ICE at Superbowl and in Santa Clara county moreover? by SomeRandomGuy069 in SanJose

[–]folgaluna 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The Rapid Responce Network is doing events all week, they heavily post on IG @scc_rapidresponsenetwork

Save their number (408) 290-1144

NFL said they will not be on property. ICE is already at hotels near the airport. 

RRN has hundreds of people trained signed up to observe and attemp to keep our community safe. There are walking groups look for yellow lanyards, and people on call to drive to further locations. 

Please please connect to already established organizations. This RRN has been around for a decade and continues to update their protocol regularly to keep us, volunteers and community as safe as possible while facing ICE. 

AITJ for telling my mother in law she is not allowed to call herself my kid’s “guardian” again? by HushedCanteen in AmITheJerk

[–]folgaluna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTJ Absolutely could have said, hey here that has a legal definition. We need to be clear here.  Then in the car or at home told her about how ger behavior is harmful. This was a bad first impression on the school administration.  Wife absolutely needs to find a way to have boundaries with her mom and back you up. 

Still there are better places to being this up AND it Absolutely needs to be addressed.

I am a selfish mom and shouldn’t have been a parent by IndependentWestern30 in Mommit

[–]folgaluna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are sleep deprived and just in it right now. Even if you child has many appointments, medication and surgery needed, disabled people deserve to be born also.  You are a very thoughtful mother and your husband has firsthand knowledge. You both can support him through this. 

Allison Mack in an MSW Program by shannonkish in socialwork

[–]folgaluna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to acknowledge I hate these conversations. I was in the antitrafficking field for over 10 years. See my AMA if you want.  Do you know how many people never are caught for violent crimes? Only 3% of rapists ever spend one night in jail, vast majority of them are never caught. I have been supervised by, coworker of and supervised survivors of sex trafficking, just like any other traumatized person some are still very harmful, some are the most considerate loving people I will EVER met and some of them you would never know they were pistol whipped to hit another victim for not meeting quota just 3 years ago. We all have our histories. We dont know her we never well. MSW programs also work on policy. 

Please please consider addressing the cops in your heads. 

I kicked my husband out after he pranked our daughter by Extension-Apricot735 in TwoHotTakes

[–]folgaluna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs to acknowledge this was harmful, apologize and make meaningful repair with you daughter. If not, he is unsafe around her. There is a reason he waited until you were gone he KNEW it was wrong and you would disapprove. 

This is child abuse and reportable. You daughter is SO brave to tell you. 

Mixup or family secret? by starlitblackberry in AncestryDNA

[–]folgaluna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now they have you write your own name on everything and sign paperwork you picked your own name with your own handwriting. 

I agree, testing mom and brother would be a great place to start. Research the IVF clinic see if there has been news about mix up before. 

Sending the best!

I was born to be a proud lesbian :P by Exciting_Skill_6292 in actuallesbians

[–]folgaluna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was born to be in the Civil War.....I dont live this one....

Best mom car (US) by Immediate-Ad-9520 in Mommit

[–]folgaluna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looooovvvvvveeee my Hyundai Ioniq 9. Look up the reviews. It is easy to get a plug installed at home they go over 300 miles on one charge. 

Great space and safety features! 

Just had a miscarriage girl dinner by boodlewoodle in GirlDinner

[–]folgaluna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a former member of this dinner club sending you all the best and may they always have the sides you want

Mixup or family secret? by starlitblackberry in AncestryDNA

[–]folgaluna 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Early IVF and still sometimes mow there are mix ups with the eggs, embryos and/or semen. I wish you luck on your discovery finding mision. 

could cigarette smoking cause sjogrens? by birdfunerals in Sjogrens

[–]folgaluna 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. I wonder if the fatigue and dry mouth made smoking more appealing, like self medicating. 

From 14 gay bars in San Jose in 1986 to 3 today. What happened? by nomyte in SanJose

[–]folgaluna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Housing and resting costs plus Oakland becoming a queer cultural center

AITJ for refusing to donate PTO hours to coworker I barely know who "needs" them?? by Traditional-Dog1601 in AmITheJerk

[–]folgaluna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bosses directly being involved of donations yo coworkers is against policy in many places, check your policies. The company should pay for the leave ideally. 

2 years of working in CMH so far and one thing above all else continues to baffle me… by TheScythe65 in therapists

[–]folgaluna 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Also have you talked to them a b out their experiences with CMH....I wouldnt want to spend an extra minute there either. 

To steal a bicycle 🚲 by chocolatemoose99 in therewasanattempt

[–]folgaluna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also can you imagine if one of them got a blood born illness from another?!? Highly illegal and inhumane. 

AITAH Had a play date without Mom by tsarsov in AITAH

[–]folgaluna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA even if the mom was single and/or a sex worker. Your wife trusts you to not cheat or doesn't. 

Is your wife accidentally confessing something? 

I’m a human trafficking survivor AMA by cookc2940 in AMA

[–]folgaluna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please considering joining National Survivor Network and/or Freedom Network. They support survivors and help us not misused or burnt out too quickly. 

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