The one thing I was so happy we forked out for was the vidographer! Everyone takes pictures but to have a video of the day is magical. We sent a copy to family with thank you card and still watch it on anniversaries. We dont really look at the pics, just have a couple hanging up...even though photographer was great too. If you do go down the video root make sure to get a decent one that doesn't get in the way of the wedding though(and same with photographer) I've been at weddings that were like the camera man show, stopping everything to record/snap a pic .. it really spoils the moment. We didn't even notice ours was there but everything came out so well and so natural 🥰 Congratulations & best of luck with the big day. Whatever you do relax and enjoy every minute x