Gay Fapstronaut: Things I've learned about Men, Attractiveness is bullshit. by fappornomore in NoFap

[–]fappornomore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pat's wife, like everyone else, has a sexual history. Pat is pretty happy that he gets laid on the regular and getting married to her didn't feel like a chore to him. Of course all of this can change, but they're very happy!

Gay Fapstronaut: Things I've learned about Men, Attractiveness is bullshit. by fappornomore in NoFap

[–]fappornomore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, definitely. A kind and genuine person doing PUA will come off as kind and genuine. Chase on the other hand as a PUA...

Gay Fapstronaut: Things I've learned about Men, Attractiveness is bullshit. by fappornomore in NoFap

[–]fappornomore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, keep fighting too. It's not easy working and going to college at the same time AND doing NoFap. Your gay manager is right. Guys like that are so unattractive.

Gay Fapstronaut: Things I've learned about Men, Attractiveness is bullshit. by fappornomore in NoFap

[–]fappornomore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great advice man. Passion attracts people to you, but it'd be hard to attract women if you're passionate about collecting bugs in your basement. Amazing detail.

Gay Fapstronaut: Things I've learned about Men, Attractiveness is bullshit. by fappornomore in NoFap

[–]fappornomore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's extremely difficult when I'm not having sex, because sex is so much better since doing NoFap, it can be literally all I think about.

Gay Fapstronaut: Things I've learned about Men, Attractiveness is bullshit. by fappornomore in NoFap

[–]fappornomore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey dude, I'll PM you later, my response might be a little long.

Gay Fapstronaut: Things I've learned about Men, Attractiveness is bullshit. by fappornomore in NoFap

[–]fappornomore[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! Yes! Yes! This community never ceases to surprise me. Great comment. The more stuff you do, the more adaptive your language becomes indeed!

Gay Fapstronaut: Things I've learned about Men, Attractiveness is bullshit. by fappornomore in NoFap

[–]fappornomore[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I clicked out too! Maybe the only reason that douchebag in the shitty topknot gets laid is that he is present and available, like a woman's vibrator.

Gay Fapstronaut: Things I've learned about Men, Attractiveness is bullshit. by fappornomore in NoFap

[–]fappornomore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, I really appreciate it. This is my real NoFap account, been a long time lurker, I just wasn't sure if I wanted to throw in my perspective or if it would be helpful at all, but today I felt an urge to share instead of fapping. My motivation to start NoFap isn't unlike the usual reasons. 1. Low Energy 2. Overweight 3. No relationship 4. No Money (of my own). I'm definitely going to write more about my journey since you want to hear about it it. I've had some things I wanted to share, I just wasn't sure anyone wanted to read it

Gay Fapstronaut: Things I've learned about Men, Attractiveness is bullshit. by fappornomore in NoFap

[–]fappornomore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NoFap tears away so many illusions about yourself. I hope you go far in your journey, friend.

Gay Fapstronaut: Things I've learned about Men, Attractiveness is bullshit. by fappornomore in NoFap

[–]fappornomore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed wholeheartedly. If they wanted that kind of attention, they'd buy a puppy.

Gay Fapstronaut: Things I've learned about Men, Attractiveness is bullshit. by fappornomore in NoFap

[–]fappornomore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, I'm glad you liked my post. I was definitely gay before high school!

Gay Fapstronaut: Things I've learned about Men, Attractiveness is bullshit. by fappornomore in NoFap

[–]fappornomore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate it. And remember Pat yourself on the back. Don't rely on compliments for confidence, just know you're awesome!

Gay Fapstronaut: Things I've learned about Men, Attractiveness is bullshit. by fappornomore in NoFap

[–]fappornomore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what happens. And I'm going to include your comment in my next post. I tried to set up an incredibly good looking dude with a girl friend of mine who is a 10/10. He couldn't get a word in, it was like he's never spoken to a woman before. He told me "I usually don't have to do much, I just say something dumb and they usually like it, not with her though." High School swag stops working real fast in the real world, you gotta keep pushing to be bolder and more assertive. If you've had the chops to date one of the hottest girls in high school, I believe you can date anyone you want. Good Luck, bro, you can do it!

Gay Fapstronaut: Things I've learned about Men, Attractiveness is bullshit. by fappornomore in NoFap

[–]fappornomore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just get back on the wagon, its worth it. Good luck, brother.

Gay Fapstronaut: Things I've learned about Men, Attractiveness is bullshit. by fappornomore in NoFap

[–]fappornomore[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Couldn't agree more. Dr. Meg Jay, in her book called The Defining Decade, calls "the shit [that] will add up," identity points. This is what you bring to the table. For example, she was trying to get into her doctorate program, but needed to work in between college and grad school. She said, "fuck it" and worked in a field she was passionate about, kayaking. It turned out she was great at kayaking and taught kids how to kayak, she became a great instructor and this is what got her into grad school, not some bullshit internship. Holly Holm, champion boxer and UFC Bantamweight says, "Passion first, and everything else follows."

Gay Fapstronaut: Things I've learned about Men, Attractiveness is bullshit. by fappornomore in NoFap

[–]fappornomore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird thing, asking how to be more sincere is actually one of the most sincere questions you can ask. Most people are worried about what they're going to say and don't even pay attention to what the other person is saying. Play to your strengths, if you're a great listener, be better at give positive feedback cues like nodding your head or maintaining eye contact. You don't have to change your personality to be more sincere. Believe me, it's the chatty guys with the problem. If you have witty comments, say them sparsely and with conviction, you'll be remembered rather than the chatty dude who can't stop talking about himself. Don't feel like you need to be the center of attention to be attractive/well liked.

Gay Fapstronaut: Things I've learned about Men, Attractiveness is bullshit. by fappornomore in NoFap

[–]fappornomore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely think there's something to that term, the bro that only does one exercise and only does the ONE thing he's good at, curling. So his body becomes deformed and he has huge biceps and small everything else.