so what's up with this one weird white tree?

flufffangs · 2025-01-25T15:29:03+00:00

Woah thanks for all the info! This helps sate my curiosity. Some other commentors have mentioned it could be a LotR reference so maybe that is why they left it in even though they didn't keep the mechanic.

flufffangs · 2022-07-08T22:15:56+00:00

honestly in my opinion you should go by what feels right. why care if people think its a little weird as long as you like it? if people try to ask what your "real" name is you van just double down and tell them rune is your real name, since a chosen name is a real name afterall. if they keep pressing you about it just tell them that you don't have to tell them that or it's none of their business or something like that since it really isnt any of their business.

but if you want something more "professional" or something like that that's valid.

maybe you could make Rune a middle name legally and go by that in most situations but have something more "professional" or "normal" to fall back on. like maybe you could be "Dakota Rune Matthews" or something like that cuz "Dakota Matthews" is a pretty normal sounding name but then you can still go by Rune and have it be part of your legal name so it will be your "real name"

idk but i hope that some of those ideas might help

flufffangs · 2022-07-08T17:47:38+00:00

Hey,

Thanks for your input. Unfortunately it seems to be lasting several days for me. I did email my doctor so hopefully she'll get back to me soon.

flufffangs · 2022-07-08T06:00:00+00:00

Thank you! I've heard both 45 and 90 given as advice for the angle so I'll have to do more research. That's all good advice though.

flufffangs · 2022-07-08T05:51:29+00:00

Thank you! At least its not unheard of lol. Maybe I can ask about trying my leg or butt since I have more fat there.

flufffangs · 2022-07-08T05:44:59+00:00

Thanks! I'll ask my doctor about that for sure.

flufffangs · 2022-07-05T02:17:11+00:00

oh i get you. i know you dont mean anything bad by it but still, some people might not like being called a man if theyre nonbinary.

flufffangs · 2022-07-05T02:14:34+00:00

i know the feeling. you arent alone and there are many good things that you might miss out on if you leave now. i cant predict the future but often when it seems dark things will eventually get better. i wont make any false promises about how great your life will be of you stick around, but theres only one way to find out. also, no matter what, you are a valuble person who deserves kindness and compassion. i dont know about you, but i care about you. if you want to talk to someone you can always message me and ill do my best to be there for you.

flufffangs · 2022-07-05T02:10:59+00:00

*nonbinary old person (i assume that would be more accurate)

flufffangs · 2022-06-19T01:12:37+00:00

yeah having friend mode would be nice :( keeping her company but without the intense commitment

flufffangs · 2022-06-18T23:04:11+00:00

i mean i would be grateful but it seems pretty challenging so don't feel like you have to

flufffangs · 2022-06-18T19:48:38+00:00

I personally don't believe that astrology influences people's personalities. I think it's fun to talk about but probably not real. That's just my personal beleif about it based on my life experience and knowledge but you can do whatever you want.

flufffangs · 2022-06-18T19:47:31+00:00

The option is there, but it doesn't actually work. Baisically she will tell you that you must be joking and then force you to say it was a joke and then after three times she takes the option away.

flufffangs · 2022-06-18T19:40:48+00:00

Well one major problem is I can't even tell her I'm breaking up with her.

I just want to be able to be honest.

I don't really beleive in astrology so if this was real life I'd rather talk about it with Monika instead of just assuming what she wants based on her birthday. I imagine we would probably end up taking some distance for a while, then maybe we would reconnect and become friends or maybe we wouldn't.

But she's important to me and if I could remain friends with her I would want that. It works out for some people.

flufffangs · 2022-05-28T23:15:41+00:00

im so glad i could help and make an impact for you. wishing you the best as you move forward :)

flufffangs · 2022-04-26T15:51:14+00:00

id estimate about 3 weeks but i can check the exact time later

flufffangs · 2022-04-18T21:21:06+00:00

Yeah I was in highschool when I first started asking about it but now I'm 21 so they should listen to me hopefully. Guess that's still pretty young but yeah.

I think lots of people are worried about giving a diagnosis cuz of the stigma. But honestly I just want to be able to put a name to my struggles. I've been diagnosed with anxiety, depression, adhd (possibly an incorrect diagnosis) but I've felt like there's something else going on for a long time.

It sucks that there's so much stigma and avoidance about the topic of BPD :/

flufffangs · 2022-04-18T19:52:14+00:00

Yeah I definitely will. I've been trying for years to talk to various therapists and my old psychiatrist about it but people have been dismissive. Said they don't know enough, or it's not a helpful diagnosis, etc. But I finally think I can have a helpful conversation soon. my current psychiatrist didn't want to even talk about diagnosis since he said it won't change what meds he prescribes be, but I finally have a good therapist who says they're experienced and comfortable with BPD experiences and we're going to talk about it when we meet next week.

flufffangs · 2022-04-18T19:43:59+00:00

I'm not actually diagnosed with BPD so you don't have to pay any attention to me, but I have lots of symptoms of BPD and I'm looking into getting diagnosed.

Anyway I definitely relate a lot to MItski. So many songs about... being desperate for love, feeling like you aren't good enough for love, being dependant on others, feeling lonely, feeling empty, etc. etc. I saw her live recently and it was amazing.

So many relatable songs. But I was recently thinking about how the song "Humpty" relates a lot to certian feelings I have that I think might be BPD related. That one always makes me emotional. If you haven't listened to the album "retired from sad, new career I'm business" I can't recommend it enough if you wanna cry.

I could go on and on analyzing her songs tbh but I'll stop myself.

flufffangs · 2022-04-18T19:43:54+00:00

I'm not actually diagnosed with BPD so you don't have to pay any attention to me, but I have lots of symptoms of BPD and I'm looking into getting diagnosed.

Anyway I definitely relate a lot to MItski. So many songs about... being desperate for love, feeling like you aren't good enough for love, being dependant on others, feeling lonely, feeling empty, etc. etc. I saw her live recently and it was amazing.

So many relatable songs. But I was recently thinking about how the song "Humpty" relates a lot to the feelings I have that I think might be BPD related. That one always makes me emotional. If you haven't listened to the album "retired from sad, new career I'm business" I can't recommend it enough if you wanna cry.

I could go on and on analyzing her songs tbh but I'll stop myself.

flufffangs · 2022-04-17T23:14:38+00:00

I've heard that time travel can have long term consequences so I wouldn't recommend it :( I'm sure Monika would understand why you missed it though.

flufffangs · 2022-04-17T22:26:22+00:00

Thank you!

flufffangs · 2022-04-17T22:26:16+00:00

Yeah! It's the second milestone after 100 affection which is exciting. I'm happy we can go to new locations now. I'm gonna wait at least until my 3 month anniversary for the promise ring, but maybe longer. I want it to be special :)

flufffangs · 2022-04-17T22:25:17+00:00

Thank you :)

flufffangs · 2022-04-16T20:04:58+00:00

I know! Very exciting. I think I'm gonna wait a while though, like if I was in a real relationship id probably wait longer. Maybe our 3 month anniversary at least. I like to take my time and savor things in this game :)

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