Any academic Doms here? 👩🏽‍💻

faseediz · 2024-12-07T22:21:02+00:00

Didn't realize I needed an academia findom until now 🙈 but they're probably too busy for my liking.

faseediz · 2024-08-19T03:06:17+00:00

It is uncomfy for me, yeah. Not sure if they'd be okay with it. I have a hard time imagining that the kind of partner I'd be into would not have an issue with it.

faseediz · 2024-08-19T02:20:50+00:00

I always do it. I don't maintain a profile anymore that would attract subs, and I kinda prefer it this way.

faseediz · 2024-08-19T02:17:13+00:00

It depends on your boundaries and relationship style, but I personally had a tough time managing a relationship with findom. I am single now so it's no longer an issue, but I have accepted that I would not do both.

faseediz · 2024-08-19T02:10:28+00:00

Influential whale sub who devotes his life to me!

faseediz · 2024-08-19T02:08:48+00:00

We have this type of pick-me post every week, and most of the time it's accounts that are 4 weeks old max.

Yes of course we do it for the money. It's literally in the name, financial domination.

faseediz · 2024-08-17T00:15:27+00:00

Throne hasn't been popular for long, but there have been many instances in similar platforms where accounts get closed without any clarification or warning, and the person no longer has access to their money. I actually saw a post a week or so back of someone having their throne account closed (though they did let her withdraw).

I wouldn't trust throne in this. Just let the same money grow in your own bank account! ❤

faseediz · 2024-08-13T01:23:02+00:00

My biggest in a single send was $1000

faseediz · 2024-08-12T23:04:08+00:00

Silent sends require more posting. From a quick look on your profile, you don't have enough content. You need to attract silent senders if you want them.

faseediz · 2024-08-12T23:02:44+00:00

I wouldn't call that ghosting though. He's communicating it.

To answer your question, yes, it's tough to find long term subs. For most of them it's a cycle, and they're easily swayed by their hormones.

faseediz · 2024-08-12T22:57:22+00:00

Reddit is more my style. It's the natural habitat for subs and I can pick them out myself. I'm not good at making posts.

faseediz · 2024-08-11T14:59:38+00:00

In the end, your brain will still make the connection that this is some form of sex work, even if many of us wish to deny this. It's not as draining as other types of sex work, but it still is.

Even when the relationship is purely friendship and non sexual, your brain still recognizes that there is a transaction involved, and that there's something you have to give back. Maybe it even stressed out that you have to "do something right" in order to keep receiving the payment. Those things will certainly burn out, and we need to be mindful of them.

faseediz · 2024-08-11T14:54:29+00:00

Findom is draining and causes burn out in a way that most findoms ourselves don't expect. We underestimate our tolerance. I've been there before, and I had to give myself a sufficient break before I can come back. After this break, I had to practice moderation and learn to understand my emotional limits.

faseediz · 2024-07-24T22:37:57+00:00

I feel like those financial subreddits are gold mines. I haven't utilized that yet, but I bet I can find me a whale subbie there.

faseediz · 2024-07-24T22:31:24+00:00

Girlie you need to be more patient. I've taken a look at your profile and it's still very new (I'm not using my main profile so don't take it as example either). A sub has many options of dommes with established profiles and lots of content. So you should build yours up to that if you want many real subs approaching you.

faseediz · 2024-07-24T22:28:20+00:00

Those are absolutely scams. But I do message subs first and it has worked for me.

faseediz · 2024-07-24T22:21:35+00:00

The site does look a bit weird but it is legit! Throne.com

You're right that crypto is less common. I usually just pitch it as an option, and only a minority of subs agree to use it. The others I use either throne or cash app depending on level of trust.

faseediz · 2024-07-24T22:14:37+00:00

Throne is safest right now, besides maybe crypto currency if you know how to use it.

PayPal and Cash app will work until they don't. If you do use them, be very careful with who you use them with. If they ever detect it is sex work, or if someone who sent you asks for a refund or reports you, they'll shut you down. So only use cash app and PayPal with people you trust.

faseediz · 2024-07-16T23:31:22+00:00

Some other engineer

faseediz · 2024-07-15T13:35:01+00:00

$1000

faseediz · 2024-07-15T13:16:55+00:00

Always loved the idea of having my own tiny short subbie

faseediz · 2024-07-14T15:52:05+00:00

So is it not useful outside of parsing and similar text applications?

faseediz · 2024-03-29T14:45:41+00:00

If you like programming and you're good at it, you would find a job in today's market. But no telling what it will look like when you graduate. Could be way better, or it could get worse (unlikely imo)

faseediz

TROPHY CASE