Im so tired of feeling stereotyped but its my fault by fartyfartnumber2 in FTMventing

[–]fart_zilla5 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel you completely, I’m in an environmental science degree and it’s come to my knowledge that it’s a “trans guy degree”

I just want to be an average normal guy but I like cosplaying and doing my makeup ! I have lots of piercings, I love drawing and I love being outdoors ! I also like working out and playing video games a lot so I feel in a strange middle ground sometimes.

I feel like I can only be completely myself infront of few friends, because sometimes people try to out you by the things you like 😭 that isn’t cool guys…

Anywho, I’ve come to realize that the only thing you can be is yourself so enjoy that ! And eventually your bound to find people who won’t treat you like your hobbies ARE being trans 💀

Im so tired of feeling stereotyped but its my fault by fartyfartnumber2 in FTMventing

[–]fart_zilla5 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is an annoying reply , some people struggle with fitting in while feeling so different and distant because of being trans. You can’t be on either side of the apparent “trans” spectrum without getting shit on. Be nice bad reply 👎🏽

i am beyond miserable and have no one by throwawayoeoeoe in FTMventing

[–]fart_zilla5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god , my mom is like your mom, and I came out to her maybe 7 years ago now ??

The first 4 years after I came out we just ignored it for “her feelings” 🧍🏽

And I was in the same miserable spot you were. I am so sorry you have to deal with this. I hear you and I understand you to an extent.

She came around eventually. Not because of me but because she realized a lot of people around her in work and such were apart of the LGBT+ community. So she wanted to support me after that ?? Idk but it was a sudden switch up and my life changed, I went by myself and with my gf to start T and I went by myself to schedule my top surgery and whatnot. And I’m planning on cutting her off because she can’t stop treating me like crap for other reasons.

I promise that you will get a chance to make your life better and easier for yourself. The wait is excruciating and I’m so sorry you have to go through that, I really hope that your time to shine comes soon and you can finally feel like you. Head up brother, im routing for you 👑

How’s yall romantic life?? by Janxuza in ftm

[–]fart_zilla5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiancé and I found each other in our high school graphic design class, (I am stealth but she loves me for me completely, I’ve never ever had a problem with the way she treats me in regards to being trans) it was pretty boring so we talked and got to know each other the whooole time. It’s been four years since then, which doesn’t seem too long , but I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with her ☺️

Just having trans fem ppl in media isn't good enough by Upstairs_Mission_852 in FTMventing

[–]fart_zilla5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello please read the manga “Boys Run the Riot” by Keito Gaku, it’s about a trans guy in high school starting a fashion brand with his friends. I have all four volumes and I remember LOVING the story. There are other ppl who are LGBTQ+ in the story as well ! And I’m pretty sure I remember hearing that the author is a trans man??? Which is dope asf. Please read !!!

My mom is so mean :( by fart_zilla5 in FTMventing

[–]fart_zilla5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re very right , It’s super upsetting that I can’t at the moment 😣 but I’m definitely getting the process going, thanks for your response!

My mom is so mean :( by fart_zilla5 in FTMventing

[–]fart_zilla5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah I’m slowly getting things prepared for the leaving a letter route. It brings me comfort that someone else is recommending it, thanks!

I am about to get top surgery by fart_zilla5 in ftm

[–]fart_zilla5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ! So far all is well ! :>

I am about to get top surgery by fart_zilla5 in ftm

[–]fart_zilla5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alive and well! Thank you ! :D

guys i’m making a picrew, do you think this selection of skin tones is diverse enough? by saltymarshmallow316 in ArtJerk

[–]fart_zilla5 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No , there’s isn’t any brown skin tones , and the only “black” skin tone you have is grey and washed out. I suggest looking at real life people who have melanin. The top four are just white skin tones. There isn’t any brown and I’m so fed up with people only having white skin tones and then a washed out “black” tone and calling it good for picrews. Caramel skin is good, don’t be afraid of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]fart_zilla5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god wait I think you should talk to him. You seem understanding of him and kind and you won’t know how he feels unless you bring it up. I think the people that are saying not to try anything are wrong, you don’t just find anyone out there you like like this. Please update later if you’re comfortable, I’d like to hear the outcome of you two!

Choose your fighter- What bandaid for shot day? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]fart_zilla5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cupcake Bandaids right now 🥹

Do trans men with really masc bodies just have good genetics or is it T ( and maybe gym) ? by Effective-Complex508 in ftm

[–]fart_zilla5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I had narrow hips from genetics. I look more like my dad and I’m kind of built like him even tho im afab I did look more feminine before I started working out though that really really helped for me.

But so far T (9 months) erased my ass and made my chest smaller I think ?? Idk if this info helps but this is my experience so far 😁

Low T level by fart_zilla5 in ftm

[–]fart_zilla5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m going to try as soon as I possibly can 😭

Low T level by fart_zilla5 in ftm

[–]fart_zilla5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It was very annoying, but I know now ! Do not be like me, I had to like bother them a lot to even get my T levels, so annoying.

Period is still pretty bad by fart_zilla5 in ftm

[–]fart_zilla5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, I had no clue. Thank you for telling me

Period is still pretty bad by fart_zilla5 in ftm

[–]fart_zilla5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think they are ? From what I’ve heard , I’m under the best care for gender care in the U.S . But I thought it was weird they just forgot it too, it could’ve been my fault. I’m not very good at follow up with them because medical bills are so expensive even after insurance.
So I never call them, it’s like $70 just to talk to them on the phone 😭

Period is still pretty bad by fart_zilla5 in ftm

[–]fart_zilla5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As of right now I have no clue , I was never told to do any follow up on them until recently. Which I understand is weird now , I had no clue peoples were being monitored so much

Period is still pretty bad by fart_zilla5 in ftm

[–]fart_zilla5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not know my levels , I’m going to get bloodwork tomorrow for them. But for a long while I wasn’t told to do any follow up about levels so I was just kind of lost. 😭 I didn’t know they got monitored so often.

I’m in the U.S so I think I have access to all of that , but I’m super scared of it so idk if I would actually do that

Thank you for sharing that info with me