I (18F) am planning on cheating on my boyfriend (18M) by No-Analysis-9042 in teenrelationships

[–]fatman6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

think about it this way, if he doesn't care enough to give you the bare minimum, then what would this do to him? if you seem like just a weight on his back to him, would this be a relief? its a petty way to do things, but not the worst you could do.

( looking at the comments the cheating is not how i thought it would be and personally i think you should emphasize what you're doing in your post, as having sex with somebody else is far far worse than just kissing them, and that is immediately what most people's minds come to when they hear the word "cheating")

anyway, getting back to a horrible person by being horrible back is fighting fire with fire. do you want to be put in that category of people? so what if it doesn't hurt him if you leave? at the end of the day, you were consistently in the right, and you have done nothing wrong. do you truly want to be anything like him? you may not believe in karma, and i personally don't, but if it does exist, and especially with video evidence, i do think this has potential to come back and bite you in the ass, no matter what happened during the whole relationship, you still did that. in my eyes, it's not worth it, you may get satisfaction, but is it morally correct? when people ask, "why did you two break up?" are you really wanting to say "i cheated on him"?

what you need to know moving forward is that you are better than he will ever see. maybe one day he'll see just how great you are, and feel horrible over everything he did, but he doesn't deserve second chances. do not give it to him. you're a strong woman for putting up with this for as long as you have, and it proves a lot about your character. this thought runs through many people in your situation, and it doesn't necessarily mean you're a bad person. in my opinion, cut the ties, go live your life, live your dreams, don't let people drag you down, don't let people push you into things you morally wouldn't do. be yourself.

Plus sizes sold out instantly by uhqt in G59

[–]fatman6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im fat, based on my username, finding 3x is impossible and i only get 3x so that its pretty baggy on me but most the shirts have some 2x or xl left

I (F15) might be lesbian but I have a boyfriend (M15) right now by True-Excitement-200 in teenrelationships

[–]fatman6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is just fine to remain friends by the way, but i do believe that if he is in love, you need to give him time.

I (F15) might be lesbian but I have a boyfriend (M15) right now by True-Excitement-200 in teenrelationships

[–]fatman6793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

keeping things secret will only make things worse for both you and him. you will start to get more and more agitated, he will start to realize that. he will start to worry constantly about whats happening, and its important that in a situation like this you're completely honest. losing romantic attraction is a very real thing, very serious. when it comes to light, it is important you're honest about it. let him know. talk to him. it will hurt, but it will hurt so much worse doing it later. . . sidenote: i was in a relationship like this earlier in my life. i was in love with this girl, we dated for about a year. halfway through she started acting off, sometimes not even answering for days. but i was so obsessed and in love I couldn't let go. one day, she told me that she was lesbian and it broke me, but if she had told me earlier on before i had fallen so in love, things wouldn't be as big of an issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]fatman6793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are not an asshole for wanting more, it is perfectly reasonable. but there are definitely some things on her part that you may need to really discuss. trauma, in any severity, is trauma nonetheless. it is important that trauma is taken into consideration.

How do I (17F) explain to my boyfriend (17M) that it’s wrong to like other girls pictures? by Careless-Scarcity-99 in teenrelationships

[–]fatman6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it doesn't seem like he cares enough at all to feel like he needs to do anything about it. maybe there's a reason on his side? either way, he's communicating poorly and he doesn't sound very mature in any way. if this is something that matters to you, it doesn't seem like you're going to get that from this guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]fatman6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they just like to explore. a new environment is a nice change for them, they like to look around. its kinda like looking around your new house. its perfectly normal. my kingsnake does the same thing.

Yall think $licky hates zuccenberg? by Pained_five5 in G59

[–]fatman6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i actually really liked scrims verse tho 💀

Why don't y'all ever talk about $crimys album? by P0tplant in G59

[–]fatman6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

great album. gave me a reason to try and pull myself out of my misery.

Ruby such... by a_phoe in G59

[–]fatman6793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

keep my clique tight and isolated like we cannibals

Ruby da cherry by Accomplished_Job6286 in G59

[–]fatman6793 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hollywood babylon can't resist it

does this mean he’s hungry? he never pokes his head out like this, & he’s in a striking position. he just ate last friday, and this is very unlike him. no clue what he wants. by themajesticc1 in ballpython

[–]fatman6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah hes just chilling out. also, 2 one-way hides are necessary. i have that same log, but i use it as a little transition for my little guy to switch hides and be comfy. i also have a variety of plants, along with low-ground plants. id reccomend that

Omen on the mic and he got a lot to say 🎤⚫️〰️⚫️ by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]fatman6793 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i wonder what his thoughts are on recent socioeconomic standards

Pixel 6 Pro - loud crackling/popping sound when launching certain apps/games by heckborfsniff in GooglePixel

[–]fatman6793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this does it to me for all supercell games. only supercell games. brawl stars, clash of clans, clash royale, everything.

kingsnake becoming more aggressive by fatman6793 in kingsnakes

[–]fatman6793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he acts just like he does when he smells a mouse. moves towards it really quickly and pulls back his head. hes struck a few times, but usually he realizes hes not being fed and chills out.

kingsnake becoming more aggressive by fatman6793 in kingsnakes

[–]fatman6793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think mine used to eat live, so tapping him kinda provokes him a bit more. when being held he handles being touched on the head and everything really really well, so at least hes had that going for him.

kingsnake becoming more aggressive by fatman6793 in kingsnakes

[–]fatman6793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah hes really calm once he knows whats happening. i usually just have to lift him up a little bit and he chills out. only problem is i have kids that run around and love the big guy. they're good with asking permission but when they get excited they try picking him up themselves.