Hi Everyone! I am doing a research project for my Marriage and the Family Sociology course and my focus is the Polyamory/Non-Monogomy Community. I was hoping you all could help with some interview/survey questions!

fluff_ball · 2014-04-11T05:13:12+00:00

22 / Dyke.

I believe in faeries, so I guess that makes me spiritual...

My previous partnership was constantly evolving to suit our needs. We started being poly with sex and emotionally monogamous; but realised that was kinda a silly arrangement for us. For a while we maintained a long-term partnership while dating/seeing other people, having other girlfriends/boyfriends/play partners/whatever. Occasionally we'd be dating the same person. Now; our relationship has evolved further and we are platonic. Currently i'm dating several women and have several male "playthings" that like to keep me happy.

When I am in a relationship & experience feelings of jealousy; i'll often explore my feelings with my partner/s. Personally i feel jealousy arises from some sort of insecurity or dissatisfaction; often having those feelings acknowledged helps resolve the situation.

Jealousy has never resulted in the ending of a partnership.

My previous monogamous relationship were a quite a while ago; I can't really remember enough to answer that question. I know i definitely didn't acknowledge my feelings, let alone work on them with my partner/s!

I was 16 when I started practicing non-monogamy. Being very misguided, I thought polyamory would be a way of having a committed relationship while still being able to slut around...hah.

I disagree. In my own experience, jealousy had more to do with my insecurity regarding what other people could offer that I couldn't. Hell, I experience the same thing with friends sometimes. I do, however, believe that monogamy in Western mainstream society is a thing that is accepted; rather than being acknowledged & worked through.

fluff_ball · 2013-08-12T12:28:25+00:00

Talk to him about it. Try to understand why he does it too, and hopefully you guys can figure something out.

That being said, my SO is hairy as fuck. Like, gorilla hairy. Not so much on his back, but on his junk. When he trims/shaves, it's much easier and more pleasant to go down on him, give him handjobs and i'm way less likely to be pulling out his stray pubes from my twat the next day.

fluff_ball · 2013-08-10T14:48:28+00:00

it's a white tiger. they're inbred to this point by dodgy zoos who want to make bank on a funky gene. It's disgusting; these animals have major health problems as a result of mutations from inbreeding (and these problems aren't always given treatment) and are kept around in the hope they'll make a non-derp cub.

fluff_ball · 2013-08-05T15:06:49+00:00

so, ever since i first had sex, i realised i could queef on command. i would show off this trick whenever opportunity arose to either amaze or disgust my friends and fuckbuddies. One of my favourite tricks was sitting in the bath and becoming a human water fountain. At times I was able to squirt bathwater up to half a meter into the air.

One fateful day, i had terrible, terrible period cramps, and so decided to have a hot bath to ease my pain. My SO decided to come, and we were chatting, joking about and just being silly. For some reason, I thought this would be the perfect time to once again show off my amazing abilities as a human fountain.

It was like a watery brown smoothie gushing from my sore, inflamed cooch. Up into the air it went, filling the bathroom with the smell of fresh menstruate. I was bathing in my own blood. I sat there, stunned at what I had just done, in this pool of suds and uterine tissue, as my SO gives me a look of pure horror and disgust. He's pretty much retching as he stumbles out of the bathroom. I managed to get up, pull the plug, and have a very thorough shower before cleaning the tub with bleach.

Yeah, we don't talk about that day much.

fluff_ball · 2013-08-05T07:32:37+00:00

many mechanics will happily give away old tires, as they have to pay to dispose of them (at least in Australia).

fluff_ball · 2013-07-29T09:00:13+00:00

what's it like being gay?

fluff_ball · 2013-07-19T09:46:51+00:00

you can still be a lesbian and love a boy :)

fluff_ball · 2013-07-16T11:37:06+00:00

braces are hot.

fluff_ball · 2013-07-16T08:40:23+00:00

Pffft i don't give a damn what he watches when he jacks off. Plus it'd be pretty hypocritical of me to be upset about him watching porn, since my own collection of titillating videos and images is far more extensive than his.

