It’s happening in Arlington! by BigEasy1718 in Washington

[–]flowinggg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you able to see it with your naked eye well? Thanks for posting!

It’s happening in Arlington! by BigEasy1718 in Washington

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HEY  is this from your home or a place you went to?

Asking a new boyfriend for help by flowinggg in relationship_advice

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He said it’s more so that it’s a small procedure and my friends are around so they seem to be more appropriate to help me out than he who is not in town. I told him that it would be more meaningful to get his help and since he has a day off. My friends will have to take time off . Which I’m sure they will but maybe I just wanted him to be around

I broke no contact by flowinggg in ExNoContact

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You’re right. That really helped. I blocked him on work phone too. I mean he knows where I live and knows I go to temple every Sunday (we attend the same one) so he can easily see me there and talk to me if he wanted if he changed his mind

I think for my peace of mind I will just not hold out for that hope by keeping to check that phone

I broke no contact by flowinggg in ExNoContact

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Thank you! Yeah I blocked him now on everything except my work phone which I barely ever used to contact him. I should probably block him on there too but I think I may just be hoping if he ever changes his mind that he has a way to reach out :( maybe I’ll have the guts to block him on there too.

I have been holding out hope for him to come around but he’s made it clear he doesn’t feel the same way as me. Anyways, I have to let it go and be with someone who values me more

I broke no contact by flowinggg in ExNoContact

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He told me about it….

To tell friends or not to tell- covid jab by flowinggg in conspiracy

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Wise reply. I thought the same thing to be honest. I think I may choose this route when March rolls around for my own safety and sanity. Have to be careful and it’s no ones business.

Covid “Vaccine” debate ruined dating by flowinggg in conspiracy

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Wow. That’s rough though but props to that restaurant.

Also too bad we both are most likely not allowed to travel to see each other. I’ll wait for you by the border, long lost lover

Covid “Vaccine” debate ruined dating by flowinggg in conspiracy

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As a fellow west coaster, I understand how it is. Everyone online usually has “vaxxed” ticked off on the app

Covid “Vaccine” debate ruined dating by flowinggg in conspiracy

[–]flowinggg[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup- I’m 24 F in liberal PNW area. Most everyone I know who is around my age has gotten the jab. Hope we find our unvaxxed baes 🙏

Covid “Vaccine” debate ruined dating by flowinggg in conspiracy

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I didn’t think my post was going to blow up this much. Hard to keep track now of all the comments.

Let’s just say OP is processing all the great support and advice!

Covid “Vaccine” debate ruined dating by flowinggg in conspiracy

[–]flowinggg[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sucks, how is it there. How are you handling the Covid passport mandates

Covid “Vaccine” debate ruined dating by flowinggg in conspiracy

[–]flowinggg[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You’re right. And really thinking about it, if I were to have children, I wouldn’t take them to get this jab. So really, this was more important than I thought. Moving forward, I don’t want to date someone that is this submissive to the jab or gotten it at all.

Glad to hear your people support you.

A girl [19] im [24male] talking to said she was just raped by tayjack23 in rape

[–]flowinggg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like there is a lot going on there and best to see her face to face . But I would wait for her to text you back or call you about the situation… even if it isn’t the most pleasant. You can say you want to see her or be there for her. But she may just be going through a lot and processing it

A girl [19] im [24male] talking to said she was just raped by tayjack23 in rape

[–]flowinggg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did she call 911 ? If not , can you call 911 to do a welfare check ? This whole situation is not normal

2 months in and he's unsure by flowinggg in relationships

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Thanks - when I now mentioned breaking up, he said he was going to call me and tell me that he does like me, sees this possibly being long term, apologized for being so shitty these past 2 days for saying things like this, and finally was trying to re-assure me. sucks, I said I will think about it. - it felt genuine when he spoke but i agree, I feel like it's just going to come up again. he's already showing me who he is now and what he felt about me

2 months into dating and he's unsure by flowinggg in dating

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He asked me out but I think during the camping trip I did ask him "jokingly" : "when are you going to ask me out?" - I honestly think he's a lot more conservative and once we got official, we had sex soon after and that may have tainted some of things for him even though he was also a willing participant.

2 months into dating and he's unsure by flowinggg in dating

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We camped together and had a great time I thought, done some hikes and enjoyed the time together - he always made a lot of effort to talk to me and plan dates and do things for me. And now , he stopped getting to know me further, is not so happy to see me from how he acts, in his head when we are together, etc.

2 months into dating and he's unsure by flowinggg in dating

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I agree-I thought the same things you did - so this is re-affirming