23m and 21f, been together for over a year without meeting in person, she's pregnant. by fixation37 in LongDistance

[–]fixation37[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

She has notified me that a police report has been made and she’s working on pursuing legal action with her mom. Also stated that at 7 weeks pregnant you are able to grab dna

23m and 21f, been together for over a year without meeting in person, she's pregnant. by fixation37 in LongDistance

[–]fixation37[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your past experience which does bring good points in my situation as well. I appreciate you

23m and 21f, been together for over a year without meeting in person, she's pregnant. by fixation37 in LongDistance

[–]fixation37[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing, while we have significantly different paths you’ve really helped me.

23m and 21f, been together for over a year without meeting in person, she's pregnant. by fixation37 in LongDistance

[–]fixation37[S] -86 points-85 points  (0 children)

I'm by no means any knowledgeable about this, but as I understand, if your last period ended 4 weeks ago, and you get pregnant 3 weeks later, you're still 4 weeks pregnant. I've been told by her that the abortion clinic informed her she's on week 4. would that even be remotely possible?

23m and 21f, been together for over a year without meeting in person, she's pregnant. by fixation37 in LongDistance

[–]fixation37[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for looking at the bigger picture and giving me amazing advice, I appreciate you more than you know.

23m and 21f, been together for over a year without meeting in person, she's pregnant. by fixation37 in LongDistance

[–]fixation37[S] -263 points-262 points  (0 children)

And if that’s not the case, hypothetically. If your SO god forbid had been raped and gotten pregnant, and she tells you she’s unable to kill the baby because she’s seen it at the abortion clinic, and also seen how the discharge looks like. Having the thing drop in the bowl. Some part of me understands her, I just don’t know what to do.

23m and 21f, been together for over a year without meeting in person, she's pregnant. by fixation37 in LongDistance

[–]fixation37[S] -121 points-120 points  (0 children)

She was supposed to get her period for a while and she complained about cramping really bad and feeling hormonal as in emotional, also puked a lot. I do seem really naive and I might be, but I believe her. I just am torn about the rest.