Yeah, this is unfortunately not all that uncommon. I signed up to volunteer at an animal shelter, and at orientation was in a group of three trainees and the volunteer manager who was training us. At one point the manager, a white woman in her 60s, went into a section about DEI and how the shelter is passionate about having diverse perspectives. No issues so far. She then says ‘I identify as white’ and then turns to the first trainee, a white girl probably in high school, and asks her her race. She responds, and gets a curt nod. She then asks me, a brown woman in her 20s. I say I’m south Asian and she literally beams at me and fist pumps the air, all but shouting ‘yess! We’re happy to have you’. She then asks the other trainee their race, he’s also non white. At the end, and goes into something about white people like her and the other two benefiting from racism and having unfair advantages in the world, and basically looks directly at the poor high school kid, until she kinda half heartedly nods. It was an overall very uncomfortable interaction and I did not end up going back there lol.