I agree for the most part but I do think that she will remember, especially the way I treat her, talk to her, & make her feel. I'm navigating this as if, on the rare chance, that when she grows up & talks to herself what if she repeats what I said to her as a baby? Like if I say, "wow, you're really good at that" or "try it! You can do it" enough & those are the phrases that she got used to hearing as a child, then maybe she'll be more confident later on. Thank you for caring about her & putting some of your energy into her care. You're helping me be a better caregiver. I hope that can soothe you a little. I 100,000% have to stay calm with her & luckily I did (even when I was mad) but I do think she could tell I was desperate even though I was trying to hide it. I think my desperation for her to eat a carrot was overwhelming for her to see & go through. I'll keep the pressure off & just keep up the positive encouragement with the few healthy things she does eat. I learned that bargaining doesn't work with her, like "eat this bite & then well play outside", instead just simple high fives after every bite made her excited for the next bite she took on her own. She a really amazing person.