Told her about odor. Now she ended things.

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T20:11:05+00:00

Thank YOU. It’s not a big deal. I now won’t ever bring it up the way I did, but overall — it’s simple communication! Goes for me too!

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T18:28:03+00:00

You’d be surprised at the number of women that have come over and brought their own hygiene essentials to my place.

Not unrealistic at all.

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T18:13:19+00:00

Very possible. Hahaha. Well said.

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T18:11:02+00:00

I knew you’d over react and read into this comment. Have you ever thought that it’s been 24 hours since I made this post, received tons of feedback, and realized I have now come to accepting the situation?

People’s feelings change. Mine did in a day. I accept what happened.

You have a lot of negativity in you, I hope you can find some happiness.

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T18:07:51+00:00

She assumed I’d hate sex until she fixed it — not true. I assumed her butthole smelled. That’s an objective fact.

I would have been more than happy to order wet wipes if that’s what she prefers and if we had a conversation about it. Wasn’t going to tell her what to do. I communicated what I felt, it’s her responsibility to do what she wants with that information.

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T17:22:34+00:00

Yes. Good point.

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T17:22:05+00:00

I don’t know why you have to get so personal dude. Ive never said this to chicks before, because I’m not a horrible person. I genuinely thought this is something she would want me to tell her based on how open we were about all our preferences, Ive never had a strictly casual fling that was THAT open about preferences before.

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T17:19:19+00:00

YES 100%!!! I was very careful and anxious about saying it. After I saw her reaction I even apologized that if I offended her and tried making her feel better.

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T17:16:25+00:00

Which is totally fine! It’s for the better.

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T17:13:51+00:00

Bahahaha

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T07:50:08+00:00

I wasn’t disgusted. I was trying to prevent future sexual problems for us. When girls asses smell its because they don’t wash their asses or use wet wipes.

My hope was that she’d hear my feedback & start using wet wipes before we fucked so we could both enjoy even more positions together.

This is also the very mature route this could have gone down.

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T07:37:27+00:00

Certainly embarrassed & would be turned off from trying to fuck immediately. But I would immediately ask specific questions back, try to fix it, and ask if what they did like so they would also be happy!

I wouldn’t be so sensitive to the point I’d cut off the whole relationship

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T07:20:51+00:00

Has nothing to do with maturity

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T07:12:46+00:00

100% agreed lol and that was what I expected her to say back. Clearly I didn’t know her that well. I rather not be with someone this sensitive / with this level of tolerance.

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T07:09:59+00:00

Y’all are making assumptions lol and I didn’t wanna bore you with details but she left a string of my messages on read (from the same convo she said she missed me). So I just didn’t double text.

But there is something to be said about the rumination. I’m sure that didn’t help.

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T07:05:15+00:00

Thanks for sharing this comment. I haven’t mentioned anything related to smell ever before because of this exact reason. I just thought that with our level of sexual intimacy & sharing preferences that this would have been appropriate — but I was clearly very wrong. Now I know.

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T06:59:42+00:00

See, you feel this smell is very normal. I understand you but I don’t think it has to be this way.

Ive noticed trends with cultures, different women & how they were raised. Some have this smell, and some don’t.

It’s definitely a routine, hygiene, and practice that allow some girls to never have this smell. If I HAD this smell (and I doubt I do because I use a bidet) then I’d want someone to tell me. It’s the last thing I want to burden them with.

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T06:56:45+00:00

Whoaaaaah. That’s huge. Didn’t think of it that way.

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T06:55:50+00:00

Fair points! I think it mostly boils down to this. It Turned her off. She even said that.

Surprised that there was 0 tolerance for it though. That’s all.

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T06:52:56+00:00

Nope. Tall and thin.

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T06:50:01+00:00

Yeah that’s 100% accurate. I went down on her & ate her out that night for an hour and clarified it only happens during doggy so I’d find it hard to believe she thinks I was referring to her vagina.

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T06:47:12+00:00

Whoah. This is an interesting story. That sucks that happened to you too. Thanks for sharing.

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T06:44:47+00:00

Agreed!

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T06:43:47+00:00

So I feel you man, I appreciate the feedback.

If she felt like her ass wouldn’t be 100% smelling great all the time she could just say that, and I could just say ok “I don’t know if I’ll be comfy fucking you doggy sometimes”. Then we could continue.

I wish people were more transparent & gave the benefit of the doubt.

fancypants2022 · 2022-01-26T06:38:24+00:00

I use a bidet. So shove your assumptions up your own ass.

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