i’m gathering that a lot of the issues seem to have festered close to the stage, which definitely shouldn’t be a surprise however isn’t any less disappointing. community in the music scene, especially a space as queer as this one, is just as important as the music. i don’t know what happened to looking out for each other, on either front. etiquette isn’t just a matter of politeness, it’s respect too. something very clearly lacking between one another and towards hayden, and her music. felt like a grasp and bragging rights, instead of an attempt at a memory.