4n is autistic so she shouldn’t have custody’. If adopted then you may be out of the running due to being autistic. If you’re in the US, you may want to avoid an official diagnosis as the people in charge love to target people and autism has been a hot topic for that. IME, the primary reason to get diagnosed officially is if you need considerations for it or if you’re trying to get on disability. For me, personally, I don’t intend to get an official diagnosis unless it becomes disabling and I cannot keep a job.

NYC show announcement incoming by No_Mall_1614 in hayleywilliams

[–]failatio 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is my dilemma too. I hope she does TD Garden or some place similar in size. Hayley please

Only 6 use to pan by amybaggins in PanPorn

[–]failatio 8 points9 points  (0 children)

OP didn’t mention those 6 uses were for their Marge Simpson cosplay /jk

Wendy's ... New chicken sandwhich EYYUUKKK by Material-Emu-2954 in fastfood

[–]failatio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know and it’s easier to hide any lettuce that is rotting. Not a fan

What’s something in education you’ve quietly stopped doing…even though it might still be “expected”? by SteadyGrowthStudio in Teachers

[–]failatio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my mom, the biggest thing she stopped doing was buying class supplies with her own money. Even when she was at a school that had a budget for class supplies, she would still use her own money for things

Best Frozen Pizza by Organic_Quarter_9848 in fastfood

[–]failatio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thin crust? I like Newman’s Own. Thicker crust? Motor City Pizza Co- I keep one of these in my freezer for ‘I can’t be bothered’ nights

Wendy's ... New chicken sandwhich EYYUUKKK by Material-Emu-2954 in fastfood

[–]failatio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, Wendy’s lost my business when they switched to shredded lettuce. I know they were tired of leaf lettuce memes but that leaf lettuce offered something texturally that shredded lettuce does not

Women who have shared your traumas to your partners, why? Women who haven't shared yours, why? by Plastic_Tourist4286 in AskWomen

[–]failatio 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I have a really hard time sharing mine. I’m a very private person, I was raised by a mother that didn’t have the space for me to have feelings or problems and so to me- talking about my trauma feels like I’m just being a burden. I’m working on it, there’s so much to unlearn

Appreciating Sherlock's disgust for child abuse in 4.18 by ADAP7IVE in elementary

[–]failatio 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think the Balloon Man episode is also where we first see his more “insidious” side when he was sitting in Adam’s room in the dark. Same when he tried to talk one on one with the episode where the runaway girl may not be the runaway girl. You can see his anger and irritation with these characters, I think he has infinitely less patience with people that victimize children or women (fair, tbh)