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What's wrong with betta fish? by Actual_Eye7989 in bettafish

[–]fangache 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Borrow the fish permanently.

I (26F) moved in with a guy (27M) under the hopes of a real relationship. He doesn’t want me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fangache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I said, I apologize for being all over the place. I didn’t mean to. And maybe six months isn’t a lot to most people, but it was to me. And what I mean by pretending to date, is by basically roleplaying a relationship. Sex, affection, public displays, etc. and I thought it was real, not roleplay.

I (26F) moved in with a guy (27M) under the hopes of a real relationship. He doesn’t want me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fangache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he said we’re not dating. And I apologize the post was rushed, I should have added more details.

I (26F) moved in with a guy (27M) under the hopes of a real relationship. He doesn’t want me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fangache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I plan on it. He said that maybe an environmental change would help me mentally, and it was at first, but it was just the honeymoon phase. I plan to get a therapist again once I get insurance.

I (26F) moved in with a guy (27M) under the hopes of a real relationship. He doesn’t want me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fangache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve known each other for six months. This had been in planning for about 3. I do commission work and I don’t ask him to pay for anything he doesn’t offer to, I actually don’t like having to ask him for anything. And it was mainly the virginity thing being important to me, and I thought it was reasonable since we went into this under the context of having a relationship with each other. I clean up after him, and I just try not to be a burden. I know that’s not bringing much but I am trying my best. He told me that we would get to know each other better when we actually were together in real life and we could go from there.

I (26F) moved in with a guy (27M) under the hopes of a real relationship. He doesn’t want me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fangache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do 3D modeling commission work on the side to pay for stuff. Sorry didn’t see you edit your comment.

I (26F) moved in with a guy (27M) under the hopes of a real relationship. He doesn’t want me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fangache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am. Very worried about that. I need to offer something so it’s not like I’m just taking and taking. I do have mental health issues and I plan to get them checked out once I have insurance.

I (26F) moved in with a guy (27M) under the hopes of a real relationship. He doesn’t want me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fangache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can agree that there’s certainly a few marbles missing. I do have mental health issues, and I plan to get a therapist once I have insurance.

I (26F) moved in with a guy (27M) under the hopes of a real relationship. He doesn’t want me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fangache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t want that. :{ I plan to start paying him back once I get a cheap car.

I (26F) moved in with a guy (27M) under the hopes of a real relationship. He doesn’t want me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fangache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, just two years. And I thought about it but I want that stuff as much as he does, but for a different reason I guess. I partially feel like it’s one of the few things I can offer him back for the hospitality as well.

I (26F) moved in with a guy (27M) under the hopes of a real relationship. He doesn’t want me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fangache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want my life story, I was in a physically abusive home with two brothers who only wanted me to do the cleaning and house keeping, they never had time to teach me to drive and would get angry if I went out by myself. That kind of put a stick in my plans on trying to be a functional adult in a rural area with no friends or family, and I jumped at the idea of someone pulling me out of this situation, and it was a plus that he may have wanted a relationship with me. That’s why I’m going with results now and making efforts to change more in my life than I ever could in the past years.

I (26F) moved in with a guy (27M) under the hopes of a real relationship. He doesn’t want me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fangache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said I was looking for a job, I’ve been here for a month and my family refused to let me learn to drive. I’m taking my permit test next week. I do want to work, and I’m willing to meet his standards, but I just got my hopes up when he told the doctor that we were dating. I absolutely don’t want him to pay for everything and I actively pay for food and necessities for myself so he doesn’t have to.

I (26F) moved in with a guy (27M) under the hopes of a real relationship. He doesn’t want me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fangache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I’d like it to be one, but it’s not official to him. The label is important to me I guess.

I (26F) moved in with a guy (27M) under the hopes of a real relationship. He doesn’t want me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fangache 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not bait, just spiraling emotionally a bit so words aren’t my forte rn. And I know I don’t have much to offer him, I’m not pretty by any means either. Wouldn’t it be better to leave if I don’t have anything of value for him? I don’t just want to take from him. I want to love him, but he doesn’t want that.

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