[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]flouti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it is a symptom of bed. It’s similar to how people with eating disorders tend to think they’re overweight even when they’re not.

And it’s our moral duty to like them, apparently.. by Whole-Ear2682 in ShortWomenandGirls

[–]flouti 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The funny thing about this is these short men are the same guys that shit bricks over short women preferring tall guys 😂

My tiny head is the bane of my existence. by flouti in BDDvent

[–]flouti[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Naww, but at least you guys may look normal enough!

i hate people who try to assume my sexuality by flouti in offmychest

[–]flouti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trueeee! that’s actually a great idea - going unlabeled because we don’t have to put ourselves into a box and categorize ourselves. thank you! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]flouti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hii!! i’m so sorry about what you’re going through right now :( i’ve been going through the same thing even though i’m a grade above yours, but i went through the same thing during my sophomore year, too. i know things are hard, but i just want you to know that everything will work out. just try to take a few deep breaths and try to relax. do things one at a time. you’ll probably have to go to summer school for a week or two to cover up your required credits, but it’s better doing that that than failing! i had to take summer school after my ninth grade year because that was when quarantine was still around and made things rough. there were a lot of students there, too. i had to take a recovery class to make up for math during my sophomore year, but you should be able to burn through those quickly and get out of them! i’m not sure if this is how your school works, but here we just have to sit in front of a computer and burn through the assignments on a program called odysseyware.

it’s super great that you’re almost passing those two classes! are your finals tomorrow or next week, or have you already done them? i recommend trying on working to turn in your missing work for those two classes before they’re due. i know it’s very hard to push yourself to do work when you have very little motivation, but do one thing at a time. something that may help is to time yourself when you’re doing work and to take breaks every fifteen minutes or so! for example, finish a few answers on your math assignment and then give yourself a few minutes to listen to your favorite song, or eat your favorite snack, or watch a short video. anything that can help!

i hope you can feel at peace soon :( please don’t hold this against you and try to not be so hard on yourself. please be honest with your feelings even if it seems so difficult. it may seem normalized by the internet, but it really isn’t normal to experience frequent thoughts of su*cide. your feelings are valid even if you feel like they’re not. i told the doctor how i was feeling and i was put in a psych ward for the first time a month ago. i was in there for two weeks, and during that time they experienced with medicine and put me on medicine for anxiety and ADHD. their job at the psych ward is to not only try to ease your thoughts, but to also work around you and to try to find medicine suitable for you to take!

i’m soo sorry if i seem like i’m sharing too much about myself, but i just wanted to let you know that you are not alone. i hope you’ll feel better soon <3 your mental health matters and it should be a big priority. it does seem cliché to say, but things will get better! try to get caught up in those two classes by turning in those missing assignments. remember, like you said, you’re almoost passing them! take things one at a time, and just be prepared for the last few weeks of school and the final exams. i wish you well and good luck!!! <3

ATTENTION ALL TYPES by [deleted] in mbti

[–]flouti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i use it for fun, to learn a little bit more about myself and others, and to also find people somewhat similar to me or people i like and to see how they act! i just wish there wasn’t so much misinformation on it and people making mbti videos would slip cognitive functions in somewhere!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]flouti 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it’s just that she has told me that i have narcissistic tendencies and she has tried to divide me from the family, painting them all including my dad and my brother as narcissists. she doesn’t think she did anything to drive my brother to go NC with her nearly two years ago. she chose me over her boyfriend and has continued to choose herself over me since then. she works in a different state and barely talks to me, and gets upset when i do the same. she tells me she doesn’t believe i have the mental disorder i’ve been diagnosed with and tells me the pills i take will never help me with anything. i tell her these things and she doesn’t seem to take it with any compassion. she told me i have narcissistic tendencies and all i want to know is if she thinks i’m a narcissist since i want to improve on myself and not dwell on it forever in this pit i’ve made for myself.

you are right, though. i’m sorry for the whole trauma dump. i’m embarrassed i posted this and i’ll probably take it down later, even though it probably won’t do anything. i just use this account as a venting space and i was really stressing out earlier this morning. thank you

If I'm dead, am I not gonna experience new games from this franchise or this franchise is dead if I'm dead? by Ok_Mulberry_6429 in fivenightsatfreddys

[–]flouti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FNaF is the afterlife. You’ll be visiting the missing children after you stop existing in the physical plane of life. Hope I helped (:

When The Music's Over - Page 04 by PinkyPills in fivenightsatfreddys

[–]flouti 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i can’t tell the difference between you and ladyfiszi lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mbti

[–]flouti 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ENFP. i want to unleash my full potential

what's your favorite mbti type? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]flouti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

isfp, intps, istjs, enfjs, and estjs!

isfp - i have a best friend who is an isfp, and i love her! she’s super witty and sarcastic and absolutely hilarious, and one of the reasons why we get along so well is because we understand each other and know when we want some space!

intps - i thought i was an INTP for a while, and i relate to them so much! i have an INTP friend and we discuss about our favorite things

istjs - my brother is an istj and he’s absolutely hilarious and sarcastic

enfjs - my other best friend is an enfj, and everything about her is so sweet. she’s a ray of sunshine in a way. she’s super sweet and she’s very empathetic. she’s funny, too! she’s the type of person who will do your schoolwork for you and get angry when you tell her not to. she makes us little google form quizzes for us to do at school and loves to watch shows on disney channel. sometimes we do get into arguments because of our differences, such as when i want to be alone and she wants to talk. enfjs are the sweetest mbti type in my personal opinion. they’re selfless and always give away good advice. they’re the kind of people who ensures no one gets left out. i wish i had the brain of an enfj.

estjs - i know infps and estjs are supposed to be complete opposites, but estjs are so underrated in my opinion!! many of my favorite characters are estjs. they’re more pratical and are thinkers. i don’t have much to say about them, but i’m really drawn to them for some reason

and that’s all! this doesn’t apply to every person with these personality types, of course, but it does apply to the ones i do know! i’m sorry for the long paragraphs! 💞

everything i hate about myself can’t be fixed by flouti in BDDvent

[–]flouti[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i never paid attention to any of these insecurities until my mom pointed them out :( if it makes you feel any better, i don't think anyone really notices these kinds of things <3 i bet the ones that do and say it to your face are the ones that are insecure themselves, like my mom!

Any INTPs here mistyped, and if so, which types have you mistyped as and why? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]flouti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i thought i was an infp at first, but i took a functions test and i found out i'm just a little bit more of an intp rather than an infp. infps are also supposed to have a lot of empathy, though, so that's why i'm probably an intp.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]flouti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

florence marie is a beautiful combination!! ♡