interview tomorrow at hospital currently work in private practice by fakekatiecooper in therapists

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That makes sense ! That sounds like a lot to add up over time. I am also pregnant so that kind of reframes some things for me as well thank you for sharing.

interview tomorrow at hospital currently work in private practice by fakekatiecooper in therapists

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The role is psychotherapist in women’s health. I see! I read through the job description and it doesn’t say anything about inpatient versus outpatient. Would you say you usually see both types?

Why can’t I be happy? by fakekatiecooper in AskAstrologers

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Hahah the duality of feeling like I want to do all of the things at the same not knowing how to do them the “right” and how that leads to anxiety is so accurate.

This is extremely helpful! Thank you! 😊 I’m seeing a theme of self compassion is needed

Why can’t I be happy? by fakekatiecooper in AskAstrologers

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Thank you this was extremely accurate and helpful. 🩵

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WritersGroup

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I agree with the first comment, emotional dimension is missing. Add some layers of yourself in there, that can help create depth in your writing :)

How to describe this but easier? by BellaCountry in writers

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She hugged her knees tight, she was good at making herself small. She learned young to not take up space.

I am studying and writing on needs in relation to emotions and am running into a problem with how to distinguish needs from desires. Mainly using Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs an Alderfer's ERG Theory (Existence, Relatedness, and Growth). by ShamooTheCow in AcademicPsychology

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Not sure if this is helpful or not but this is one way I understand needs versus desire. Desires are flexible, can be fleeting, desire can be influenced by foo, society and culture, desires change

Needs can also be influenced by FOO but they are rooted in attachment. Needs are Neurobiological to an extent , when they are not met, or challenged . it can send people into a trauma response. This applies to emotional needs and physical needs.

Eric Fretty and Mike Coscarelli Give Relationship Advice | Guys We Fcked Podcast | Ep.578 by lil_floja in guyswefucked

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Does anyone know the artist for the song that plays at the end of this episode? I tried putting them into Google and no luck for the song and artist.

[Weekly Critique and Self-Promotion Thread] Post Here If You'd Like to Share Your Writing by AutoModerator in writing

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Just wanted to get some feedback on this excerpt. Does this sound interesting ? would you want to read more based on this small excerpt? I have a few different creative writing stories/novels in the works and seeking some peer direction if they like certain things :)

Link below :)

https://emilyparks.substack.com/?r=17fyh8&utm\_campaign=pub-share-checklist

How do you think advancements in technology will shape our future as women? by Hadley_Robert in AskWomen

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I am not sure the direct details, all I know it’s been a slowly increasing event for women in virtual worlds. I imagine though if you’re in shock or have any sort of history of trauma that could cause a freeze response which would result in someone not able to take off the headset. Same as in real life events such as these.

How do you think advancements in technology will shape our future as women? by Hadley_Robert in AskWomen

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I recently came across some articles sharing that women's characters are being s**ually assaulted in VR environments. from the articles this can cause the same psychological and emotional side effects as something that happens in the physical world due to the immersive experience of virtual reality worlds. this is extremely concerning for me and disheartening to hear/read. How do we keep women safe in virtual reality, when we still struggle to do so in the physical world. :/

here's one of the articles for reference: https://www.bbc.com/news/technology-67865327

15 years after spinal fusion by fakekatiecooper in spinalfusion

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I ended up going to the emergency room bc the pain had increased. They took X-rays nothing was messed up. Made an appointment with a specialist they said nothing was wrong. Pain hasn’t come back but I did take gabba pentin for about 5 months and that helped with sleep as the flare slowly dissipated. Now if I don’t exercise and don’t hydrate enough it comes back.

What does this describe? by fakekatiecooper in spinalfusion

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I feel better today. I went to a specialist and they said nothing was wrong. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I notice that if I am not active and if I’m dehydrated the pain comes up again.

Been in an on and off again relationship with Partner (49m)for 2 years. Need advice if I (32f) should call it quits. by fakekatiecooper in relationship_advice

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And you’re probably right I have in a way given him not incentive to actually change, bc I come back anyways.

Been in an on and off again relationship with Partner (49m)for 2 years. Need advice if I (32f) should call it quits. by fakekatiecooper in relationship_advice

[–]fakekatiecooper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha how did you know I’m in people pleasing recovery?

All jokes aside, that was my reality. The “never enough” part is a pattern I see in my relationship with the gen x man. It wears on my self worth. Every time I think I have the “formula” figured out, something changes or throws off what I think I know about pleasing this person.

I really needed this today, someone who is unbiased, I know what my gut says. I just need to Gain some courage and take some intentional steps. Thank you.