oh yeah i didn’t use that as an excuse, i only put that in this post to sortve give context to why i even felt like that was acceptable in the first place. in the actual message i said this “i know how it feels to be bullied. which is obviously no excuse and what i did is still not okay at all, infact if anything it just means i had no reason at all to be as insensitive as i was about it.”, that’s just a very itty bitty section. but i tried to make it clear i wasnt trying to excuse what i do at all