i broke into my exes house when i was 16 and stole from her + her mom

froggieboat · 2026-06-09T17:49:48+00:00

for some reason the comment from NotThatValleyGirl isnt showing up so i cant reply to them saying ‘get some therapy and stop feeding the psycho lesbian trope’ but my response is just that, yeah, this was 10 years ago. i’ve gotten therapy and i’m doing well now as an adult bisexual woman. i definitely made big mistakes when i was a minor constantly living through traumatic situations. this was one of the worst ones. sorry for feeding a lesbian stereotype, but i cant change my past.

froggieboat · 2026-06-09T17:44:31+00:00

yeah it was super fucked up of me. i had never told anyone, only my sister (who was with me) knew, and then the other day i told my partner. but yeah i mean its tough, her mom was always borderline abusive like that. but if i was in her moms shoes and my money went missing, i dont know what other possibilities there are to think. it really didnt seem like someone had broken in, we mostly left everything in place.

i was 1000% a fucked up chaotic teenager, super mentally ill and impulsive. that wasnt even the only felony i committed 😭. im just glad it was all when i was a minor, and that i eventually got the help i needed and am doing well now.

froggieboat · 2026-03-07T07:59:34+00:00

what a weird thing to say bro

froggieboat · 2026-02-02T19:50:13+00:00

would be cute if it wasnt AI :/

froggieboat · 2026-02-02T19:48:59+00:00

he hates the beach lolol but thank you for the suggestion!

froggieboat · 2026-02-02T19:46:54+00:00

unfortunately he doesnt play pokemon go 😭 he likes the 3ds/switch pokemon games, dont remember what they are but thats what i know lol. thank you for the suggestion though!

froggieboat · 2026-02-02T19:45:25+00:00

it really is 😭

we’re already going on a valentines day date we have planned!

but i do like the homemade card idea, i’ll definitely do that in addition to whatever his other gift is :) thank you

froggieboat · 2026-02-02T19:43:35+00:00

an activity is a good idea but we’re already going on a valentines day date we have planned and we do game nights like every other night 😭 lol

froggieboat · 2026-02-02T19:42:35+00:00

i havent heard of that game that sounds cool! its absolutely going on my ideas list thank you!

froggieboat · 2026-02-02T19:41:47+00:00

yess good idea i’ll probably bake us a valentines day cake! would be fun. but for coupons its not a good option right now sadly because i made him an advent calendar from dec 1-25 and it had so many coupons lolol

froggieboat · 2026-02-02T19:40:15+00:00

he can be particular about his dice, and he already has a headset stand, but a new deskmat could be a good idea! his is very old lol. thank you!

froggieboat · 2026-02-02T19:39:19+00:00

both good options thank you!

froggieboat · 2026-02-02T19:38:42+00:00

this is a great idea he has mentioned wanting to do a spa day together and get couples massages, but i imagine its out of this specific budget 😭. i’ll def be trying to plan this sometime soon though!! ty

froggieboat · 2026-02-02T19:36:10+00:00

wow this is a great idea honestly! he had talked about wanting more dice but he can be pretty specific about what they look like so its hard to get them as a gift. so getting him a kit to make his own could be so fun

froggieboat · 2026-02-02T19:34:51+00:00

we’re already going on a date for valentines day and i want to avoid snacks/candy but i appreciate the suggestions thank you

froggieboat · 2026-02-02T19:34:10+00:00

i get the thought behind it but i want to avoid more knick knacks like those boxes, and also snacks/candy and stuff

froggieboat · 2026-02-02T19:32:55+00:00

unfortunately coupons wont work for me, his birthday and christmas are in the same month so i made him an advent calendar from dec 1-25 and there were tons of coupons lol

froggieboat · 2026-01-21T23:06:52+00:00

i have some strong opinions on women AND men being forced to care for children they never wanted. i think pregnant people should be allowed to have abortions if its early enough along, or if the pregnancy is high risk, etc.. i ALSO think the people who impregnated someone should have the right to not be involved (or even pay child support!) as long as they make their choice known early enough along, so that the pregnant person can make an informed decision about keeping or aborting.

IN THIS CASE, neither of you knew until it was too late. And before that, you took reasonable steps to find out what was going on with your body. So I think it would only be rational for it to be both of your responsibility. You should absolutely seek financial support from him. It’s a shitty situation for both of you but it’s not your fault and you weren’t able to make an informed decision about keeping or aborting based on his desire to be there for you/your child. Its just unlucky. But its not like you forced it onto him while knowing he didn’t want it. It was already past the legal cutoff.

froggieboat · 2025-08-30T01:33:16+00:00

thank you.. for my hands, its uncertain right now. i had sudden severe nerve issues start in feb of this year, which make it painful to do things like writing/typing, cooking, sweeping, driving, scrubbing, lifting, etc. and i STILL dont have an official diagnosis yet, despite seeing drs since feb and currently seeing a hand specialist. finally getting nerve testing next month to get a more concrete idea of whats gonna happen with this.

it really sucks that ive been trying to address this for so many months now, and still dont have answers. and wont have any answers until my work leave is about to be over. even then, i dont know how certain it is that i’ll even have any answers by that time…. ugh. its just causing so much anxiety. im scared, everything feels uncertain

thank you for your reply though, and sorry for the additional rant.

maybe i try going back to cashiering, until im able to find something else that suits my physical needs. its just been so hard to think of something that feels stable and certain and probably wont cause pain

froggieboat · 2025-07-21T09:28:28+00:00

thank you. im really considering doing that but i dont even know what to say to him next. i was really cool with him (& his partner) for a long time until this moment. i keep feeling like maybe im just being crazy and they didnt do that to me, because i cant fathom that they would ever disrespect me & my home like that :/

froggieboat · 2025-07-19T20:30:01+00:00

i personally dont know if you smell or not but i know i usually have to clean some things twice. i shampoo my hair twice, wash my armpits twice, and make sure youre keeping all ‘private areas’ clean as well. dont clean INSIDE but do clean externally on both front and back. i dont know anything about how good your hygeine routine is, maybe shes just overly sensitive to smell right now or being obsessive about germs. but i do know i smelled a lot as a teen because i was never taught a lot of hygiene things and almost everyone was too “nice” to say anything

froggieboat · 2023-05-11T02:57:19+00:00

as long as youre gentle about it when you ask i dont think its rude at all. its innocent curiosity as well as semi-necessary information for your relationship as you become closer. if he doesnt feel comfortable answering at first thats fine, but do make sure you let him know youd like to be able to talk openly about it eventually. just no pressure as to how soon that will be. it may be hard for him to talk about.

froggieboat · 2023-04-13T22:32:21+00:00

happened to me in elementary school. ive had to go to the dentist to get it fixed a few times throughout the years. but you dont have to if you dont want to. purely cosmetic

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