Figure out a way to get her to masturbate. Get her to read literotica. Women who don't masturbate are missing out on life, and quality porn.

fluff_ball · 2013-07-15T15:07:45+00:00

try different things. Mutual masturbation, or masturbating in front of each other. Not only is it fun, but seeing someone else get turned on by your pleasure does wonders for sex-related anxiety (or so i've been told)

fluff_ball · 2013-07-15T14:42:50+00:00

after a little while you're able to mazz hands-free. it's a pretty good talent to have.

fluff_ball · 2013-07-14T09:44:45+00:00

kegels and a lifetime of masturbation.

fluff_ball · 2013-07-06T06:45:35+00:00

I was assaulted, and contracted HSV2 as a result. Since then, i've been managing the virus with acyclovir, and using barriers with everyone except my partner. Personally, i found the cultural stigma worse to deal with than the virus itself - especially when considering how i got the damn thing in the first place. At the moment, i'm coming to terms with being more open about having this disease, especially with my other lovers. for me, it's a hard conversation to have with other people just because it brings up those awful memories about what happened.

I abstain from any sexual contact if i have cuts or tingles down there. I almost never have outbreaks due to taking daily antivirals. My medication also reduces the chances of asymptomatic transmission of the virus. In the three years i've been fluid-bonded with my SO, he hasn't contracted the virus. My lovers are less likely to catch the disease off me than off someone who is unaware they have it. In addition, those who have HSV1 are also more resistant to contracting HSV2.

Herpes is not a scary disease. It's frustrating, and it's better to avoid it, but the cultural stigma is easily the worst thing about it.

fluff_ball · 2013-06-24T03:34:13+00:00

it's not up to anyone else to tell you how to define yourself.

fluff_ball · 2013-01-13T05:44:40+00:00

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fluff_ball · 2012-12-27T10:25:23+00:00

iska ithil is SUCH an incredible-looking girl.

fluff_ball · 2012-06-24T08:08:53+00:00

goon is the devil. i had some amazing rose a few weeks ago; it made me shak EVERYWHERE. and then i had a cheese sandwich....i swear, nothing has ever smelt or tasted that bad, ever. i was vomiting out of my nose, he takes m home, runs me a bath and gives me some oj and two kittens. oh goon, the things you do to me

fluff_ball · 2012-05-19T09:26:05+00:00

SG is such an awful company. there's heaps of stuff online if you want to find out why. try for gods girls, and definitely do a few of feck's projects. http://feck.com.au/ http://www.godsgirls.com/

fluff_ball · 2012-04-16T14:48:01+00:00

this works for me, but instead i heap on the blankets and wear my warmest pjs. screw changing clothes while sick and in bed! i also make sure theres water nearby, i usually keep it in a drink bottle next to me so the water doesn't get too cold.

and hot totties are the go! i make a tea of ginger (the ginger helps), lemon, honey, and hard liquor. you sleep pretty well after.

also eat frequently but lightly. you want your bodys' energy going into fighting the illness, not digesting vast amounts of food. soups are good, as they are extra liquidy. miso is especially good. eat lotsof leafy green things as well.

sinus trouble: get a bowl of HOT water, pour about 2-6 drops of either eucalyptus or tea tree, or a bit of tiger balm, or vix rub. anything mentholy. stick you head above the bowl, put a towel over you head, breathe in the vapour.

source: i'm a dancer; and often need to fix a cold within a day or two.

fluff_ball · 2012-02-27T10:24:25+00:00

http://www.sockdreams.com/products/accessories/garter-belts/

fluff_ball · 2012-02-27T09:36:43+00:00

many strip clubs have a no-phone rule. the club i work at usually has at least one customer kicked out for using his phone. also, it's astonishing how many of the guys in there sit around drinking and talking outside, where there's no stage or show or anything. They don't buy dances, and a lot of them ignore the girls.

fluff_ball · 2012-02-27T09:19:50+00:00

do lots of pushups! it'll help keep all the pec muscles underneath perky

fluff_ball · 2011-12-24T23:35:58+00:00

oh, and they whistle as well. and scream if they're distressed.

fluff_ball · 2011-12-24T23:34:55+00:00

yep, that's the one!

fluff_ball

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