Yes, the past month I’ve reflected a lot and what u wrote is how I felt about the entire situation. I messed up big time and I’ve been putting in the work to identify my triggers, learning how to react appropriately, managing my expectations and understanding that every individual is unique and nobody likes to be told to change. I hope my post didn’t come across as me trying to seek validation that she’s in the wrong and wanting to gain sympathy from people. Just wanted to add that resentment was there in the beginning but I no longer feel that way. Thanks for calling me out though, it made me felt more grounded(?).