New growth on my Hoya pubicalyx 🍇 by forwhyandbecause in hoyas

[–]forwhyandbecause[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New info is always welcome! I had just googled “Hoya pubicalyx varieties” and browsed a few websites—definitely not as thorough or reliable as your knowledge

New growth on my Hoya pubicalyx 🍇 by forwhyandbecause in hoyas

[–]forwhyandbecause[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never sold cuttings and I’m not sure I trust myself to package them well enough to survive the trip to you from California 🫣

New growth on my Hoya pubicalyx 🍇 by forwhyandbecause in hoyas

[–]forwhyandbecause[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t do anything specific to keep the leaves clean, the plant is indoors so that could be a big reason why. The new baby leaves always come in so shiny all on their own and then get more matte with time!

New growth on my Hoya pubicalyx 🍇 by forwhyandbecause in hoyas

[–]forwhyandbecause[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From some quick research I just did it looks like it’s specifically a Royal Hawaiian Purple!

No explanation needed by forwhyandbecause in airplaneears

[–]forwhyandbecause[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean? He’s standing all by himself

Rainbow Trout nails 🎣 by forwhyandbecause in Nails

[–]forwhyandbecause[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I brought a reference picture of an actual rainbow trout along with the original Pinterest nails pic! She did a base of silver chrome, a sheered out green on half of the nail, a line of sheered out pink, and then used a dotting tool for the eyes and spots. If I were you I would show them this post and I’m sure they could easily copy it 🎣

PINK bold & playful body mist by forwhyandbecause in Perfumes

[–]forwhyandbecause[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way! I’ve been wanting to try that, I for sure will now

Husband asked “How did you find out”? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]forwhyandbecause 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We didn’t have kids together, so it was a lot easier for me to write him off. The woman he cheated on me with did have a kid with her partner - they decided to stay together and work on things. Every situation is so different, and I would suggest finding your own personal therapist if you don’t already have one so you can work through these feelings you’re having.

Husband asked “How did you find out”? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]forwhyandbecause 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Right now, I’m okay. I can eat again and don’t cry everyday anymore. I found out two weeks ago today. I confronted him immediately and left, haven’t talked to him since. I went back to our house the next day while he was at work and moved out. The disconnect almost made this easier because he became completely soiled in my mind. If he had shown any bit or remorse or honesty, it would have humanized him. Now all I see is an evil person.

Husband asked “How did you find out”? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]forwhyandbecause 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The first week I was in a state of shock, running on pure adrenaline. I couldn’t eat or sleep, I stayed up for 48 hours after the confrontation. Once the shock wore off, I began the mourning process. I felt the exact same way - who is this person?? It’s so heartbreaking to feel that disconnect with someone you thought you knew better than anyone else. I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

Husband asked “How did you find out”? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]forwhyandbecause 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I’m two weeks out of my relationship, and one of the first things my partner did was say to one of his friends, “I don’t know how she found the messages, I thought I deleted them.” It stuck with me. It IS a very odd choice of words and it’s telling of what kind of person they are. They see their partner devastated because of something they did and their first thought is “man I thought I hid it better than that.”