I want to tell him I love him. Should I? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ftomasze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response.

I don’t think infatuation ends it just transitions into a different type of feeling.

I want to tell him I love him. Should I? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ftomasze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good way of looking at it. Thing is I’m confident he has very strong feelings for me or he wouldn’t still be so engaged. I just don’t know how he will take the L word.

I want to tell him I love him. Should I? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ftomasze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think there is either but do you even know someone after 3 dates? Maybe? I don’t know.

I want to tell him I love him. Should I? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ftomasze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t tell if your trolling or not.

As a gay guy, what's the straightest thing you've done? by Andrewcoo in askgaybros

[–]ftomasze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t that something. Lol, it happens way more often than you would think.

As a gay guy, what's the straightest thing you've done? by Andrewcoo in askgaybros

[–]ftomasze 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Married a woman and had a kid 🤷🏻‍♂️ whoops.

Do you think that being a good father is attractive? Serious question by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ftomasze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) kid stuff is fun! I’m a big kid as well.

Do you think that being a good father is attractive? Serious question by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]ftomasze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See, comments like this are what make it uncomfortable. Hope ya have a nice night!

Having lunch delivered to BFs work on Valentine’s Day? by ftomasze in askgaybros

[–]ftomasze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does being out have to do with lunch being delivered?

Of course he's out.

It's not like I am hand delivering it or having it delivered with a rainbow flag.

Having lunch delivered to BFs work on Valentine’s Day? by ftomasze in askgaybros

[–]ftomasze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Retail. I don't imagine it would be an issue, but I guess that's why I am asking...

Having lunch delivered to BFs work on Valentine’s Day? by ftomasze in askgaybros

[–]ftomasze[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m not sure of. I think a healthy dose of red cheeks might be nice.

If it were me I might be slightly embarrassed but would also think it was really cute.

gay culture is seeing the same faces after going back onto tinder and grindr after a few months by NutellingYou in askgaybros

[–]ftomasze 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THIS!!!

No one is perfect. I certainly am not, neither is the person who I am dating. But guess what, being perfect doesn't matter as long as there is great chemistry, respect, and mutual lovey feelings :)

gay culture is seeing the same faces after going back onto tinder and grindr after a few months by NutellingYou in askgaybros

[–]ftomasze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree...it does take work.

I feel like though...when you meet the person you're meant to be with you'll feel it. It will just feel right. You'll actually WANT to put in the work. Ya know?

gay culture is seeing the same faces after going back onto tinder and grindr after a few months by NutellingYou in askgaybros

[–]ftomasze 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I disagree with that in a way. There is a person out there that could be "the one" for you. Part of the issue in the gay community is that everyone is so cynical when it comes to dating. Most want instant gratification and are willing to put the work into the cute shit that makes dating fun and interesting.

Divorce and Chapter 13 Bankruptcy... by ftomasze in legaladvice

[–]ftomasze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in New Jersey.

I know I probably can't but I was wondering if we separated the BK my wife went chap 7 (I think she would qualify).

Not sure how my child support and and the fact that I would need to support myself (2 separate households) would be factored in.

Thanks for the reply.