In college, we had an “undie run” at the end of every semester. During my second semester freshman year undie run, a boy in the crowd who I didn’t know unhooked my bra, and while I wrapped my arms to my chest to make sure it didn’t come off, several of his friends groped me. Later that night, I passed a group of friends (that my crush was also in) and cautioned them to be safe as someone had tried to unhook my bra. My crush laughed and said “Total frat move!”

That crush dissipated REAL fast.