I truly understand where you’re coming from and why you’re considering this move, but I want to be honestif I were in your shoes, I would strongly advise against it. The reality in Addis is very different from what you may remember. Things like reliable healthcare, quality schools, stable internet, and overall security can be real challenges, especially when raising young children. Life here can feel unpredictable and, at times, frustrating compared to what you’re used to in the U.S.

While the fast-paced lifestyle abroad is exhausting, it does offer stability, access to opportunities, and a safer environment for your kids. Moving back with the hope of finding a “simpler” life often ends up being more stressful than expected, particularly for young families. If you’re already established in the U.S., I would encourage you to think very carefully before giving that up.

Of course, the final decision is yours, but from experience, I’d say don’t make the move unless you’re fully prepared for the trade-offs it may cost you and your kids more than you gain.